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Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me. (link)
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hes already agreed. all you gotta do is let him take pics of you too. all,well95% of girls are insecure about their body you have nothing to be worried about.
im glad you liked my advice, can i be there lol?
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Does any one know of any good sites, that will take away my boredom... I am 14 and i jus need somethin to do while i am on the computer.. please helpp!! ((~*Kaile*~)) (link)
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youre on one. you could also try bored.com addictinggames.com 2flashgames.com flashplayer.com or a forum dedicated to soemthing youre into
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NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!! (link)
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yes you have a right to be mad at him, becasue he lied. looking porn is really no big deal. the lie seems odd though if he was going through the trouble of lying he might as well have jsut said never, so it leads me to think it was someone else using his computer like his dad or something. still he wouldnt have gotten defenseive then so it was probably him. so the final thing is you shouldnt care too much about the porn, but since he swore on you then he deserves waht ever is coming to him.
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my boyfriend and i have been close since we were like 12 and have been dating for about 6 months now and were ready to lose our virginity to each other, which we are planning to do on valentines day. im just kind of worried about the pain part of it and how its all gonna get started and what not do you have any advice for me (link)
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it depends on if you stll have your hymen or not. if youve masterbated or played alot of sprots it has most likely already popped. if not then yes it will hurt and bleed a little bit when you do it. the bst advice i can give you is go slow. especialy when pressing up against it at first. then in a thrust he should pop through it, that will hurt a bit, after that it should feel great. make sure you use a condom, even if you are on the pill there is still a chance of STDs and its better safe than sorry. if you have any otehr questions feel free to drop me another one or you could im me at my80gighardrive
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hey my gf has quite a growth down there, and i dunno is that wierd? should she shave it? would that hurt her? i dunno...do most guys like that? do most girls have that? (link)
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some guys prefer it shaved some dont, same goes for the girls. if she doesnt shave it then thats how she prefers it. i dont know how you could really ask without getting banned from the garded(lol) for a while. um if you dont mind then i suggest just not mentioning it. you could always try an offhand remark of like "hey dont you think it would feel better if you shaved it?" most girls ive talked to say it doesnt hurt.
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i'm a 16 year old gurl and i just recently started going out with one of my friends(gurl)and i dont know if i'm bi but i think i like her....anyways when i'm not with her i think about her but when i'm with her it feels odd and i dunno i just dont know how to act.....from what you here does this sound normal to you? and if i get anything like.....no its not normal cuz your with a gurl....i will give a very low rating anyways thx in advance to those who help! (link)
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you feel weird because you aren't sure if you are bi or not. give it time and you will realize one way or another
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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help! (link)
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go up to a guy you like and tell him you like him. yes that sounds forwad but it works. seriously guys are alot easier than girls if you are even mildly attractive and arent a total bitch and you tell a guy you like him hell ask you out, assuming he doenst already have a gf.
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how often a week should u do cardio and for how long at a time? (link)
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2-3 times per week for about half an hour each. make sure to cycle your cardio go a week on the treadmill then a week on the elipticals then a week on the stationary bike etc..
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I know that it's a while away, but it's already starting to worry me. I asked my parents where they wanted me to go to high school and they told me about this private school. And since I already go to one, I really wanted to go to a public high school. So it made me mad. I don't know how to convince them. And they said that the place I wanted to go wasn't their first choice out of the public high schools. None of my friends will go to the private school, most of them will go to the one I want to go to. And there's tons more reasons. How do I convince them? It's a big issue and we argue about it every day. Can anybody help? (link)
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i had the same problem. private school really sucked, and i made sure to tell them that everyday. now the best way to get of going to private high school is to let your parents have a say in what public high school you will go to. it might not be the one you want but at least it wont be private school. or you could always let your grades slip to the point where the private school wont accept you if they require a certain GPA which most do. you could also divide and conquer, which ever parent is usualy nicer and more lenient, talk to them alone.
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im 13 and female
i went out with this guy cuz my friend told me he liked me and i liked him to we broke up a wihle ago and now i think i like more than i did when we were goin out could someone girl or guy tell me wut to do
thanx
lost n life (link)
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you want what you cant have its alkwyas like that. also the thing is when you break up you usualy only remember the good things afterwards and when you get back together you remember all the reasons you broke up for in the first place.
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can someone who seriously knows about working out tell me why im not getting sore after my workouts? when i bench i do like 5 sets so i kno im working really hard and when i curl im also doing like 5 sets of it and the next day after my workouts im never sore...i want to know why im not getting sore, because i know that when you are sore it means you had a good effective workout
if you know a good amount of stuff about working out please IM me on iliv4hockey7..im always up 4 learning new things..thanks (link)
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your body might jsut be extremely efficiant at dealing with lactic acid. thats the stuff your muscles produce when youve been working out for too long and the oxygen isnt enough. or you could jsut be really effective at working out in general and never move to the point that you need the lactic acid. either way thats what its connected too. if you really want to be sore try "breathing wrong" during your workout and not getting enough air
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Alot of my friends are really annoyed by one of my friends latley. She's going out with someone that she doens't really like (she likes 2 other ppl) and one of them is some one that her friend got dumped by (it's been a month but she still really likes him)and sometimes she wears clothes that r uh...too small and well...i'm torn between my tow friends, they both have good points but i don't kno wut to do, i don't want one ot hate me.
