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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE? (link)
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best way to go is to get under another boy. sorry feelings arent rational you jsut have to wait for it to slowly subside not much you can do except force yourself to forget about him through heavy drinking.drugs (dont do taht though its bad for you lol)
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ok @ lunch there r 5 of us @ the table..today were just 4 of us...i have this lil habit if something says somethinf funny while im drinking it sometimes comes out..well this girl is always a bitch like if i step on her boot or something she says shell smack me or w/e , today we some how got into the subject of how much we weighted n we were guessing n she got mine right and i was taking a drink and she said it n then had this funny face expression and i actidently sprayed it all over her face and bc i was laughing so hard n she ran into the bathroom n washed it off then came back n 1- threw my snapple out on me, 2- smacked me, i smacked back bc of it and she said dont fucking touch me and im like well then dont fucking smack me! 3- she took my friends notebook and smacked me with it..and then 4th she took my friends water bottle n dumped it on me so i was went all next period..and i had 3 ppl laughing at me...shes such an ass...and being of the year she dumped this minted stuff in my snapple and dared me n my friend to drink it...which we did...we always try to get her back and she refuses to do it...wut the hell do i do? (link)
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do lots of mean stuff to her, put crap in her drink when she isnt looking, thumbtacks on her seat, when shes wearing somethiung taht allows it rip her shit down and make her flash everyone fun stuff like that
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i like this guy but i am not sure if he likes me, how can i find out if he likes me without telling him that i like him? I need advice please!!! (link)
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you say "do you like me" if he says yes it means he does. if he says no it means he does. no that wasnt a type-o.
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Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".
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he likes you. how do i know? i jsut do. tell him you like him and hell say he liks you to.
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im 16.f and my best friend is 13. she likes to boss me around and recently she told me that im so perty and i take everyone away for everyone else. shes not the skinniest person, but hes not overweight. she told me today to gain ten pounds and get ugly or im not realy her friend. im also goin out with her older brother. ( thats not the reason shes my friend tho) and shes told me to break up w/ him b4, but i cant just b/c she says so. she says she gets no attention and nobody likes her. i think i have a future with him and i cant just break it off b/c her. right? thanks.. (link)
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right, if shes asking you all this crap she isnt really your friend. your 16 shes 13? you shouldnt even we working with teh same guy pool as she is. the older brotehr thing i can sorta understand but if shes your friend she should accept it.
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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15 (link)
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yeah your parents need to know since youre so young you basically cant do anything without their signature. what the hell are you doing having unprotected sex anyway? did the condom break? theres something called the morning after pill. see this is why abstinance only education doesnt work. so yeah tell your parents and her parents, sit down with all of them and have a nice converstion about it, assuming her parents dont killy uo first.
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how do you view ratings people gave you for your answers?
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click your advice column and then click view feedback
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I dont know what the category of this is but.. Ok, heres the story this may be long but i'm not sure so if it is i'm sorry but I need all the help i can get with this question. Ok I recently spent the night with a friend of mine and while I was there her dad tried hitting on me asked me if I would have sex with him and asked me if he could kiss me and I said no, and I dont know what to do, her dad even pulled out his thing in front of me which is nasty and after all this happened I didnt go to sleep that night, I stayed up all night watching movies confused on what I should do, I mean should I get a lawer and get him sent to jail or what I am so confused and I dont know what to do, please if anyone can answer this for me I will rate high, and please who ever reads this and gives me an answer dont make jokes about it because this is very serious, thanks to everyone who answers, by the way I will rate high...Thanks advicenators! (link)
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talk to your friend about it first then go from there. she might freak and hate you if you get her dad thrown in jail. still he might be doing it to her other friends or even to her. you should go to your parents too
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Hey everyone. Well i really like this guy. he likes another girl even though she doesnt like him back and she has a steady boyfriend. we're really flirty with each other and i like it a lot. i usually find myself telling me to just go for it, and normally i would, but the fear of rejection is greater than ever because of his crush on someone else. im in 8th grade, and some of you may disagree with me and say that im way too young to be in love. and then there are others that may agree with me. for those of you who find yourself disagreeing, you can stop reading now. and for those of you who have the decency to hear me out, here it goes. we have a lot in common, and we've been through the same situations that i must say are not easy ones. we can relate to each other and usually find ourselves in deep conversations that are normally about crazy and random subjects. for instance tonight, i sent him a link to veiw a picture entitled "above the clouds". it had the same effect upon both of us and that was really nice. he opened up to me and sad straight up that it made him feel really good and that he wiches he could go there and so on. this may sound ridiculous to some of you but im sure some of you understand how hard it must be for an 8th grade guy to come out and say that. ive met a lot of guys like this and have fallen for almost every one of them. we both seem to enjoy each others company especially in our online conversations but i want it to be more than that. we have a lot of the same classes together and we talk to each other but its like he only really hears me out when its online because things are more at ease. after both seeing that picture, we calmed down and just openly discussed things. well anyway, this is getting lengthy, if anyone could tell me why im so attracted to these open and sensitive guys, i'd love to hear it. and by the sound of things, do you see anything happening between us? i mean, do you think he likes me in the slightest bit? thanks guys. i really appreciate it and i rate high. (link)
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yes he likes you. short and sweet
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My mother and I got in a huge fight. I went over like $50 bucks on my cellphone bill, and she was sooo mad!!! So yeah we got in a fight, and now I'm not speaking to her at all. I don't want to apologize to her, because she called me stupid and stuff, I don't know how to apologize to her. Should I just not talk to her all night and then write her a note and leave it for her in the morning, or should I apologize to her tonight to her face? I'm overly confused. Please help me!!! (link)
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my friends cellphone bill was 1400$ one month. most of that was from her ebing stiupid and some late fees but you could always tell her that. you should appoligize to her face, a note really doesnt say much.
