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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

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My friend is always saying the word bobadee to me. anyone know what it means? thanx
xoxo moofies megan

well,seeing that every girl in their lifetime has atleast made up one random word, or saying, I'd assume that's what it is!!

If not, then ask!!

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My mom heard from someone (sshe doesn't remember who) that ElAl Air does not allow discmen on their planrs. Is this true? I'm gonna be flying to Israel soon, and I don;t want to get my discman taken away.

I know this isn't any help whatsoever, but the only thing to be positvie(unless somebody here has flown EIAI airlines, or whatever it's called, is to call them and ask, unless you know of somebody who's flown that airline.

I know it's not much help, but i haven't flown that airline, So it's the best I could do

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ok well i like someone alot and that person likes me alot too, i wanna ask the person out but everybody tells me not to that i should wait for the person to ask me...should i just ask the person or should i wait? cuz it does seem like the person is gonna ask me...what should i do?

Well, I'm sorry if you're not, but this makes you sound like a girl.(the old thing where guys ask girls out)
Just ask the person out, whats the wors that can happen, him saying no.

And if your a guy, then hello, you should just ask her out, no big deal, as I said above, the worst that can happen is you being turned down, it's not going to ruin your life

Good Luck

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hi im 5'4 and 90 pounds. im worried that i dont weigh enough. everyone thinks im anerexic but im not so i dont care but i feel like my weight might be too low. should i gain weight?

yes, i went to a site and this is wut it said

You are radically undernourished! Panic!

the site was

http://www.am-i-fat.com

it will give u everything u need

at the very least, u wanna weigh 107

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wut would be a wicked cool sn for a gothic chick???

I think shortnsweet had a bunch of awesome ideas.
im a christian catholic, so i don't like all the names I'm going to give you, but here goes anyways

also u can do some of the following formatted however you like, or you can add #'s

GoThIcChIlD

Xx SaTaNs BaBii xX (are you really that gothic)

xBlOoDyxChIlDx

Xx GoThIc ChIcKa xX

xxLiFexxSuXxx

PuNk PiNk

DeViL ScOrEs

those are really all i can think of
it they're for advicenators, then they will all work if u do like_those things, but if they're for aim or something, then you will need to not use spaces

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my sisters ex boyfriend really likes me and i like him... its been a few months since they broke up so is it okay if i hook up with him?? or no??

Why did they break up?
Is he a cheater?

My sister would MURDER me if I went out with one of her Ex's, but the best thing that you can do is see how your sister would react. Also make sure she means what she says, like she might just say yes to make you happy, but if she says yes make sure she means yes and that she isn't just trying to make you happy!!

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ok i am 5'2 and i weigh 147..i was really pretty last year (and skinny) but this summer i gained alot of weight..imk still pretty i just wanted to know how to loose the weight..?(i rate good!)

diet
excersise
cut down on food
run
jog
walk
sports
go to the following site, it will tell you if you're fat, and how to lose weight!!

http://www.am-i-fat.com/index.html

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if ur getting fingered or having sex..how do u kno ur getting on orgasim??

You should be able to feel an orgasm, if not then that is reall odd.

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anyone up for a little fun? on the internet? if you want, I M me. pineypaige03! ill be waiting...

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hey, what kind of nickname can u give for Chantal?
( pronunced shan-tell ) thanks.

-Chantal.R

ok, well u've heard all the one's that im about to say, I'd assume cuz they are the 1st that came to mind

chan(shan)
channy(shanny)
channers(shanners)
tal(tail)
tally

if i think of any more then ill edit this!! :-)

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Is it ok to just flirt? I used to like be obbsessed with different guys but now I just wanna have fun...is that ok?

of course
in a way it's kinda mean if u have no interest in they guy, cuz then they'll start to like u

but if ur single, and ur flirtin wit guys, and u kno that the guy is most likely gunna end up likin ya sure

wuts wrong wit flirtin if ur single!! :-)

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heyy this isnt much of a question but i was lookin at random ppls columns nd ure like exactly a year younger than me.. i was like woah cuz ure bday is the day after mine! (November 6, 1989 is mine) nd i thot it was madd funny lol!! so yeah ne ways my column thingy is xChainMeUp13x!! lol ttyl!!

