Nearly two weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. He said that he didn't feel anything for me anymore and that he didn't want to be with someone who he didn't feel for. He did it by text message and I was really upset and angry with him. Now, I keep thinking I'm over him but yesterday I found he has a crush on one of my friends who is a year older than us. I thought I was over him but yesterday when he told me how he felt about my friend I was really upset. I keep trying to ignore it and hoping I'll get over him but it isn't working. How do I get over him?
skye answered Friday January 21 2005, 12:43 pm: If that guy brokeup with you two times he is not the guy for you. You need a other guy and I bit you he will be jealous and he'll be trying to get back with you [ skye's advice column | Ask skye A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Friday January 21 2005, 12:40 pm: yea i know how it feels. you guys break up, he admits he likes ur best friend. i hear ya. ya sorta gotta sit back and let it blow over. I know you care but thats the only thing you can do. Since you'r friend sed there's no chance.. thats good , so at least they rn't gonna go out. i know its not what you want to here but you gotta let it blow over. xO ali [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
girlygirl answered Friday January 21 2005, 12:36 pm: Glad you added that your friend won't go out with him. Most girlfriends have that rule... especially if he was someone important to you and you still have feelings for. So, at least you have the small satisfaction that he'll like her and she won't like him back. See pal? how's that make ya feel?
Just kidding with the sarcasm, but we can all understand how hard it is to deal with a rejection, and him doing it via txt message is just inexcusable! And men wonder what drives us to be psychos. A straight up.. "i don't want to go out with you anymore" would be good, then we can just cry and get it over with!
But how to get over him? Take care of YOU, do what you want to do, get extra sleep, be cozy cause it takes time. Then freshen up and look for someone who shares the same values that you do... for instance NOT txt messaging a break-up. You seem like you communicate very honestly, so you'll be ready when you meet the great guy that's coming into your life. He is! it's just a matter of time, and you'll think ole' whathisname was an even bigger jerk. Patience is the name of the game. Good luck! [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Friday January 21 2005, 12:27 pm: in a text message? what a jackass doing it bby phone is bad enough but text message? wow thats horrible. anyways its normal to feel a little possisive over your exes when they want to get with your friends. the best thing you can do is encourage them to go out. i know it feels bad now but this is really the best way to help. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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