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Nearly two weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. He said that he didn't feel anything for me anymore and that he didn't want to be with someone who he didn't feel for. He did it by text message and I was really upset and angry with him. Now, I keep thinking I'm over him but yesterday I found he has a crush on one of my friends who is a year older than us. I thought I was over him but yesterday when he told me how he felt about my friend I was really upset. I keep trying to ignore it and hoping I'll get over him but it isn't working. How do I get over him? (link)
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in a text message? what a jackass doing it bby phone is bad enough but text message? wow thats horrible. anyways its normal to feel a little possisive over your exes when they want to get with your friends. the best thing you can do is encourage them to go out. i know it feels bad now but this is really the best way to help.
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Ok, this might be long and confusing, so I apologize in advance! I will give good rating even just for effort.Ok, I finally started crushing on this guy, lets call him Bob, like 3 months ago, or somehting like that. He and one of my guy friends got into a fight before that, so me and Bob never really talked. I didn't evn know who he was. Then..., I started noticing him, and realized his locker was like 8 aways from mine. I was really phsyced ... I mean I'm a freshmen, and I've had a ouple of crushes this year, but nothing serious, like more then 2 weeks until I started noticing Bob. I started to get all these butterflies. Finally, after two months, I got the courage to finally talk to him. I asked him to meet me in the library once and after that we started talking. That's when I reallly fell for him! =) And then we decidedto keep meeting after school at the library and stuff and I called my friend Alice, because I knew she USED to like him and she talked with him, so I thought maybe she could help a sista out. lol. Firstly, I asked if she liked him and she's like 'um, no, i don't think so ... ' and i explained the whole story and told fhger everything. She said she'd talk to him. So the next day, my friend Kyle calls me and says I saw Alice & Bob in the library on top of each other and flirting, so i was like wtf...?! And I called her, and she said she talked to him and he told her he didn't like me. SO I was like oh, ok, I mean what was I supposed to do? ANd she told me how HE *was all over* HER! And I was like, well are you guys gonna go out or what? And she's like no, he's too much, too fast. And the next day I asked him about her. He's like 'wtf, i hate her. what a jealous bitch. i'd choose you over her ANY day, he told me that like 21 times, lol. And he'slike she's just jealous, what a jealous hoe. So then, I just you know, went on with it and then I hear that he wrote here a not later on that say say said dont ever fucking o talk to me you fucking bitch i hate you dont look atme dont talk to me ... etc. so then she strats saying stiuff that the only reason I like BoB is cause she does, which SOO isn't true, cause I asked her in the first place. S me and her aren't talking and we USED to be best friends, so yeah. then here comes the problem, Monday, no school, Tuesday I saw Bob, and said HEY to him, i was shy, lol, and I havn't seen him since. I asked around, and I thought he had ACes(suspension!) but he didn't and I heard that he left to Siberia or somewhere (he's arabian) because its some arabic holiday. BTW, he'sonly 50% arabic. And i did notice that lots of Arabs were missing in school today, so I'm not sure if its that. then I also heard that he went to iraq or palestine or wherever for 2 years and he's coming back his junior year! i was like no, i seriously wanted to cry. then I heard, he moved/transfered. my one friend has class with him and she said he was moving or something bcz he returned his books and yturned in transfer papers so I'm not sure ... He was actually the first guy I've felt reall good about. I mean just when things were going good, things got screwed up. SO does anyone know if there *IS* an ARABIC HOLIDAY? and please I need help with all of this, I don't even know what to do. I'm like obsessed with the guy, I fell for him wasy too soon and he's just gone for sure now without a site. I'm still going to try to talk to his friends but I'm not sure. I just need some help, what to do about all of this. And I CAN'T moce on ... there is NO ONE else.! thanks for at least taking the time to read this!
