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15/f

I've had a really upset stomach for about 2 weeks. I've been throwing up and then just dry heaves. I can't eat much, I used too eat like normaly and then some. But now I barely have a sandwhich a day. I don't know what's up or what too do.

Any advice?

Should I just go to the doctors?

yeah you should see the doctor now. my friend threw up so much for so long and she got dehydrated and was hospitalized fo 2 days.

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Welp this one girl angie was going out with a kid jon. While they were going out i sort of did things with jon =/ They broke up though and i lost my virginity to him. I asked him if he would ever consider going out with me becuase i dont want to be used. He said he would consider it but in his away messages and things it says how sorry he is to angie and how he wishes he could go back. i dont know if hes faking it? But i dont know what to do..somebody please help!

welp, i think this guy used you. he may have been lying in his away? i give people the benefit of the doubt. anyway, you shouldnt have lost your virginity to him before knowing id hes committed or even interested in you. but i wont lecture you on the importance of finding a trustworthy partner, the fact of the matter is that he used you and you need to move on and make better choices for next time. hope it all works out for you!

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whats the song called? (i'm not sure if i heard the lyrics right)

you and me and all of the people with nothing to do, nothing to prove and its you and me and all of the people and i don't know why but i can't keep my eyes off of you

"You and Me" by Lifehouse. its a great song! i have the icon on aim, its at www.iconator.com if your interested.

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why are all the good people on the site being banned? anyone know?

well i, as well as the people who arent banned, would like to think of ourselves as "good" people. you can get banned for bad behavior just like you can get a DT for it at school. all the 12 yr olds get banned, people with extremely rude remarks get banned and anyone who doesnt type in english also gets banned. so really, you have to completely distroy the site before getting banned and thats not a "good person" quality.

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ok i have 2 boys madly in LOVE with me and i loe both of them/ one is like my bestfriend and the other is such a cool friend that i've made out with in the past. the bestfriend gives me the feeling that the other boy doesn't. and the other boy shows me such a GREAT time! who should i pick??? i can't follow my heart because my heart is telling me to love both of them. I WANT TO GO OUT WITH ONE OF THEM. I DONT KNOW WHO?!! PLEASE HELP!!! no shitty advice and ill rate you 5! thanks. +kim by the way... my bestfriend's anme is corey and my friend friend thats cool is cristian. PLEASE HELP!

well which one likes you? it says you like them but where do they come in? i think christian if its not completely shreding corey to pieces. tell him you could just stay friends..lemme know if you want more info.

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Does anyone know where I can get an extra self for a locker. I've seen other people with them but I figure it would be wierd to ask them since I dont know them. An extra locker self like you know how at school they have those top and bottom lockers. I got a top one and since I'll most likely be sharing lockers with close friends I wanna make it looks nice. PLus does anyone know where I can get a magnet mirorr. and while we're at it any tips/ideas on how I can decorate my locker? =] Thank you so much!!!

wal mart and target have stuff like that...i have it all lol. make sure to test out the mirror b4 you buy it b/c some are really cheap and distort your face..not pretty! hope this helps!

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now. A little over 2 1/2 years. We had sex multiple times, but recently I just started giving him oral sex. (I was kind of shy at first because i was "inexperienced".) Now that I have done that about 7/8 times, whenever he sees me he wants it. Before I used to do it only when our parents were not home at who evers house we were at, because you know, we were alone. But now even when there are people around he wants it. And sometimes, you know, I'm just not up to it. He says okay but then he always gets a little depressed. And it makes me feel bad, feeling like I haven't satisfied him. So most of the time I give in and give him oral sex. But another thing he complains about is if I don't give him oral sex as long as he wishes. I mean, I know it must feel good for them, but I don't want that to become a habit everytime I see him that I do that to him. He does things to me to, and I get satisfied, which is why I like to satisfy him too. Does anybody have any advice on what I can do to make my boyfriend less "horny"?

he's taking the oral for-granted b/c you give in. he wont be "depressed", he'll be a bit sad that he didnt get relieved but he wont start cutting his wrists from that. you shouldnt have to feel like you pleased him. how many times has he pleased you? he's getting some, he shouldnt be complaining. tell him to give hiself a hand instead of needing you to do it everytime you see each other. dont feel bad, its not your fault!

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can any give me techno songs and also songs that were like popular last year

that "turn me on" song was like a mix of things and it was popular last year. hope that helps!

