Hey everyone. Well i really like this guy. he likes another girl even though she doesnt like him back and she has a steady boyfriend. we're really flirty with each other and i like it a lot. i usually find myself telling me to just go for it, and normally i would, but the fear of rejection is greater than ever because of his crush on someone else. im in 8th grade, and some of you may disagree with me and say that im way too young to be in love. and then there are others that may agree with me. for those of you who find yourself disagreeing, you can stop reading now. and for those of you who have the decency to hear me out, here it goes. we have a lot in common, and we've been through the same situations that i must say are not easy ones. we can relate to each other and usually find ourselves in deep conversations that are normally about crazy and random subjects. for instance tonight, i sent him a link to veiw a picture entitled "above the clouds". it had the same effect upon both of us and that was really nice. he opened up to me and sad straight up that it made him feel really good and that he wiches he could go there and so on. this may sound ridiculous to some of you but im sure some of you understand how hard it must be for an 8th grade guy to come out and say that. ive met a lot of guys like this and have fallen for almost every one of them. we both seem to enjoy each others company especially in our online conversations but i want it to be more than that. we have a lot of the same classes together and we talk to each other but its like he only really hears me out when its online because things are more at ease. after both seeing that picture, we calmed down and just openly discussed things. well anyway, this is getting lengthy, if anyone could tell me why im so attracted to these open and sensitive guys, i'd love to hear it. and by the sound of things, do you see anything happening between us? i mean, do you think he likes me in the slightest bit? thanks guys. i really appreciate it and i rate high.
Melanie4981 answered Friday January 21 2005, 9:49 am: Just because your young doesn't mean you don't know how to love!!
Sounds to me that this guy is a bit shy, and guys that are shy and like a girl tend to hide behind things (in this guys case his e-mail!!) and I do think he likes you.
You seem to have a lot in common. The same opinions about things, that stands you in good stead, you know what they say birds of a feather flock together!!
If you want things to go further then maybe you should E-Mail him and ask him to meet you for a coffee/cola etc at the weekend or after school one night then you can sit and talk about how you feel.
Good luck and I hope things work out and you pair get toghether!!
lildiamyn_69 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 9:26 pm: good news! i definitely believe he likes you. really beacuse he opened up to you, and boys usually don't trust girls enough.
I know for a fact that 8th grade is not too young to fall in love, especially w/someone like him.
i love open and sensitive guys too, i guess it's because you get to find out how they truly feel once you get past a certain point, and its easy to trust them.
I think you guys will get much closer if the trust isn't broken. But i wouldn't worry about the girl he likes. He likes you more because he confides in you. So i do see good things for both of you. hope i helped any. :D [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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