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ok. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. probably about 2 months. and it seems like we don't talk as much as we used to. its like we get all nervous around each other and we can't seem to start a conversation xcept when we're on aim. i know thats sad. does anyone have any advice on this one??
thx. x0x0
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umm one day when ya'll are talking on AIM be like have you noticed we dont talk as much face to face and it seems like we dont feel real comfortable around each other? and just see what he says and see how things go from there ,, ly
hope i helped
*ciao*
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What do you talk about on AIM? Talk about that with him in person. Go see a movie together or something, then talk about that. Talk about things you have in common, or things you don't. Whatever you can think of.
Even though you're nervous, you're just going to have to get past that. Push the thoughts from your mind, and be as comfortable and confident as you can be. If you start to talk more, he'll follow.
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Well, you can ask him what he did that day, (hopefully he would have done something) and then elaborate on something tha the did, and you can talk about it, which will probably eventually let you remeber some stories to tell, etc.
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Maybe talkin to him on line is okay until you both get a lil more comfortable.. then after you guys are more comfortable with eachother you can talk on the phone more.. you really havent been going together that long so you guys might need more time.. ♥ Dez
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well just ask him how his day was or.. ask him what hes doing this week/weekend... jsut you can come up with the most random stuff.. but i mean have you ever thouhgt maybe yall jsutarent meant for one anohter if you cant even realyl talk ... think about it. hope i have helped
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Call him up once in a while just to talk..! or maybe you should just tell him how you feel...if ur to scared..just tell him on aim!! because thats prolly the best thing to do..to make it better anyways!
Hope i helped and hope you'll rate me =)
-Brooke
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