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what makes a wife cheat?????


Question Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 9:52 pm

does any female care to tell me what makes a wife cheat and is there help out there for this?????

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christina answered Saturday November 3 2007, 12:02 am:
You either aren't satisfying her, or she doesn't see any way to fix the problems in the marriage. She also might just not feel that way about you anymore or something.


I suggest marriage counseling, and if that doesn't work, ditch the bitch. No one deserves to be cheated on & heartbroken.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Friday November 2 2007, 9:23 pm:
The overall answer is that she is self centered.

There are many justifications for cheating, but in the end it comes down to the fact that she is more concerned with her own satisfaction and happiness than making sure she doesnt hurt others or that others are satisfied and happy.

She might be unhappy and not want to say anything.

She might be the kind of person who is simply very sexual and doesnt tend towards monogamy.

She might have absolutely no self control.

She might be immature and is getting her "edgy guy sex" jolts from someone else. Ive met women who got off on cheating. It made the sex illicit. We all know illicit is exciting, our culture breeds that in people.

But, in the end, all of these answers and many more besides center on the fact that she is selfish.

Selfish people generally dont become less selfish.

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thelaura answered Friday November 2 2007, 4:11 pm:
It will vary depending on your relationship.
There's no excuse for cheating, although the following may drive her to do it:
*She's just generally grown tired of your marriage
*Her feelings for you are disappearing
*The marriage has lost it's spark - she needs something new and exciting
*You aren't there for her
*You don't give her attention
and of course there is help for it. If you both genuinely want to save you marriage, you can work at it alone, or see a counselor.
I hope things work out for you if you are going through it at the moment.

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scootermclisle answered Friday November 2 2007, 4:09 pm:
There is no help. Leave your wife.

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pouncebaby9 answered Friday November 2 2007, 3:56 pm:
a wife may cheat because the husband is not satisfying enough in bed, or just sick of there husand, or possibly just not like them at all (anymore) Help i suppose is keeping the relationship and or marriage exciting and always intresting and not the same thing everytime there together.

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