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im 15 my brother i 13 and my sister is 12 and we fight constantly over really stupid stuff. on weekends we drive 2 1/2 hours to watch my cousin play hockey. my uncle sometimes comes down to watch his son play and when my uncle is here, he drives "the kids" me my bro and sis, to the game. when he drived, its very rare that we fight and argue, we just sit back and chill, my brother up front talking to my uncle and my sis and i talking. but now my uncle hasnt been out here and my mom and grandma have been takking us; omg we fight like crazy " turn your music down" "shut up your so annoying" "your fat" "your flat" "your short" the entire weekend. i honestly act way older than 15 and obviously because my brother is a boy, he acts younger than 13 more like 9 and aacts so dumb and it pisses me off and thats why i get mad and freak out in the ccar. then most times, my sister will join him, now shes 12 and can act 12 most of the time but other times she will be just as bad as my brother, ive learned to not flip out so much when its just my brother but when my sister joins in, i csnt take it and i flip out. we all have attitudes and my brother has a really bad temper. now my mom is fed up with the constant fighting and says we cant go to any more games because shes embarassed, which i totally understand. but i still wanna go. i try to explain why i flip out to her but she just gets mad saying i start it. the other day i tried to talk to my brother and sister and told them to not fight in the car and stuff but they were in their "little kid mood" and just made really stupid jokes. what can i do to get this to stop because i hate it (my sister and i can get along really well at times but my brother and i dont get along at all, normally i dont talk to him unless we ar fighting,) i know fighting is normal, ive gotten the speeches on this but i need this to stop so we can go to the next game but i just want it to stop at home too. im so sick of it (link)
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yea...i have a brother and sister too...they may be the same age as me...but i can totally relate! the best thing to do, is be the mature one. bring something to occupy yourself...ike an ipod, ds game, anything. and when they start acting up, just "stay mature" and ignore them. After a while of ignoring them, and when you feel calm, and like you dont have to explode, then "maturely" ask your sister and brother if they would like to play a game with you or make friendly conversation. If they decline, and continue to act up, then tell them that when the have calmed down, you would be happy to play a game with them. Also, if they for example: (your sister lets call her G and your brother B)say G is using colored pencils, and B wants to use the one she is using. You can calmly try to help out the situation. Tell B that he needs to wait his turn, but ask G if she could PLEASE hurry up with it, and give it to B when she is done. By being polite and calm, it will not only teach your younger siblings that they can look up to you, but also it will show how mature you can be (to your mom and family.) Just make sure to stay out of the situation, and ALWAYS STAY CALM. :-] this will also allow you to develope a closer relationship with your brother. And also, they are little, so besides yelling at them, show them some love. Hug them once in a while, and like in the situation with B and G, if G gives the colored pencil to B and is nice a bout it, show her that you liked how she handled the situation. And if B waits his turn and is polite about it, show him that he handled it good too. maybe just to be prepared, bring a little bag of candy with you, with candy you all enjoy, and when they do something good, say, "since you guys were calm and polite, then i will share my candy with you." and say if G is good but B is bad, just tell B that he needs to be more polite next time, and that you would share your candy with him, but he needs to say sorry to G. It will start to come naturally to you.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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whatever you do, just stay patient and calm, it will be hard, but TRUST ME...i KNOW that you can do it!!! :-] let me know how it all works out for you!
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i have a chi strightner and when i curl my hair it turns out pretty nicley. but when i mess up it starts to mess my whole curl up, and it gets frizzy. how can i make it not get so frizzy, when i have to recurl a curl??
and also how can i make big curls??
and how can i make volumized curls?? (link)
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There is this great stuff called BeCurly (I didnt miss a space or anything its sopose to be like that.) And it really helps, I couldnt live without it.
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Just wondering if hospitals do abortions? (link)
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Hospitals do almost everything. There might be a few hospitals that specizie in somthing and wont do anything eles for you but if you go to something like lady of the lake or oshner your fine.
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Why is it a sin for a white to marry a black? All answers aprecciated.
P.S. If possible please explane it in the easyest form possible. Thanks!!! (link)
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honestly, i dont believe at all that whites and blacks that get married have made a sin. i believe that love comes in all colors, shapes, and forms, and love is just simply love. i think that love can unite anyone of any races, and any sex. if it is true love, it is not forced, or faked, in any way.
HoPe I hElPeD!!!
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What stores sell hair crimpers? (link)
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i have seen them sold at:
~sharper image
~hair salons
~dollar store
~target
~Harmon
~walmart
~K mart
pretty much any store will carry them...and the best ones usually come from places that sell a lot of hair and beauty products.