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people jsut like to make up stories when some isnt at schoo, seriously hes gone one day and tehres already all these rumours going around? wow thats fast. hell probably be back by the time you read this advice.
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For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think? (link)
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most guys would prefer sluts becasue they can get some. id prefer a girl thats had sex a few times but isnt a slut.
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ok well i had a dream and here it is fro all you dream interpretors...:
ok so theres this guy i made out with once and he was sitting next to another guy thats nice (but i dont like him) and i gave this other guy a hicky... but i dont like this guy socould it be that im trying to make the other one jealous? hmm... i rate 5s (link)
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did the guy reject you? cuz if he did your brain might be throwing up a defense system and rationalize him as being gay. or it could jsut be a smple dream, even freud once saidd "sometimes a banana is jsut a banana"
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well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible. (link)
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tell him or he might go after her.
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ok i went out with this guy i'll call 'bob.' i broke up with him because there was an age difference of 2 years (i'm older), he wasn't very mature, he was very clingy, and he did a lot of my pet peeves but now that we've broken up he's gotten even more annoying. he comes and eats lunch with me and my friends and just sits there and listens, not talking the whole time, and every time he sees me he gravitates towards me. is there any way to tell him to back off nicely? thanks so much :) (link)
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2 years isnt all that much. anyways he probably just wants to stay friends with you. there really isnt a nice way, you can try setting him up with one of your friends
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I have a good friend (Amy), who've been going out with my best guy friend (Jon) for awhile now. Me and Jon do a lot of things together, we're always hanging out. This leads to Amy being jealous of us. Now she's saying we're "together behind closed doors", otherwise, he's cheating on her with me. We both think she's totally crazy, because it's not true at all. She's being super controlling over him. He's not just going to stop hanging out with me, because we've been bestfriends since we were one. He doesn't know what to do, nither do I. He doesn't want to dump her, because he really loves her. But what should we both do to help her realize we're only friends and that's all we'll ever be? (link)
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The spice girls said it best "If you wana be my lover, you gotta get with my friends" youre a part of his life and she needs to accept that. wether she likes itor not it really doesnt mattter she should take the bad with the god ims ure theres stuff about her he doesnt like
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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!! (link)
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probly cuz your better looking than her and shes jelous
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hey... okay where to begin.... almost a year ago i met this really really cute.outgoing.funny. guy. right after we really met we fell for eachother. sounds all good right?? wrong. he has a best friend thats another girl. i didnt have anything wrong with that at all... at first. i knew they had a past together, and i knew they liked eachother a lot, but i never knew what happened between them. in a way his best friend kinda went out with him on a rebound off her X. Well their friendship got weaker and they stopped talking so much. then I met him and everything was good. until they started hanging out again at parties and on weekends and stuff, and EVERYBODY would always come back telling me they had been getting *TOO CLOSE* things went bad i stopped trusting him... we broke up and it wasnt very pretty.We are still "friends" but i got to know his best friend and me and her became pretty close, however, she says she only likes him as a friend and she would never do that to me... but 1/2 of doesnt trust her. I've heard them talk before and she ALMOST tends to lead him on... my X has liked her for like ever and he gets on gettin screwed over. me and my X never really talked after the breakup but now we're talkin again... and i dont kno if i like it. I had too many feeling for him as a boyfriend that i dont think i could ever see him as a friends... is that shallow? im scared if i talk to him all the feelings i had will come rushing back... should i stop talkin to him? should i trust his bestfriend? should i tell her she's leading him on? also im not positive all my feelings for him are gone..... should i totally let go now??
*sorry so long and soo many questions!! but obviously i need a lot of help.....!!* (link)
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so what he had a girl best friend. contrary to popular belief guys can keep it in their pants. you shouldnt have dumped him in the1st place. try to get back with him
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Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please! (link)
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well i havent personally gone through it (im a guy lol) but i have friends who have. if you wana talk you can aim me on my80gighardrive.
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