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hang out with her sometimes, hang out with them sometimes. jsut becaseu theyre both your friends doesnt mean they have to interact. i ahve a few friends taht dont get along with each other im even freiends with a friends exbf, adn it wasnt a clean break up either. but yeah if they cant get along don try to make them.
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I dont know what to do.Me and Joe (my bf) arn't together anymore all because a meaningless kiss. I was dumb and let it happen, but I had to. I knew I loved Joe, but I had to prove to myself that I could do without the other guy.When Joe found out...we broke up, but ended up getting back together after 2 days. Well that was 2 weeks ago. We both kinda knew things were going different because the kiss was always on his mind and things just wern't the same. I had'nt seen him except once this week and its because one day when he said he was going to skip school with two of his friends...he wound up going to the movies with his little sister's boyfriend's ex girlfriend! Then when he was supposed to come over, he called me and said that work wanted him to go in an hour early, but he really went and hung out with the girl. He told me all this last night and he said nothing happened between them and he was sorry cuz he didnt want to hurt me cuz he knows how bad it feels. So he was just like...I dont think "I want a girlfriend anymore" and that was it. Then all nite we were talking and I can't stop crying because I know that the kiss I made fucked absolutly everything up. We had it perfect and it was the relationship I always dreamed of. I finally had it...and now it's gone and im not sure its comming back this time. uhhhg I just don't know anymore. I love him, but what can I do to prove to him how much he means to me and is the only thing im missing in my life?...i need a guy's opinion on this.
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wow. yeah you preatty much did mess things up with that kiss. not alot of guys can handle girls taht cheat, and the ones that can you dont want to date because theyll cheat on you. the best thing you can do is give him time to mull it over a bit, dont keep comming up with excuses. after a little bit he should calm down and come to you to talk about it. then you should jsut explain that you were really confused becaseu your feelings for him were stronger than youve ever experianced and that you needed to be sure they were real. then in a moment of weakness you kissed another guy and after that realized you never wanted to kiss someone other than him again.
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hey you said that at the gym i should do more than cardio...well what else? (link)
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lifting free weights helps the best the actual weight machines are to 1 dimmensinal in their motion and while they will make you look buffer you actualy wont be all that strong. something else taht helps is siting on one of those giant balls keeping your feet together and lifting relatively light weighs. the added element of keeping your balance will make the workout better.
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There's this guy who I think is amazing but he barely even knows I exist. We have some mutual friends but we're not terribly close, and I'm not sure how to get him to want to know me better. How do I get his attention? (link)
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flash him. or you could just say hi. if you know him at all its easy enough to just start talking to him and getting to know him better unless youre a relly nervous person.
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When you go to the gym, is it best to do say---15 minutes on the treadmill, 15 on the bike, and 15 on the elipitical, or is better to do 45 minutes straight on one of them. And how often should you switch up your routine? Should you do the treadmill 3 days a week, the bike 4? Or just treadmill all through the week? Some info here please! (link)
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you wana go a week of one, then switch to another for aweek, then again keep doing that. you wana do more than jsut cardio though.
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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help. (link)
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drugs are a personal desicion. im not gonna tell you theres nothing wrong with drugs, becasue there is. i am how ever gonna tell you that you are blowing it slightly out of proportion. tell your friends that you arent gonna smoke, and dont hang out with them while they are smoking thats about it. thats how i am with some of my friends taht are into drugs.
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See I just moved in the begining of summer, and moving means leaving all your friends behind and basically starting out a new life. And it's not like I could've stayed there, because my dad's in the military...so we move a lot. Like I thought it would be fun at first...but I don't like my school. I like the school, but the people is a different story. Everyone's nice and stuff...but the friends I have ....well the ones I eat lunch with and stuff are....to be honest...are losers.They don't talk about fashion, it doesnt seem like they care about it either, and they don't talk about boyz or anything. Like I seriously don't want to be mean at all, but sometimes they act too immature for me. I have other friends too but like...I don't want to go ditch the people who talked to me first, my "loser" friends. Please help me out! (link)
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so theyre immature becasue they DONT talk about fashion or boys? are they talking about crappy irrelavant stuff like politics or the environment? you can have more than one group of friends you know? eat lunch with them oneday and some others another day.
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im a 14/f...im still a virgin..i have masterbated before(fingering myself) and i do use tampons, but if i were to have sex, would the guy feel me as being tight? or loose? (link)
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my mom is sick n its getting really bad n shes in the hospital...
ive been told by my sundai school teacher to keep on praying no matter wut n its been a long time since i started n...nothings happening...
im getting really impatient n starting to think that God doesnt love me.
wut should i do?
^$SiCknSaD$^ (link)
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nothings happened thats the point, your mom is still alive.
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