:-]
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wat are some fun things to do for a sweet sixteen, when you have about 6 girls over, and you can't leave the house??
besides renting a movie (link)
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heres a list of things i came up with :-]
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~board game
~dare
~prank call people
~manacures
~facials
~pedicures
~videogames
~make videos
~have lots of food and drinks*
~decorate the house with sweet sixteen things...sounds stupid...but it is actually lots of fun
~have lots of music playing
~set up a light ball...disco ball type of thing (you can find at spencers)
~pinatas are actually really fun
~silly games like hide and go seek...running around the house is fun
~put makeup on each other
~take lots of pictures
~have a fashion show
make sure to have a wide area where you can partay!!!!!!!
GoOd LuCk!!!
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have a super sweet sixteen! :-]
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Why is it a sin for a white to marry a black? All answers aprecciated.
P.S. If possible please explane it in the easyest form possible. Thanks!!! (link)
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luvr girl said that very well, and I totally agree. You shouldn't think that colored people and white people sin for marrying eachother, that's not factual at all. It is NOT a sin, and if that person told you otherwise, she/he needs to have a newsflash, because there is no explanation for that sin, since that sin doesnt EXIST.
Good luckk
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What are some contemporary songs about forgiveness
preferably not rap or contry
soft rock i guess
they have to be school apropriate (link)
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Here is one I absolutley LOVE. It's an up and becoming singer who has been aired on z100 plenty of times, but this song is sure to be a number one hit....
-Leona Lewis: Forgiveness
http://youtube.com/watch?v=L_JDPq_7TAc
Good luckk and hope that inspired you. :]
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hi! im indian, me and husbund had unprotected sex from my 3rd day of periods and we did it atleast 4 times in each day.is their is any chances for me to get pregnent, please advice me in this matter as im very woried. (link)
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its possible that you can be enpregnated during your menstrual cycle, but very unlikely i heard. Still a possibility, so i reccomend a pregnancy test.
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this girl is really mean to me. & at school she's in my 5th period health class & her and her friends talk abt me.. and she bugs me in the h allways & calls me a bitch & threatens me and i told my teacher but my teacher said there's nothing she can do tht goes on outside of the classroom.. and she harasses me on facebook.. is there any wya i can block on facebook? & wut should i do with her bothering me at school? (link)
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okay...you need to tell an adult about what she is doing to you...other than that teacher. tell your parents, guidance councelor, principal, anyone...there IS something they can do! you do not deserve to be treated like that. and if it is really akward in class when they are talking about you, stand up for yourself. one of my friends was in the same position as you were in and one day she just turned around and said (lets call her Chanel) "Chanel, instead of talking about me behind my back, why dontyou just say it to my face?!" stand up for yourself, and stay strong.
http://www.wikihow.com/Block-Facebook-Beacon
^i found you a website that goes step by step with the actual screen on how to block people.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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i really want to become a musician. im learning guitar as we speak, and i have some pretty good songs in mind. but when im ready, where do i go from there? how do i form a band?
any kind of advice would be nicee. :)
P.S. (i'm 15/f...so if that helps any...) (link)
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~first, i would get organized. figure out what you need in your band (singer, guitar player, keyboard player, etc.)
~get a couple songs going for your band to be
~have a place for rehersal
~ask around-ask you friends, teachers, family, neighbors, etc if they know anyone looking to be in a band, or can play (name of instrument)
~put up flyers asking for people to come to a certain place at a certain time for an audition...or to contact you at (number)
~if you have an audition, bring a friend or two with you, and set standards as to what you are looking for
~at the audition, have then sing a certain song or something...make a plan as to what they have to do.
http://www.mustcreate.org/kid_home/kids3_1.shtml
http://top7business.com/?id=814
http://www.recordingreview.com/articles/articles/67/1/Starting-A-Band-A-Few-Tips/Page1.html
^those are some really helpful websites i found for you
http://www.nukekiller.net/cgi-bin/namer.cgi
^i imagine you are going to want to name your band :-] so i found a website of a bunch of unused bandnames (so far unused) or you could get some ideas from it!
GoOd LuCk!!!
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let me know how it all goes! and you might want to make a myspace of your band and put it on you tube and go out for auditionings, and play at local restaurants, or just have demos out on the sidewalks...you can even make a concert in your neighborhood (free of charge if you want a lot of people)
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There's this guy that I am seriously like in love with. It's just that every time I try and have a normal conversation with him, I either get really tongue-tied or end up saying something really stupid...
I'm afraid that now he probably thinks I'm an idiot because of some of the dumb things that I've said. I'm soooo nervous around him but I really want to go out with him so...what do I do???
