Member Since: August 26, 2005
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Last Update: August 26, 2005
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now. A little over 2 1/2 years. We had sex multiple times, but recently I just started giving him oral sex. (I was kind of shy at first because i was "inexperienced".) Now that I have done that about 7/8 times, whenever he sees me he wants it. Before I used to do it only when our parents were not home at who evers house we were at, because you know, we were alone. But now even when there are people around he wants it. And sometimes, you know, I'm just not up to it. He says okay but then he always gets a little depressed. And it makes me feel bad, feeling like I haven't satisfied him. So most of the time I give in and give him oral sex. But another thing he complains about is if I don't give him oral sex as long as he wishes. I mean, I know it must feel good for them, but I don't want that to become a habit everytime I see him that I do that to him. He does things to me to, and I get satisfied, which is why I like to satisfy him too. Does anybody have any advice on what I can do to make my boyfriend less "horny"? (link)
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um i think you should tell him how you feel...your relationship has just evolved into you giving him oral and how you dont like it...if he loves you he would understand
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any ideas how i could overcome my shyness? i've researched and looked at /many/ websites... and it's not very helpful to me.
it's really pathetic. i say i'll do something. i promise to kiss or hug or just do something..
but i end up not doing it. i freeze up and worry if i'll do it wrong. and by the time i've stopped thinking that... it'd be too late.
it's making me feel worse and i keep telling myself that if i dont do anything... my girlfriend will break up with me and i'm sure she will. that somewhat motivates me to try. (link)
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maybe you should tell your girlfriend your gonna make an effort to be more outgoing but explian to her that its hard for you
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