|
stuck in the middle
im always stuck in the middle between my two best friends if one of them goes to hang out w/ the another friend the other gets mad they always seem to fight and im sick of it and its always bugging me they always have good times when they arent fighting but its like they get jealous i have no idea what to do..
-stuck in the middle
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
this has happened to me before. and it totally stinks! i know! u needa tell them both how u feel in a nice way. tell them that sometimes u feel like the third wheel and that ur sick of being stuck in the middle of their arguments. if they were real friends.... they would understand.
]
you should tell them how you feel , or maybe when they fiqht you should`nt hanq out with either of them.
- re nd heath
rate us !
]
You should tell them that they shouldnt fight and it's good to have more than one friend
]
You need to stand firm and let them know that their fights/arguments are not YOUR problem!Let them know that while you're there for them if they ever need anything,it's not fair to put you in the middle when they have a fight.Just ask them "Could you guys please not involve me? It makes me feel like I have to choose sides,and I love both of you,that's not fair!Plus you two need to work out your difficulties on your own!".If they can't understand that....they're not the best kind of friend to have anyway!
]
Just have them talk it out and help them out but make sure you dont get caught in the middle cuz that is worse-trix
]
More Questions: |