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Alot of my friends are really annoyed by one of my friends latley. She's going out with someone that she doens't really like (she likes 2 other ppl) and one of them is some one that her friend got dumped by (it's been a month but she still really likes him)and sometimes she wears clothes that r uh...too small and well...i'm torn between my tow friends, they both have good points but i don't kno wut to do, i don't want one ot hate me.
plz help me
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You shouldn't have to choose between two friends, because if they really are friends they should understand. However, if they are making you choose than maybe you shouldn't be friends with either of them.
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Hey,
You don't have to choose. If you're being pressurised into choosing between them, then explain that that is not what friends do and you just don't want to. You say you're annoyed 'lately' - that means it's probably a phase and she'll soon get over it :)
One of the people who are annoyed (not all of them because it'll be like ganging up on the other friend) should talk to her about how annoying she's getting. It might get her to see sense.
Good luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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You need to say that you cant be put inbetween this this is there deal. Not yours you'd love to help them out anyother time but not when it comes to friends. You can never ever choose between friends. You shouldnt anyways. Just let them know you'll be there to listen but you cant hate one of them and if they are really truely good friends they'd listen to you-trix
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If you were to wear clothes that most people would say "unfashionalbe" would you want someone to tell you? THink about that. Go easy on her when you tell her. Tell her to be herself and act normal. I mean, who would want a guy to like you as say, Brittany Spears but you're really a simple life girl. Such as Monica on "Friends." Tell her that or something similar. Don't go hard on her. DON'T chose sides. THis would make it worse! Hope I helped! Tell me if it worked out!
~K~
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hang out with her sometimes, hang out with them sometimes. jsut becaseu theyre both your friends doesnt mean they have to interact. i ahve a few friends taht dont get along with each other im even freiends with a friends exbf, adn it wasnt a clean break up either. but yeah if they cant get along don try to make them.
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Well tell the person who likes two other people, to see what it would be like to be going out with someone, and that person you are going out with doesnt like you, and likes two other people. I'm not sure what you should do about the other people. Hope I helped.
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