There's this guy that I am seriously like in love with. It's just that every time I try and have a normal conversation with him, I either get really tongue-tied or end up saying something really stupid...
I'm afraid that now he probably thinks I'm an idiot because of some of the dumb things that I've said. I'm soooo nervous around him but I really want to go out with him so...what do I do???
15/f
Don't you just hate when that happens..ughh. Well this may sound a little stupid but with situations like these.... I think you should write down what you would say to him, that way you'll be fully prepared and you won't stumble on your owns. I know exactly how you feel good luck!
orphans answered Saturday February 23 2008, 12:13 am: :-] i know what you are going through<3 its okay, mostlikely...he is thinking the same thing you are...my advice to you would be to laugh at yourself when you do get tounge tied, this way it looks cute and like a mistake. if you really like him, flirt with him, give him notes in class. TAKE A DEEP BREATH, and dont talk so fast. really listen to him and what he has to say, and then speak. put yourself around him more, and you will feel a whole lot more comfortable. ask him if he wants to hang out, maybe with his and your friends. just get to know each other more, and it will be alot easier. hint to him that you like him, in body language and other various ways! :-]
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LM answered Friday February 22 2008, 11:23 pm: Honestly? Just be yourself.
Tongue-tied? Correct yourself, laugh it off, and move on!
My boyfriend's first impression of me was me jumping across two twin beds, slamming my head into a bookshelf and almost giving myself a concussion, and drinking an entire bottle of soda with one of my friends and having a burping contest. Oh, can't forget trying to play Resident Evil and not knowing how to use a nunchuck controller.
So I came to the conclusion that good guys like you for your personality, quirks and all =)
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