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(girls only!)can u help me i need options on what to do plea
well theres this girl i like of course and she knows it very well that i do but im not an expert on what to do and we hardly talk ever since i told her i liked her i mean i would understand if she liked me and still didnt cause every one tells her i do but when i hear them do that and there all laughing and so is she but i dont know what to do so i look away and now i realize that was stupid and i looked at her and she looked mad but now it looks like she likes me more then she has ever oh should i care what anyone thinks but her i mean i dont want people picking on her for me liking her i think i should talk to alot more because this year we have no classes together but i love her with all my heart and soul and dont want to hurt her in any bad way so ill find out on monday if she likes me cause if u dont agree or anything i will go and talk to her around her friends and see if shes realy happy and wants me to do more i mean im the more think more act none but i want to change it for her and im shy and she might be to so if it means getting out of comfort zone i will do it to be with her i mean im addicted to runescape and every one hates me for it and i dont want her to hate me for it and should i act confident even though im not and smile alot around her and say hi alot more and have it go good shes the best thing ever happened to me but i dont know if she likes me i mean i understand what notto like about me
should i get and answer monday and ask her no matter what else happens? well every day she gets even more beatutiful and i love her and i guess i just need to see if i should do this if not in morning should i go walk the way to her lockers and walk the other way with her talking and think its not creepy in a girls point of view
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A few other tips.
Falling heart and soul in love with someone who you arent even sure is interested in you is a bad idea. It will never, EVER turn out into a decent relationship. Remember that.
Talking to a girl in a group of her friends is a terrible idea unless you KNOW shes interested, her friends like you, and you are confident.
If you can say yes to all three of those, then it becomes a good idea because you have peer pressure from her friends and she will say yes. Ive had 100% success rate with that one, it feels great to pull off and makes you that much cooler to a girl.
Talk to her alone at some point. Dont tell her "I like you". Tell her you want to do something. A movie. Dinner. Whatever. Girls function better if you give them options rather than saying "I like you. Do something with that information that makes us happy"
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AWW this is soo sweet <33 this reminds me of a situation i was in once except i was the girl and the boy was my current boyfriend. and the boy played pokemon games instead of runescape.
anyway
YEAH DEFINATELY go and make small talk with her. dont just pass by her and not do anything because 1) that will make you seem chicken and 2) you might look like a stalker to her, which is deffff 100% creepy and will make her like you less.
when you talk to her dont try and make the situation a big deal because it will be awkward for her and twice as awkward for you. just forget for a moment that she knows you like her and go for it. also be yourself and get more confidence! if you dont like yourself, you cant expect her to like you either. it all starts with how you look at yourself. im sure she will be more attracted to you if you portray SOME confidence in yourself.
also DONT go to her if she has more than one friend with her or if you guys are in an area with a lot of people because some girls get kinda embarassed being singled out like that.
IF she rejects you though by like giving you weird looks or just not responding to you just give her a BIG smile and say "alright, it was nice talking to you. see you around." and remember that there are plenty of other fishes in the seaa.
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Go ahead and ask her. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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