why should you go out iwth a guy?
you dont have too.. and nobody said *YOU SHOULD*
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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :(
Well first tell your friends to stay out of it.. go ask your boyfriend about it and dont say so and so said you wanted to break up with me.. just tell him how feel about him and stuff then see if he breaks the bad news to you.. i mean if he's going to tell your friend that he's going to break up with you and not tell you thats kinda bitchy.. he should be a real guy and tell you or atleast try to talk to you.. i bet if you ask him or soemthing its **MOST LIKELY A LIE** find out for yourself and dont believe these girls that tell you that cause *ALLLLLL FEMALES LOVE! DRAMA* and they will always find a way to start it even if it means messin up their friends relationships with guys.. ♥ Dez
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My boyfriend and I love eachother to death. We were best friends for four years before we decided to go out. We have been going out for five months. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive- desirable. I asked him, and he says he does. But he never calls me names like sweetheart anymore, and he lacks initiative. I don't know what to do.
Usually thats hot at the beginning of the relationship and then it starts to fade away.. try askin him why he dont call you sweethear anymore.. ♥ Dez
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There this guy that I like and he likes me too ( we might be going out soon.. he told me he wanted to ask me an important question after I came back from vacation ) and it's just kinda been bothering me in my mind like ( cause I'm kinda preppy/girly )," What are we gonna do whenever we hang out together out in like public like the mall? He'll want to go into Hot Topic and stuff and I'll want to go into Hollister and Abercrombie..." and I feel very outta place around his friends and stuff cause they're all in black and skater clothes and I'm sitting there all in like Hollister shirts and stuff. I really want to go out with him, that's just been nagging in the back of my head for awhile now. And it's just whenever I hang out with him I have SO much fun and if we do have some stuff in common like I do like alotta punk bands and stuff and etc., I just hate how everyone out there will freak out basically ( at least at my school ) if punks are dating punks/goths or preps aren't dating jocks and preps and stuff, I mean why can't people just let people date people? =/ Please help!!
Love,
Labeled Love =/
i dont believe that thats racist.. he isnt another race he is just another style in clothing and what not.. well do what you want and you shouldnt care what people will think.. if you like somebody you should stay with them dont break up with them for something stupid..
you should *NOT* feel out of place.. if you can try to relate to something him or him and his freinds talk about..dont just sit there and listen..♥ Dez
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Im getting help from the website on my mini ipod. and it says to hold down the "menu button and the select buttons" what are the select buttons?
im sure the select buttons mean you push them to **SELECT** something.. ♥ Dez
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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.
i think your mom is trippin not to be mean.. well yes the first couple times might be a lil uncomfortable but its not like pain you'll cry over..**but i guess it depends on how you handle pain** in my opinion i think you'll be fine.. even if you havent masterbated used tampons i would think it still would hurt that bad hun.. yes you might bleed a **LITTLE BIT** but your not going to be gushin with blood comin out of you.. and having sex with him on your wedding night is a good thing to do it would be romantic.. i suggest you make sure he goes slow with you.. of course he will tho he loves you.. ive never heard anybody tell me that it burns when they pee after having sex but i guess some people can be different.. hope i helped and if you need anymore advice ask.. ♥ Dez
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Im buying a shirt for a friend of mine who is 6`1 and quite thin. Im not sure what size shirts he wears and I dont want to ask him because I want it to be a surprise. Do you think a large or meduim would work best? Looking at both length and width. I dont want him with baggly clothes but I dont want it too short either.
i would buy a large.. ♥ Dez
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Alot things have happened to me lately..my parents split..my dad moved out..and my friendships are coming and going. I'm depressed. How do i get over this?
Write it down on paper it might help you get some things down.. or if you have atleast close good friend try talking to them.. ♥ Dez
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My boyfriend and I are going to seperate schools next year and I think its going to be hard to stay in touch alot but we both really want to stay together because we love each other alot.. does anyone have any tips that will keep us from drifting apart?
Going to different schools might be a good thing.. then you dont have to worry about everybody bein in your business or him bein on you all the time you can be free.. also while you guys go to different schools just make sure you make time for eachother.. maybe see eachother after school a couple days a week and on weekends try to see eachother.. maybe talk on the phone atleast once a day *night would probably be the best time*.. always ask eachother whats going on even ask about eachothers new schools.. ♥ Dez
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I was wondering...what stores sell good sunglasses for teens at good prices. If you could tell me the price ranges that would be really helpful too. Thanks!
