Question Posted Wednesday January 19 2005, 6:00 pm
hey... okay where to begin.... almost a year ago i met this really really cute.outgoing.funny. guy. right after we really met we fell for eachother. sounds all good right?? wrong. he has a best friend thats another girl. i didnt have anything wrong with that at all... at first. i knew they had a past together, and i knew they liked eachother a lot, but i never knew what happened between them. in a way his best friend kinda went out with him on a rebound off her X. Well their friendship got weaker and they stopped talking so much. then I met him and everything was good. until they started hanging out again at parties and on weekends and stuff, and EVERYBODY would always come back telling me they had been getting *TOO CLOSE* things went bad i stopped trusting him... we broke up and it wasnt very pretty.We are still "friends" but i got to know his best friend and me and her became pretty close, however, she says she only likes him as a friend and she would never do that to me... but 1/2 of doesnt trust her. I've heard them talk before and she ALMOST tends to lead him on... my X has liked her for like ever and he gets on gettin screwed over. me and my X never really talked after the breakup but now we're talkin again... and i dont kno if i like it. I had too many feeling for him as a boyfriend that i dont think i could ever see him as a friends... is that shallow? im scared if i talk to him all the feelings i had will come rushing back... should i stop talkin to him? should i trust his bestfriend? should i tell her she's leading him on? also im not positive all my feelings for him are gone..... should i totally let go now??
*sorry so long and soo many questions!! but obviously i need a lot of help.....!!*
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