.:Keryn:.

hehe, cool, well i think i'll just go check out ur column!!
that is sooooo awesome lol

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Who thinks Hilary Duff is fat?

im not a huge fan of hers, but i don't think she's fat, y would u even ask a questions like that

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It doesn't seem like we have touched on this subject much. I know how contravercial it is...so please dont pass judgement on me. I want advice not a lecture. 2 years ago on Aug 8th I has an abortion. I was 7 weeks Pregnate. I strugle every day with the descion i made. This time of year is the worst though. I had no support from anyone who knew including the scumbag who I had sex with. I mad a rash descion. And to this day I know it was the wrong one. It was increadably selfish. I had more options but I took the easy way out. I should have taken responsibilty for my actions and I didn't. With all that said, my quetion is...what are my chances of being able to conceive a child again. Are they less...or does it make it more difficult becuase of the abortion. Please let me know any info or websites you may know of that can help me. Thanks for your help ! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

im almost positive that u can still ge tpregnant, u'd prolly hafta ask a doctor, and if u want any sites u can go to askjeeves.com or u can do a google search

u weren't takin the easy way out, u were thinkin about your life, and your future, yes there were other options, but dependin on ur age, it wouldn't matter

and abortion is the hardest (and in my opinion) worst desicion to make, it's killing an innocent persons life, BUT, u had ur reasons, and whats done is done

good luck!!

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how do u change ur pass on here?

if u wanna change ur password, u can't make another 1, the site sends u one, so it's really hard to remember, lucky for me i got my password changed so many times, that i finally got an easy one that i can rember

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I asked a question about weight loss. i didnt ask if i was fat, i asked if nayone knew about pills or patches i could use since im 13 and really insecure. they deleted it and i dont understand why.

because it's a repeat questions

check out the weight loss category, and look at the other 20-30 questions on the subject

u will get ur answer there (i am not tryin to sound rude or mean in any way)

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Hi, MFS here again...

This is not really a question, but a request...

Can we please stop it with the "I rate" and "Rate me!" crap? Are getting ratings THAT important to you? Does it somehow make your life complete? This site isn't a game, people... ratings are not for keeping score. There is no competition - just advice. The ratings are supposed to be for keeping the bad advice off the site, much like we have the moderators in place to help keep the really bad questions off the site.

I mean, when I see a question that says "I rate!" in the body or even subjet of it, it just screams "OMG! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!" It is getting kind of pathetic, as we're seeing it ALL THE TIME!

Let's give it a rest.

thankyou
i am sick of people that do that
if sum1 asks me to rate them , then i either rate REALLY LOW, or if the advice is REALLY good, then i give em a 3

i did at 1 point say i rate, just because i knew that i'd actually get answers, but i don't do it anymore

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okay the commercial where the guy gets his tougne stuck in the mixxer for dairyqueen, isnt it as stupid as this questian? lol *bored* someone talk!!

i saw it yesterday, at the begining when he was talkin, i thought he was gunna be like a stroke victim, but then i saw the rest, i laffed, but it's a kinda dumb commercial, when u lick those things ur supposed to take them off the machine, DUH lmao!!

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Hi, im Theresa, yes i am also a columnist but i need help, see i need braces ( but not TERRIBLY) only a few of my teeth are a little off center but my mom thinks that i really want braces! We kinda have a shortage of money going on too. Braces are like $4,000 and we cant really afford it but my mom really wants to take the risk. What should i tell her to let her know that i really dont NEED braces yet?
*~T/H/E/R/E/S/A~*

tell ur mom to hold off

there are many adults, even one off the lady's that work in my orthodonist place has braces, because she couldn't afford them as a child

tell her that braces aren't much fun and that u'd rather wait (i can't stand em, u get cold sores n kanker sores they suck)

o, and if u have insurance then they shouldn't really cost that much, especially if they're only top, or only bottom (u didn't say if it was like that im just makin a statement)

your best bet is to talk to her, tell her u don't need em yet, and u can hold off a year or two, or maybe more!!

Hope this helps!!

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For some reason when ever I ask a question, the question never appears under the give advice secttion. This one may not either. Does anyone know why? And could anyone help me with a question I have?

it's because of the screening process

once they stopped screening, if it's a good enuff question, then they post it

at one point they stopped screening to give us level1 moderators a chance to do sumthin, but they got so much junk that they decided to start again, i think

but it's all because of screening, that could take anywhere from a minute to a few days, it all depends on the level 2 moderators and advice_admin

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