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Help!
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now. A little over 2 1/2 years. We had sex multiple times, but recently I just started giving him oral sex. (I was kind of shy at first because i was "inexperienced".) Now that I have done that about 7/8 times, whenever he sees me he wants it. Before I used to do it only when our parents were not home at who evers house we were at, because you know, we were alone. But now even when there are people around he wants it. And sometimes, you know, I'm just not up to it. He says okay but then he always gets a little depressed. And it makes me feel bad, feeling like I haven't satisfied him. So most of the time I give in and give him oral sex. But another thing he complains about is if I don't give him oral sex as long as he wishes. I mean, I know it must feel good for them, but I don't want that to become a habit everytime I see him that I do that to him. He does things to me to, and I get satisfied, which is why I like to satisfy him too. Does anybody have any advice on what I can do to make my boyfriend less "horny"?
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he thinks you are the key to take him out of depressing himself. so really, i thinkk hes useing you to feel good.
You cant be afraid say "no" because really, he is useing you. just for the great feelings. If you really think about it, its true.
But sence you've been togeather for about 2 1/2 years, it means you must be a GREAT couple.
He wants to go into bigger things. he wants more really. he wants to get really "close" to you, maybe have a night where you explain your feelings to him about giving oral sex everynight. it is always to answer to anything, but if he is depressed. ask him why.
if he doesnt listen to you at all, maybe its time to look for a newer guy, a new friend, a new boyfriend. Because its becoming a habbit to him && you also. so when ever you get a new boyfriend you will want to give oral sex or you might expect sex.
just all im saying to talk to him and he sould listen to you afrer 2 1/2 years togeahter. its not right that you gave it to him every day about. thats serisouly a bad habbit.
so talk to him okay?
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he's taking the oral for-granted b/c you give in. he wont be "depressed", he'll be a bit sad that he didnt get relieved but he wont start cutting his wrists from that. you shouldnt have to feel like you pleased him. how many times has he pleased you? he's getting some, he shouldnt be complaining. tell him to give hiself a hand instead of needing you to do it everytime you see each other. dont feel bad, its not your fault! <3
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um i think you should tell him how you feel...your relationship has just evolved into you giving him oral and how you dont like it...if he loves you he would understand
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