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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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ok for gym, i mean i suck. like im so confused. i have no idea what i'm doing half the time. i just suck. i freak out if i break a nail. i mean, i guess i say omg alot. thats just who i am. and i like it like that. i dont like sports. i never have. but everyone in gym like freaks out when i like miss the ball or something. & some people can be really mean. i mean its gym. its not like were going to some championship game.

what can i do? or say to them?

I'm going to be honest with you - it is kind of frustrating when you're trying to play a game & nobody knows what to do even if the game has been played before or if the directions were said. It's not that you suck at sports, you're just not paying attention. I'm not good at sports either, nor do I like them, but I play well because I listen. And breaking a nail isn't a big deal, they grow back.

If they say something, just tell them to chill the fuck out - it's just a game & nothing to get mad over, but I can still see their point as to how someone just standing there & worrying more about their nail can be annoying.

How do you put a picture as your myspace headline either using tinypic or photobucket?
I have tried but with no luck :[

xx

I suggest using tinypic over photobucket. Tinypic codes are a lot smaller, so they fit better & photobucket codes are too long so you can't usually use them everywhere.

Anyways, when on tinypic, you obviously search the picture you want. When you click the picture, get the IMG code out of the codes it will provide you. Take the [IMG][/IMG] tags off the end & place it into this code:

The code you get once you take the tags off is what you put into the quotations & then you just put that in your headline. It should work.

okay so im looking for some sad songs. songs that really give you that feeling inside. that heart dropping feeling of sadness. know what i mean? but yea im looking for some really sad songs. preferably rock, alternative, pop, country, acoustic kinda music.
for example a few of the songs i really like that are ones that im kinda looking for are...

Tonight I Want To Cry by Keith Urban

and

One Man Drinking Games by Mayday Parade.

or even

Adams Song by Blink 182

they can be break up or suicidel or loosing someone kinda songs or anything

i just need sad ones

thank you so much!

Song on the left, band on the right.

Your Guardian Angel -- The Red Jumpsuit Appratus.
When You're Gone -- Avril Lavigne.
Vulnerable -- Secondhand Serenade.
Morning Sadness -- Madina Lake.
Radios In Heaven -- Plain White T's.
My Heroine -- Silverstein.
Discovering The Waterfront -- Silverstein.
Untitled -- Simple Plan.
Wake Me Up When September Ends -- Green Day.
Sunsets & Car Crashes -- The Spill Canvas.
Self Conclusion -- The Spill Canvas.
This Is For Keeps -- The Spill Canvas.
Bound To Happen -- The Spill Canvas.
Secret Oath -- The Spill Canvas.
The Night Will Go As Follows -- The Spill Canvas.
Crashing Down -- Sugarcult.

why do boys hate it when girls cry?

They don't know what to do and/or say. It makes them uncomfortable & they feel awkward & weird.

well lets just say i think i like a younger guy..and he is about 2 and a half years younger...would it be wrong to date?

No.

How much does she weigh? And does anyone know why if she's Argentinan and Mexican, why she looks so European? I love her blue eyes, but it makes no sense to me, a major in biology. Does she have pale skin? Thanks in advance to anyone who can answer one or more of these questions.

does any female care to tell me what makes a wife cheat and is there help out there for this?????

You either aren't satisfying her, or she doesn't see any way to fix the problems in the marriage. She also might just not feel that way about you anymore or something.

I suggest marriage counseling, and if that doesn't work, ditch the bitch. No one deserves to be cheated on & heartbroken.

does anyone poke their ear with a stick to get junk out? or is my family just weird. it hurts so much!

I've only used two things to clean my ear before. I've used a paper clip [not the massively huge ones] & Q-tips. Paperclips are kind of dangerous because they can break inside your ear, so I don't really recommend them. Q-tips are usually okay because they have cotton & the ear-wax will stick. However, don't use them alot, and if it hurts, you're putting it too far into your ear.

