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in ancient greek stories, the people sacrifised(sp) things to the gods. how did they do that?

thanks!

they would kill them or make them ashes as far as i know. the aztecs did that too and it was really gory.

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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina

it was just a mistake! if you thought it was a guy it was...if you liked the boobs on this "guy" then theres a problem.

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Hey, can anyone suggest any fun, random, sometimes pointless things to do on a date with a boyfriend that are NOT related to sex? I really could use some ideas, I have a decent budget, but free stuff is best. And nerdy stuff is okay too, if any of you nerds out there have advice to give to a fellow nerd :) Thanks!

go to the park and just play! hold hands going down slides, push each other on swings or go to an indoor play gym! those are sooo fun! go to the library and get the oldest, wackiest cd you can find and just dance to it! hope that helps! have fun!!!

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"its not your actions that make me feel the way i feel, its just being around you. and you dont make me feel bad otherwise i wouldnt wan to be with you. i care for you and you make me feel great its just that it hasnt built up to incredible yet"

How do you interput that? I don't understand what my boyfriend means when he said that.

how old is he? well i think its sweet because its not an overused "i love you soooooo much" its original and thats always good. it says hes not good at english. ok this is what i make of it: just being aroung you make me feel good, if you made me feel bad i wouldnt be with you (that means you make him feel good). he cares for you but he thinks his feelings could be stronger...meaning he knows he likes you but its not "love" yet. sounds good to me!

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There's a big formal that's coming up in the next couple of months. It's called the "Noel Ball." It's held in November, but you have to send in a reservation for it now, and then you have to send in who is going to be your "escort" by October 7.
I'm a sophomore, and the dance is for sophomore girls and their "escorts" My best friend is a senior. We've been through thick and thin, we're really close friends. So my question is,
Would it be weird to ask him? and how should I ask him? Because nothing would make me happier than him going to the dance with me, just as friends. But I don't know if he'd want to go, since he's a senior, or how to ask him.

help!

well if you are friends, it should be as akward. its probably better to go as friends. be sure to ask soon and tell him what you told us...it would make you really happy and its just as friends. cute! "hey i was wondering if you wanted to go to noel ball with me? just friends tho, if thats ok with you..." it could lead to other things lol. hope that helps && good luck!

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What is a growth plate? I might have hurt one in my wrist, and I just want to know what makes this different than just breaking your wrist.

well this is what i know from when i broke my hand...doctors are concerened about it when you break something b/c its not fully grown and if you dont wrap it and treat it right, it will grow wrong. (some people have to get it re-broken to start over...ouch.) hope that helps!

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does any one have some cute xangas?

well this person has like 3 sites so check it out: www.xanga.com/redchevylayouts_x3

^i think theyre really cute!

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are there any other sites like this one..wherepeple ask advice and others give it to them?

ive looked for a one a while ago and after you see how unorganized some of them are, youll appreciate this one more. that was just my experience tho. you can ask stuff on beinggirl.com but if you want to give advice i dont know...sorry. :-/.

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whats your favorite song??

this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it.

i love all kinds of music...ill try to narrow it down to one per genre.
country: big star - kenny chesney (for today!)
modern rock: wake me up when september ends - greenday
classic rock: knockin on heavens door - guns and roses
rap: fly away - nelly
r n b: how to deal - usher
pop: angels - jessica simpson
hip hop: dont phunk with me heart - black eyed peas
classical: when you say you love me - josh groban
musical theatre: the tango maureen - rent
techno: listen to your heart - DHT
the list goes onnnn forever! i love music and you should really check out my mp3 player...its a zooo. wow that was fun!

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theres this song and I have no clue who sings it but its like has to do with breathe and hes liek "now breathe mama" and then she breathes or whatever..I have NO CLUE who sings it..it could be p diddy but im not sure..please help me!

oh so its hip hop/rap right? i think its "breath" fabolous. check out the lyrics, i think i got what your looking for.

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whats the average amount of minutes? 400?..500?..600? because i am getting a plan thats 600 minutes a month is that enough?

wow thats a lot! my parents and i share 500 minutes a month (plus free nights and weekends) and we have plenty.

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where can i buy the fresh breth kiss stuff that they always show on tv. and how much does it cost

note. please give me spific places and prices

i'll rate a 5 nomatter what

well, "as seen on tv" stuff is usually, lets call it "faulty". never really works...and if it does, its only once and its never worth the money. SO try somthing like liquid ice. im sure at least 20 other people can back me up on this..it works! the listerine pocket packs do to. there a million other options to chose from! hope that helps! if it didnt, dont rate at all.

