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My boyfriend and I are going to seperate schools next year and I think its going to be hard to stay in touch alot but we both really want to stay together because we love each other alot.. does anyone have any tips that will keep us from drifting apart?
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Talk to each other a couple times a week. Honestly, long distance can make a relationship BETTER. You talk to each other alot more and get to know each other's stengths and weaknesses. Make this experience fun. Try renting the same movie and watch it one night when you're apart and then you'll have something to talk about and relate to. Also, try to see eachother on the weekends or a couple times a month. You'll miss each other so much, you'll be counting down the days to see one another. The desire will make your relationship more spicy, too. ;) Hope I helped!
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you guys wont drift apart. you'll just not be seeing each other for that much. but anyways e-mail, phone, and really specil nights out work.
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Well you can always talk on the fone and online and hang out on the weekends and do things like go to the movies and stuff like that !!
kaitlyn jo*
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Going to different schools might be a good thing.. then you dont have to worry about everybody bein in your business or him bein on you all the time you can be free.. also while you guys go to different schools just make sure you make time for eachother.. maybe see eachother after school a couple days a week and on weekends try to see eachother.. maybe talk on the phone atleast once a day *night would probably be the best time*.. always ask eachother whats going on even ask about eachothers new schools.. ♥ Dez
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My tips: phone, internet, hanging out.
He's going to a different school, not a different country.
You can still see him after school... and even if you were going to the same school, you could both wind up in completely different classes, and you wouldn't see him anyway.
His going to a different school gives you even more stuff to talk about with him.
There is a chance you'll break up though. And if you do, well, it wasn't meant to be.
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Ok well you didnt mention how far away he will be but if it is a distance that you can't see eachother often You could video tape you and him together just having fun. and talking about eachother. Then make a copy so you each have one and whenever you get lonely just put in the tape for a mini vist!
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make time for eachother! good luck
`baby
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1.call eachother VERY often
2.set up times for you two to see eachother
3.tell eachother you love one enother everyday.
i hope it helped even the slightest bit.
♥ leah
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Double Suicide.
Both of you jump of a cliff together it will be romantic, yet tragic and you'll always be remembered together.
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Strengthening your relationship now will help make the distance seem smaller. Taking the time for frequent phone calls, letters, emails, IMs, etc when you are apart will make the distance seem not so bad. Little things like a card or a note telling him you love him for no reason will go a long way. When you have school breaks, try spending time together then. The following sites have literally thousands of ideas to keep your romance going.
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I hope these help. Good luck and best wishes.
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Plan to try to see each other at least once a week, and plan to call each other every other day (switch off. Have you call one day, him call the next time, then you, etc...)
Make one day a month (like the day you started dating (the fourteenth, or whatever)) one day you CAN'T make other plans, and you have to see each other.
E-mail, IM, write, do everything you can to stay in touch. It's not that hard to stay in touch if you're both willing to work at it.
That's kinda what my boyfriend and I do, and we're going to separate colleges.
I hope this helps, and good luck with your guy!
-Siren =)
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Try and plan lots of times you can get together. Go to the mall, go to the movies, hang out at each others houses.
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