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ok well im thinking of starting softball again, but now since i have my period it will be alittle different. i dont want to use pads because its too shall i say messy? but ive never actually used a tampon before, so i was wondering if i could have some info about it, and how do i get some with out asking my mom.. cuz thats always a hassle.
i rate, thanks for those who help

theyre comfortable, you shouldnt be able to feel them, try the lowest absobancy first. they have instructions inside to and once you get the hang of it, its second nature. just ask your mom...its not different from buying pads so just go for it!

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is having sex before marriage a sin

technically it is. depends what you believe in.

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Im 13 and im going into the 8th grade..and saddly ive never had a boyfriend. To me i think im farely attractive and im a nice person. I have gotten a few offers but there just not the right guys. What could i do to get a boyfriend i really like?
Signed: Single and NOT loving it.

take your time! i didnt have a bf till the end of 8th grade with someone i actually liked. don't rush, youve got a while! i know a girl that 17 and never had a bf. your fine!

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17 soccer player male.

i need a random aol screenname

what???

kicksomegrass (#, age, grad yr)

^thats the most "clever" one i could think of. all the rest are completely retarded lol. hope that helps!

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i know this is a stupid queston but,what would happen if someone put someone else in the dryier and turned it on. i'll rate a five nomatter what.

LMAO!! they probably wouldnt fit and if they did, the pressure and heat would kill them. stay away! beware!! haha hope that helps!

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is reading marurbation stories the same as reading porn?

good question. some people get really turned on my that the same way someone can be turned on by porn reads/vidoes etc. if it excites you, then sure it is the same.

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what does pms or pmt stand 4 and what does it mean i will rate 5s to anyone that answers

PreMentrual Syndrom. its the devil for the person before her period and all that surround her. it could be anywhere from whining to slapping and hurting people. pmt...prolly PreMenstrual TANTRUM or TORTURE lol.

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I`m Havin my birthday party in a week and idk what movies to rent for the party.
(Its a sleepover and I have 8 Friends coming ) We all like comedies/chick flicks such as Mean Girls. Some of my friends are still 13 so please not any R rated movies. We also like some scary movies.
Thankss for the help loveliess``.

you could get white noise, any adam sandler movie (anger management, 50 first dates..). i personally didnt like 13 going on 30 but thats an idea. look around for new releases and ask someone at the place what they thought of them.

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My older sister is 17 (Im about to turn 14 in a few days) and today I was hanging out with her in her room while she was looking through her drawers for a pair of shorts. I saw something that looked like a condom wrapper but she covered it up so quickly, i thought i must have seen it wrong because my sister told me shes a virgin. Well, when she left the house, I snooped & turns out .. it was condoms, a few of them. And about 3 were un opened. Im MAD. She lied to me. And shes told me repeatedly how she wants to save herself until marriage. I dont know what to do, do i tell anyone? Im afraid she'll get an STD, or pregnant. But I cant talk to HER. Or she'll freak out at me and deny it - i know.

she's trying to set a good example for you. maybe she regrets her decision or she just wants to keep you safe and away from telling the parents what shes been doing. im sure her intentions are good. its really none of your business, as your sex life is non of hers, but if you really want to know, calmly tell her that you can swear on a bible that it wasa condom wrapper and your just wondering what the truth is and promise no to tell the parents or get all worked up over it. she doesnt have to tell you so just keep it to yourself. oh, and at least she's playin it safe so be proud.

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Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?

depends really. if your child has a violent nature then no, its just provoking the behavior. if the child is young, no. if its an older kid, i think they should learn to defend themselves but not intentionally hurt someone back. if the hitting is at school, both will get in trouble for their actions regardless of who started it. hope this helps!

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How Can I broaden my vocal range, and give my voice even better tone?

Thanks in advance!

the mommy made me mash my m&ms oh my thing is good. you can sing "how blue is the sky" and go up in half steps. take good breaths, put power behind it and if your stomach is puffed out when you sing your doing it right. (weird i know but lemme know if u need more info) try voice lessons too.

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I know you guys arent doctors. And I'm going to go to the doctors soon for a physical. But I have this red thing on the shin of my leg. It's not raised, and it doenst itch. It just seems like dry skin. Pinkish/red. Ive had it for like 2 or 3 weeks. It used to be the size of a dime, now its the size of a quarter. Once again, it's not raised. But I'm just wondering if anyone had the same thing, and that it is. thanks.

well if yout going to the doctor to get a physical soon, they'll be able to tell what the heck it actually is b/c like you said, we arent doctors and they know best in diagnosing and treating so im sure they will check it out.

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