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harassment
this girl is really mean to me. & at school she's in my 5th period health class & her and her friends talk abt me.. and she bugs me in the h allways & calls me a bitch & threatens me and i told my teacher but my teacher said there's nothing she can do tht goes on outside of the classroom.. and she harasses me on facebook.. is there any wya i can block on facebook? & wut should i do with her bothering me at school?
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okay...you need to tell an adult about what she is doing to you...other than that teacher. tell your parents, guidance councelor, principal, anyone...there IS something they can do! you do not deserve to be treated like that. and if it is really akward in class when they are talking about you, stand up for yourself. one of my friends was in the same position as you were in and one day she just turned around and said (lets call her Chanel) "Chanel, instead of talking about me behind my back, why dontyou just say it to my face?!" stand up for yourself, and stay strong.
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^i found you a website that goes step by step with the actual screen on how to block people.
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I hate bullies, I swear. I know everyone's not the same, but I'd beat the crap outta her. Find out WHY it is she dislikes you. Could it be jealousy, or a rumor? Have you ever talked to her? Not that you should care what other people think anyway. Talking to your counselor and switching classes is also a good idea. Your teacher, by the way, is being stupid. Don't turn to her for anymore advice. I think it is important to get to the bottom of it though, and if she refuses to talk, just ignore her. Now, if she lays a hand on you, that's something else. You have a right to defend yourself you know. Talking to your parents, or hers, can also help. My mom would mess anyone up for me. I can't think of one who wouldn't. I hope I helped.
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to block a person on facebook you go to the right hand top corner and click on privacy... it should take you to the privacy page (at the top it'll say privacy overview) go to the bottom of the page on the left hand side it will say block people... and then you add her to the block list and she will have no conact with you whatsoever...
so since you've already talked to a teacher about her...is is a possibility for you to go to the school counselor? maybe they will have some helpful ideas...if not then you should probably go to the principal...because it doesnt matter if its outside the classroom it is still happening in school which is very wrong... and something needs to be done about it... you need to go to some other higher authoritive figure besides a teacher...and if that still doesnt work then maybe you should tell your parents...because then if they talked to the principal about it the whole situation becomes a lot more serious...
as far as waht you should do about her at school...ignore her...she obviously wants to get a rise out of you and if you show that shes making you miserable then shes happy cuz shes accomplishing what she set out to do...but if you just are like meh whatever i dont give a crap what you say i dont need this in my life and show taht you are better then her...sooner or later shes going to leave you alone...because when you show taht it upsets you that is exactly what she wants to happen....which is pathetic
stay strong girl! things will get better soon and good luck!
ps-if you have teh courage it might help if you stood up to her and were just like you know what leave me alone okay?! i never did anything to you... so just leave me be!
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If my memory is right, there is a way to block on facebook. If not you can always contact them and report abuse from that user. But that's actually the easy part...
Now for school, it can take a long time to do it even if you do everything corretly. So bare with. You should try to avoid eye contact with her and avoid her as much as possible. Ignoring her comments and stuff is what most will say, but its really hard. So I suggest a book or doodling or writing something. Anything that keeps you busy and your mind off her. After sometime, things should die down to not so often. But if she continues and nothing anyone else suggests works, get some friends who will back you up but won't resort to violence. You have to confront her and speak your mind. Avoid a fight at all costs. Violence is never the answer. If something happens in class, tell the teacher. Outside, talk to a hall monitor, security officer, couselor, dean, principal, or whoever you can.
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To block someone on facebook - you can go to privacy and click limited profile and type her name in. hide your wall and everything. [un-check whatever you want to hide, she can't contact you anyway with that.] & the teacher saying they can't do anything about harrsment is a lie, go talk to your conuslar about switching your health with another one of your elevctives. And tell the consular about her also; thats suppose to be reported asap. The hallways, if your in highschool their is always two different ways to get to your classes - avoid the way she takes. [ ♥ ]
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