15/f (link)
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:-] i know what you are going through
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My dog is throwing up blood as well as pooping it. This only started happening a week ago and has only happened twice within a week apart. She has a really weak stomach and throws up alot but never blood. She is an inside dog and only eats dog food the same as always. I dont want to take her to the vet because everytime I do that it costs a ton of money and last time I mentioned it they said it was just a weak stomach and they would put her on meds, I really dont want her on any meds for the rest of her life She is only 7 years of age and healthy otherwise. Is there any thing I can do or should I just break down and take her to the vet because it has been blood???? (link)
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i am telling you, honestly, that is very very serious...i would just call the vet immediately if you are worried about the money...but they will mostlikely suggest you bring the dog in.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=1006060224166
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=1006030610456
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Dogs-701/dog-throwing-everyday.htm
^all of the websites if found are really good, and packed with info...please look at all of them and i think that the last one will be most affective being the position you are in.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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i am going to also refer you to the columnist on this site: selectopaque she is a veternarian and knows about things like this... it sounds like she could give you ideas.
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Would you go out to a dinner and a movie with a girl (not a best friend) and pay for both if you were NOT interested in her?
(The guy in question is 19 yrs old. We've only hung out once before...we went out for breakfast, he paid for that too.) (link)
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okay...i know you said only guys, but as a girl, i am telling you that if you do buy her dinner and a movie and you are NOT interested in her...it will make her think that you are interested in being more than just friends with her. :-] just had to let you in on a girl's perspective! :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!
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I don't know if any of you advicenators out there have seen the commercial for Diagnosis X (I think it is on discovery channel or something) but I was wondering if anybody had seen the advertisement and knows the song that is played during it...? Thanks to the maxx to whomever can help me out. (link)
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i found it for you! i wanted it too...what a Cuwinkidink haha :-] its
Wires by Athlete
hOpE i HeLpEd!!!
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What is Christian Meditation? I want to know more about it because I heard that it brings you closer to Jesus. Also, what does it mean to "meditate on a scripture"? Is it literal? Thanks (link)
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i found a website that can help!!! :-]
http://www.allaboutspirituality.org/christian-meditation-faq.htm
as for meditate on a scripture, i am honestly not sure. sorry! but i figure i would try to help you as best i can anyway...so i hope i helped! :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!
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how do you give oral sex when the guy is wearing a condom?
oh andd what if his dick.. goes up the wrong hole, all of this is so confusing! like how do you make sure its in the right one
Thanksss (link)
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if you dont know this stuff...maybe...repeat MAYBE, you're not ready for sex.
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So I got a blackberry less than a month ago and I've called t-mobile a billion times about the internet. Videos don't work on the phone. I know I can't record videos, but I should be able to watch them. I can go to youtube, but I can't actually watch anything because "the protocol doesn't support the URL"... What does that even mean? Its telling me to provide a different URL. Also, I installed the software on my computer, but I can't transfer music or videos onto the phone because I need to activate "mass media storage", which IS activated. Will buying a media card solve anything? The t-mobile representatives all tell me different things. Can anyone PLEASE help me? I'll take anything helpful. ThanXx in advance. (link)
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ring them again, and be sound really pi***d off. Ask to speak to the person in charge, and ask what the problem is, as you've been more confused that in the begining because of their un-knowledgable staff. Trust me, they'll try and hel you out ASAP, because they dont want to lose customers. if you complain about how much time of yours they've wasted, they'll start ofering you free-stuff for "compensation". Trust me, my aunt did this but will Dell, they gave her a new printer/fax machine/scanner/photocopier for free :D hope you get it sorted
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does anyone have quotes of like broken girls? Like broken hearts, lost love...and it has to be from music. Thank you sooo much! (link)
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Here are a few of my fave:
-this broken heart was stronger then
now i can't stand to part with this
this broken heart
-I'll start this broken heart
I'll fix it up so it will work again
Better than before
-I'll devise the best disguise
A brand new look and take them by surprise
They'll never guess what's not inside
-When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
-"Never look back," we said
How was I to know I'd miss you so?
Loneliness up ahead, emptiness behind
Where do I go?
-From the bottom of my broken heart
There's just a thing or two I'd like you to know
You were my first love, you were my true love
From the first kisses to the very last rose
From the bottom of my broken heart
Even though time may find me somebody new
You were my real love, I never knew love
'Til there was you
From the bottom of my broken heart
-But you put a dart
Through my dreams, through my heart
And I'm back where I started again
Never thought it would end
Enjoyy
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okay, as of monday february 18th i started spotting, assuming it was just the beggining of my period. then the next morning on the 19th i had my regular period. the next morning it went away and you could only see blood when i wiped, not enough to fill a pad though. and it is now feb.22nd and it has stopped. maybe just a weird period?? but i have never had anything like that happen to me. i'm 17 years old and i have never spotted before or after a period. and my periods come and go like normal!
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This could be really serious, if I were you, I would schedule an appoitment with your gyno asap because by now [depending on how long you have had your period] it shouldn't be irregular anymore. Are you taking birth control or are on any medicines? It could just be a wierd period, so don't freak out or panic, just be calm and call yuor gyno or doctor, they'll know what's wrong.
Good luck! Hope everything turns out okay.
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