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i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc.

this is my variation...some people seem to have to clue what theyre talking about...oral and fingering arent the same thing!
1. kissing, making out
2. feeling up, HJ/fingering
3. oral-eating out/BJ
Home. sexual intercourse

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What is an approiate age to have sex? I'm 15/F but I want to wait until I'm married. Is that the best time?

theres no definate age...you have people losing it at 12 and then people that never have sex at all. its when you want to. if you wanna be sure that someone will be there the morning after and take care of you and your child if you get pregnant, wait for marriage. if you really must have sex with someone, wait till around 17-18. its really up to you.

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okay..so there is this guy that i really like..and he likes me..he has already told me that.. so we went to the movies a while ago and it was fun and we held hands..and then every weekend now we are always hanging out..but im just confused..cause we are not going out yet..but i dont know what all this means...cause he says he likes me and i told him i liked him back..but there is still confusion...ahh..help

you could be "together" without either one of you actually saying "will you go out with me". some people are just like that so bring it up sometime.

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Is there anyway for columnist to change the format of their usernames?

no unless you get a paid account or make up a whole different column.

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Tomorrow is my wedding day!!! Wish me luck and all of the happieness in the world!!

Princess Ava

GOODLUCK! i hope your wedding is awesome!

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when i have a tampon in for 6-6 1/2 hours is there any possibility of a leek?

yep

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why do people ask such dumb questions on here!?

it depends on what you think is a dumb question. some people really dont know some things. other than that, i really dont know.

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Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.


Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there?

a girl i know did it but with indian ink and it didnt stay on very long. that was not a healthy choice...

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ive had this wart on my finger for a long time, and I just got a wart remover thing a week ago. its Dr. Scholl's Clear Away Wart Remover. on the package it says it can take up to 12 weeks to fully remove the wart! the warts already getting smaller.. any1 know anything that works better? or is this gunna work?

i used that once...it never worked. a while after i just kinda let it be, it dissappeared. your doctor can freeze it off for ya.

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i put my eyeliner on the top of my eyelid and the bottom, is that too much eye makeup? also i use mascara ..nothing else

no i think thats good. usually i put mascara on the top and eyeliner on the bottom but its really up to you.

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My boyfriend just started fingering me. He's the first guy to ever do it to me. He's done it about 3 times now and everytime he does it... its not pleasurable at all. It's actually just kind of uncomfortable. I think something's wrong isnt it... i mean getting fingered sure def be pleasing to the girl right? Please help me. I'll rate. Thanks!
~Nicole

well if you dont already, masturbate so you know what feels good and if the finger-in-vagina-thing doesntm work for you, try getting him to pleasure your clit. im pretty sure it should please you.

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ok so i just started cross country today and it is so hard. ive done track for 3 years but that was nothing compared to this. for 3 hours we just ran! we did about 5 miles. i came in 2nd to last/tied for last every time! ive never been fast but my track coach told me i should give cross country a try. it was SO inspiring and it makes me feel REALLY good but i felt like i was going to throw up the entire time and when we compete against other schools, theres just no way really! should i drop out now before its really a commitment and do winter and/or spring track or should i keep it up and hope/pray to get better?

thanks

well first off, if you ran for 3 whole hours, you did more than 5 miles! for a team, it takes about 50-55 minutes for 5 miles. you just started today so i dunno if you really got the full experience and everything. the first day is hard...really hard and you will be sore tomorrow. i was actually in your position not too long ago. i was second last but i had a great time, it felt good to finally be done and have my team cheering me on. i think you should try a road race before the actual meets to kinda get the competion nerves out of the way. my team ran together like at the same pace so try to keep up with them but dont get too crazy. i actually quit...im not saying you should but i was getting injuries and 3 hours practice (lifting, core training, etc) was too long. i miss it a lot but i thnk it was the best choice for me...i quit 2 days before the first meet after being on the team for 3 weeks and being wrapped up for a whole week. thats just me, ill keep you in my thoughts & prayers.

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What is a 'Y'? New Yorkers are always talking about them but I don't know what they are.

"Y" could stand for the "yankees" (its on that hats...that might be it) or "ymca".

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hey i have my foral coming up.. well in march lol hehe but my friend and me have been looking at dresses but i can't find anything to really look good on my figure im size 30C on the bust with size 8-10 on the hips, i have a flat tummy. but i just cant find a perfect dress that makes everything look in shape lol any ideas of styles i could look at, thanks a bunge huni's! xXx

i think you should get a strapless, high-waisted dress with a flowy skirt bottom.

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Is it ok to have an orgasm while ur on ur period?

yeah its fine. ive heard it actually helps cramps and that sort of stuff.

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Does anyone know if school nurses give blood tests?

not that i know of.

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The other day I did about 25 situps and now my stomach in the abdomen area is sore. Is this normal??

Thanks ahead of time.

yep it is if your not used to it! the way to help it is by stretching out after but laying on your stomanch and pushing up kinda like a triangle position.

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whats the difference between foundation and concealer

foundation is for all over your face to even out your skin tone and concealer is for under eye circles, small amounts or acne and other blemishes.

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tomorrows the first day of school *sadness majolry* and i HAVE to wear jeans cause thats like all i have that looks good on me, lol. but if im gonna be to hot or wutever it will be ok to change. will it be to hot? im too lazy to answer this myself

im sure youll be fine if your inside but if you do get hot you can roll them into cute capris.

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I already asked a question on homecoming. But I still need to know more.

I am going to homecoming with my boyfriend of over a year and seven months. He is also my best friend. It is in less than two weeks.

What is a good dress length? Shoes? Purse? How much is appropirate(sp) to spend?

Where should I go to buy the dress for cheap?

Im not getting my nails or hair done, I'll have to do my own because I have work until 4pm on the day of the dance :( I know it stinks) What kinds of accories.

I don't want to be the focus because its at my boyfriends school with all his friends.

What are some things to do to get less nervous? How to make a good first impresstion?

Any tips would be really appreciated.

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsey-

thank you soo much in advance! :)

well look at the homecomming dresses at DEB (http://www.debshops.com) they have some good priced dresses. i really dont know what length tho...sorry. i say just pick one you like! for the dress, shoes and purse...$120. dress around 50-60$ if you get a good deal then shoes at DSW (they have clear heel mootsies tootsies that go with anything.) for 30$ then a cheap purse that can hold what you need. wear a pretty necklace...claires has some really cute ones that are really inexpensive. thats all i can think of, have fun!

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