Walmart.. ♥ Dez
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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?
talk to her about it.. tell her what you'd like to do and ask what she wants to do with you.. ♥ Dez
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I think im fat but people say imnot but i just wanna look good in a bathing suit. soes anyone have any exercises or web sites i can go to. i just wanna loose a few punds.
HELP ME PLEASE
-x- Jayme -x-
Start out with a good diet maybe one where you can still have some good stuff.. also running/walking is good.. doing sit ups would help you also..good luck and if you need anymore advice im here.. ♥ Dez
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okay my friend got fingured by her boyfriend. shes just about 2 weeks late for her period, and she keeps asking me if that could have affected her period track. she keeps thinking shes pregant, but i know that cant be the case. can someone finguring you cause you to skip a period? or any thing? please post and fast with advice!!
Yes her gettin fingered could of affected her period.. she cant get pregnany from gettin fingered.. ♥ Dez
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My friend has diabetes(sp?) and she eats like a pig! lol no offense but she never gains weight. she's like 5 foot 4 or so and eats all the time but weighs 995 pounds. is this normal? i don't think she's anorexic... but
Yes it can be normal.. ♥ Dez
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everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex
...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am
yes you bleed the first time you have sex.. and it hurts a lil bit also.. ♥ Dez
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Ok so my dad teaches a 10th grade guys Sunday School class, and im friends with all of the guys in there. well i recently went on a youth trip with my church and several of them were there. I got to talk to them alot. im just friends with some of them,but i realzed that i kinda liked this one guy. he is really funny and really cute. im really good friends with his best friend so i asked him what he thought about me liking his friend,and he thought it was an awesome idea ,and said that they guy had thought of asking me out before. Well see my dad is really good friends with these guys and they absolutely love my dad,but they kno not to touch me because my dad would kill them. so i really want to get to kno this guy better but im scared that he wont want to because of my dad. even though i kno my dad wont do anything to him . haha but the guy doesnt kno that. im really stuck give me some help
Why dont you try talkin to your dad about it.. i mean get the guy to ask you out first and everything then afterwards ask and tell your dad that you'd like to go on a date with him or atleast just hang out.. tell him you have grown up and your not a lil girl and would like to have some fun and get to know this guy you like.. ♥ Dez
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Hello, I was wondering if there were some long term effects of going on "the pill"? I've checked the Planned Parenthood site, it doesn't say anything about long term effects, only side effects in taking it.
I've also googled it without a credible website, a lot of them are personal websites or something of the sort.
Does anyone have a website that they know of that I can find this information?
sorry i dont know a website but i am on the pill and i can tell you that i havent had long term effects and either has my mom sister or any of my friends.. just at the beginning for the first few days i felt sick.. ♥ Dez
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ok. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. probably about 2 months. and it seems like we don't talk as much as we used to. its like we get all nervous around each other and we can't seem to start a conversation xcept when we're on aim. i know thats sad. does anyone have any advice on this one??
thx. x0x0
Maybe talkin to him on line is okay until you both get a lil more comfortable.. then after you guys are more comfortable with eachother you can talk on the phone more.. you really havent been going together that long so you guys might need more time.. ♥ Dez
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On june 13 and june 15 i had sex wit my bf. we had used protection n everythin. then i got my period on june 19...it last bout 5 days and it was a heavy flow..meaning it really was my period n nothin lik "spotting". newyz i havnt had sex since june 15th but now its been 34 days and i havnt had my period. usually i have it around 30-31 days...could i be pregnant?
Its not the 30th 0r 31st yet.. i'd wait til then and dont freak out yet.. wait til like the 2nd of august to freak out.. ♥ Dez
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ok.this is something i've always wondered. when girls aren't around what do guys talk about?. haha i know its a gay question. but i've just always wondered that. ill rate you a 5 =) =) =)
Well i've always been one of the guys since i could remember.. my guy friends talk about how they do girls or talk about girls they like.. some are real assholes on how they talk about some females and some are sweet but most of em are assholes.. ♥ Dez
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