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i'll give you a good rating - i need help!please!
Ok, this might be long and confusing, so I apologize in advance! I will give good rating even just for effort.Ok, I finally started crushing on this guy, lets call him Bob, like 3 months ago, or somehting like that. He and one of my guy friends got into a fight before that, so me and Bob never really talked. I didn't evn know who he was. Then..., I started noticing him, and realized his locker was like 8 aways from mine. I was really phsyced ... I mean I'm a freshmen, and I've had a ouple of crushes this year, but nothing serious, like more then 2 weeks until I started noticing Bob. I started to get all these butterflies. Finally, after two months, I got the courage to finally talk to him. I asked him to meet me in the library once and after that we started talking. That's when I reallly fell for him! =) And then we decidedto keep meeting after school at the library and stuff and I called my friend Alice, because I knew she USED to like him and she talked with him, so I thought maybe she could help a sista out. lol. Firstly, I asked if she liked him and she's like 'um, no, i don't think so ... ' and i explained the whole story and told fhger everything. She said she'd talk to him. So the next day, my friend Kyle calls me and says I saw Alice & Bob in the library on top of each other and flirting, so i was like wtf...?! And I called her, and she said she talked to him and he told her he didn't like me. SO I was like oh, ok, I mean what was I supposed to do? ANd she told me how HE *was all over* HER! And I was like, well are you guys gonna go out or what? And she's like no, he's too much, too fast. And the next day I asked him about her. He's like 'wtf, i hate her. what a jealous bitch. i'd choose you over her ANY day, he told me that like 21 times, lol. And he'slike she's just jealous, what a jealous hoe. So then, I just you know, went on with it and then I hear that he wrote here a not later on that say say said dont ever fucking o talk to me you fucking bitch i hate you dont look atme dont talk to me ... etc. so then she strats saying stiuff that the only reason I like BoB is cause she does, which SOO isn't true, cause I asked her in the first place. S me and her aren't talking and we USED to be best friends, so yeah. then here comes the problem, Monday, no school, Tuesday I saw Bob, and said HEY to him, i was shy, lol, and I havn't seen him since. I asked around, and I thought he had ACes(suspension!) but he didn't and I heard that he left to Siberia or somewhere (he's arabian) because its some arabic holiday. BTW, he'sonly 50% arabic. And i did notice that lots of Arabs were missing in school today, so I'm not sure if its that. then I also heard that he went to iraq or palestine or wherever for 2 years and he's coming back his junior year! i was like no, i seriously wanted to cry. then I heard, he moved/transfered. my one friend has class with him and she said he was moving or something bcz he returned his books and yturned in transfer papers so I'm not sure ... He was actually the first guy I've felt reall good about. I mean just when things were going good, things got screwed up. SO does anyone know if there *IS* an ARABIC HOLIDAY? and please I need help with all of this, I don't even know what to do. I'm like obsessed with the guy, I fell for him wasy too soon and he's just gone for sure now without a site. I'm still going to try to talk to his friends but I'm not sure. I just need some help, what to do about all of this. And I CAN'T moce on ... there is NO ONE else.! thanks for at least taking the time to read this!
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people jsut like to make up stories when some isnt at schoo, seriously hes gone one day and tehres already all these rumours going around? wow thats fast. hell probably be back by the time you read this advice.
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By the way, it is a Muslim Holiday today. I don’t think he would have gone across seas to celebrate. Maybe he took a day of to celebrate with his family since you noticed that a lot of people who were Arabian (or whatever he is) all were not there. Also don’t have other people ask questions to guys that you like! And when your friend says stuff like “he doesn’t like you” she is saying that because she likes him.
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By the way, it is a Muslim Holiday today. Apparently its called the Celebration of the Sacrifice, I heard it on NPR this morning. I doubt he went over seas, but he might have taken a day off to celebrate with his family.
So take a breather and don't so worked up over this. If she was really a friend, she wouldn't let some dude get between you. Don't send other people to ask guys stuff you want to know for yourself. You either get a bad answer, no answer, or look like an immature idiot. If she's lying to you, she's probably lying to him too. Communication is a good thing.
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I know theres a persian holiday going on right now, because a co-worker of mine left work today and is having someone cover for her for the next couple of days. Maybe whoever told you that heard it from someone else and so on and so forth and it got all distorted and by the time you heard it, he was moving to iraq! Are you sure hes no persian?
This persian holiday is a few days long. i think its called et or eat or something.
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I bet you a million bucks there is a arabic holiday i would just check on askjeeves.com and type in arabic holidays. We had to do something for that in geography on holidays for our country and im sure you can find holidays and what not and anything. So just check into that. I wouldnt really break off a friendship with your best friend try and patch things up with her. I really hope everything works out-trixxie
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Arabic holiday? or MUSLIM holiday? See, I'm arabic..from Iraq and all and there is no arab holiday. And even if there was, you wouldent have to travel to Iraq! Or maybe its a muslim holiday? Did he ever say anything about Islam? and how he believed in it? I dont know much about Islam but I know there is no arab holiday. Besises, arabic people that live in the US cant go back to iraq for whatever reason. We would like die. Terroist attacks and its just not safe. I'm sorry about your "friend" that sucks. So if hes not at school...and there is no arabic holiday..maybe he had tomove for a reason know one can know about??
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