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what to do..
Welp this one girl angie was going out with a kid jon. While they were going out i sort of did things with jon =/ They broke up though and i lost my virginity to him. I asked him if he would ever consider going out with me becuase i dont want to be used. He said he would consider it but in his away messages and things it says how sorry he is to angie and how he wishes he could go back. i dont know if hes faking it? But i dont know what to do..somebody please help!
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he was using you to replace angie.he is such a loser
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omg.. you did stuff with him while she was still going out with her.. SLUT! and that guys a fucking idiot. hes despret. and your dumb to.
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wow well im sorry your being used but you'll learn from your mistkes.. move on and dont worry about him.. ♥ Dez
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welp, i think this guy used you. he may have been lying in his away? i give people the benefit of the doubt. anyway, you shouldnt have lost your virginity to him before knowing id hes committed or even interested in you. but i wont lecture you on the importance of finding a trustworthy partner, the fact of the matter is that he used you and you need to move on and make better choices for next time. hope it all works out for you! <3
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he used you. and im sorry to say it but he most definatly did. no offence but reality is you let him use you. he was still with your friend so he couldnt have liked you that much. i let something like that happen to myself and dont let him come to you and say its just cuz he doesnt want to hurt her because the fact is if he liked you hed go out with you. you lost your virginity so hes gonna mean more to you then he would to you. its a chemical thing in a girls body thatll make you like him more =).. but hoestly dont let him come back to you and give a bullshit reason like he doesnt want to hurt her or anything, because first hand, hes lieing and your friend will only get hurt and so will you. my advice is to find someone that you love and loves you back and respects you enough to know sex with you isnt special
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Guys are jerks. Most of the guys I know are really into having sex, getting drunk, and you know the rest. I don't think you should waste your time on this kid, b/c even if he is only playing games with angie's head telling her he wants her back and everything, who's to say he couldn't do the same thing to you! You have to look for a guy who isn't just interested in getting you in bed! If you don't want to have sex, don't! Don't feel pressured into it, b/c there are a lot of risks that come with it, such as getting pregant, or an STD, etc. etc. Guys don't usually care about feelings til they get older and mature a bit. If he wants you, let him come to you, don't try to get him. But make sure he isn't just trying to get with you b/c he doesn't have anyone else, b/c guys are good at that too. They just feel like they need someone for comfort or something. It is hard to tell whether or not a guy is lying to you about things like that, but just pay close attention to the way he acts towards you, and other girls. You don't deserve, need or want to get a guy that is more likely to lie to you and use you for sex, than tell you the truth and actually care about your feelings. Good Luck!
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