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okay, there's this one jimmy eat world video for like the song middles or something where there's this party thing and everyone is wearing underwear and bras and stuff like that. do you know what they call those kinds of partys? thx

ligerie (or however you spell it) parties. i think thats what it is. whatever you call them, im sure theyre off the hoooooook!

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I Need a awsome cheer! IT can be a genral cheer or a football cheer. NOT A SIDELINE a cheer.


Help;
My Town Is East Palestine
My Macot is : Bulldogs
My colors are: Brown orange and White




HELP: GAME THURSDAY AND ONLY TWO CHEERS! EASY 5++

b-u-double l-d-o-g-s
we are the bulldogs
yes
and we are the best!

brown, orange, white
fight fight fight!

its how you perform it that makes it the best.

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what do you think about white nail polish? is it cute, ugly, trashy, anything!! and please hurry!!! easy 5's for fast answers!

cute for a french, cute with a pic or design on top, nt so cute alone.

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(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do?

i would rather have a rumor going around about my playing with my breasts than having to fuck someone for him to keep it a secret and THEN having a rumor going around about both. if you hear ppl talking about how you played with yourself you can 1. deny it... who would wanna say they saw they saw you doing that...no girl would wanna be called a lesbian for that. 2. say you were doing somthing else...miss eliot impression or something...its not that big of a deal...deff not worth letting someone that hates you fuck you all the time. hope that helps!

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hi. Im going into 6 grade.. and i wont tell my age cuz i dont wanna get banded.. but anyways .. Jan.19 2005.. i went for a check up at the doctors.... and i wieghed 86.. pounds.. and i didnt care.. but i went yesterday (aug 27 05..) to check my azma or whatever.. and she weighed me for somereason .. and i weighed 100.. and i dont wanna weigh that i want to weigh like 90 .. for now.. what can i do.. my mom says theres nothing to worry about. Your tall .. not over weight.. and well i still dont want to be 100.. any help?

xo

first of all, just for that, you will get banned. second of all, someone that young shouldnt be on a diet anyway. your not overweight, your still a little kid going through puberty.

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I always have trouble on picture day, I have wide shoulders and a large bustline, and not many styles of shirts look flattering, tank tops make me look like a football player, and halters are even worse. I look too busty with a v-nack, but simple shirts seem to just make everything look worse. Does anyone have any shirt ideas that can flatter or disguise my flaws?


14/female.

my friend has a big chest too and she wears tank tops with THICK straps (like 3-4 inches) and not too low of a neckline. fitted and ribbed flatter almost any figure. or on top of that you could wear a cute blazer to hide some of the shoulders and still have a nice neckline. hope that helps!

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This guy, Justin, and I got back together a couple of weeks ago after breaking up. We have been on and off for about a year, the longest time we went out was for 2 1/2 months. Well I went out with this guy Nick, and Justin didn't call me almost all summer because he thought I was still with him. When he found out we weren't together he called me and we both confessed that we'd never stopped loving each other. Now that we're back together, I've fallen harder for him that ever before, and we have alot stronger connection. He's a totally changed person. He's trying to stop doing drugs and smoking, he backed away from a fight yesterday for me, he actually DANCED for the first time in his life and before we started going out he called my dad for permission to be with me. He's actually doing his schoolwork and staying out of trouble and he tells me it's because he loves me and will change to be with me, even if I don't ask him too.

That's just a little bit of background information though, so you can see that we really do love each other and this isn't just an impulse desicion. Well...I've always thought of him as maybe being my first and lately I've thought about it more and more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to do it for a long while, but I do have a few questions.

How bad does it hurt?
What do I do...if I'm on bottom OR top?
What are the condoms that are most reliable?
Did you regret your first time?
Anything else?

Sorry it's so long but THANK YOU SOO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER!

hey thats awesome! im glad your waiting a little while tho, thats a good plan! ok this is from what ive gotten from numberus sources: yes it does hurt b/c theyre harder and thicker than tampons, even if you already popped your cherry.
missionary (u on the bottom) is better for first timers (go slow either way) so it wont go in at a bad angle.
just take somthing thats not expired, not dirt cheap...try trojan.
some people do regret it if theyre used or the guy doesnt care, he just wants some and some really lied it especially since the 2nd time feels better from what i hear. hope that helps!

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hey is size 8 really big for jeans..cause am 124 pounds and i keep lookin at my thighs and think they are fat .but for some people 124 pouds .they look slim.and i think look really fat in my thighs.and i have very little body fat.so is 124 pounds fat .and its not like i have eating disorders.i just want to know.

no its not fat! i know what you mean tho. people like me that are short waisted and stuff look bigger than they really are. your an ok size, i promise!

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