What are some interesting and fun ways to kiss your significant other? any unique tricks or tips you know of? share 'em

I've used PopRocks before, it's pretty fun. :]

Anyone know good ways to releave stress?

Writing.
Sleeping.
Walking.
Listening To Music.
Singing.
Dancing.

i need a quote for drinkin w the girlss ! thankss ;] haha. anything w college is ok too bc were in collegee ~ thankss ♥

You might be able to get some from www.wittyprofiles.com

I have been married for 5 years, and for the past 10 months have been having an affair with a man from work. I love my husband, but I know that if I tell him the truth, we will be over. My husband is very good to me. The affair is now over. I have been feeling guilty and depressed, and I don't know if I should tell my husband. I also think there is a possibility that I might do this again, and I can't explain why. What should I do? Tell him, and try to move on, or move on myself, and try to spare our relationship?

I honestly think that if you love your husband as much as you say you do, then you need to tell him what you've been doing behind his back for 10 months.

Yes, it'll hurt him & you'll be over, but the guilt will be gone & there won't be such a heavy weight on your shoulders. The depression might stay [simply because it's incredibly hard to get rid of], so for that I suggest you get counseling.

Since you know you're going to cheat again [or have the feeling that you are], I'd end it with your husband so that you can do this freely with no guilt since there is no attachment.

hi. 15/m. i eat my breakfast at about 7.30am, and after the the next time i eat is about 1/1.30 pm, because im at school and my lunch time is at 1pm. But by 10.30/11ish im really hungry, and at about 12, my stomache starts to rumble, and tis really embarrasing because sometimes the class is quiet and it starts making noise. i need something that will keep me fuller for longer. even oats wont work, ive tried virtually everything you can eat bor breakfast, and it doesnt work. any suggestions?

Are you allowed to have food with you in class or at school? If so, bring a snack for during class so that you can hold yourself over til lunch. If you can't, drink water. It'll make you go to the bathroom, but it will fill you.

What are some diets that have proved to be effective for people?
I know everyone has a different body type, but I'm just wondering.

example.. southbeach,atkins.. etc

Atkins & Weight Watchers work well. My friend lost 20 lbs on Atkins, and I know a friend who's on Weight Watchers.

Honestly though, your best bet is to just eat healthy & exercise. There's no need to spend a whole bunch of money on some diet when you can do it yourself.

i seem to be stressing alot lately. so much that its making me physically sick. any good ideas for getting rid of stress? thanks =)

Writing.
Listening To Music.
Walking.
Singing.
Dancing.
Sleeping.

There's a lot of things you can do to get rid of stress. This search should help:

Is there any way to make your period last a shorter amount of time without using birth control?

Working out can do it.

Ok, i know this is a pretty stupid question but what does douschbag actually mean? i know its bad and stuff but i dont know what it actually means. thanks so much and i will rate you for answering my random question! haha :D

PS sry if its misspelled haha :P

When you call someone a douchebag, you're basically calling them a jerk, an idiot, an asshole, etc.

There's plenty of meanings to it though. Search it on www.dictionary.com & www.ubandictionary.com

how do you give one? like is it gross? and what do you do? i really need help ! thanks

We're not allowed to give detailed answers cause we can get in trouble. Google will help.

about 1 to 2 weeks ago i took two pregnancy tests and they were both negative, but then i didn't have my period last month. Does this mean i'm pregnant or just all mest up? i want to get another test but i dont want my parents to find out until i know for sure and last time was hard enough. plzz help me!!

Sometimes pregnancy tests can come out wrong, and it can take more than 1 or 2 to determine whether you are or not. It could just be that you're worried because worrying can delay your period. :| I know, it sucks. Just try again & if it comes out negative again, see a doctor & see what they say.

I will send you the mp3 if you'd like to take a shot at it.

It's better if you just listen to it & get the lyrics. Get the first few lines of the song, and send them to me. I'll look it up for you.

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