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dont know what to do anymore
hey guys.
***CAUTION: may be long****
so here is my problem:
this guy named "K" really likes me (I mean REALLY). But i do not like him at all, and like one of his best friends.
today i figured out that the person that i like "D" also has a secret crush on me. D is one of my best friends, and he is super sweet, kind, and thoughful...did i mention cute too???
the word spreads that D likes me, and soon everyone in school knows....even K.
K and D are no longer friends, and K is really mad at him for liking me too. because D knows that K REALLY REALLY likes me.
Now get this....K and i are kinda friends. and K gets mad real easy and starts throwing fights. i know... he did one not to long ago because he saw one of his other best friends and me at the mall. i want to go out with D. and am really afraid of drama and that stuff occuring.
So what im asking is... what should i do.
Did that make any sense to you???
love... DaAdvicePerson. did i mention i am 13?
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Ignore K.
It's okay to be hurt, and it's okay to be upset when someone doesn't like you back. It's not okay to throw fits and it's certainly not okay to 'punish' your friends for thier feelings.
Drama will occur, obviously, but is that a good enough reason not to go after what you want (ie D)?
I don't think so.
Learning to hold your head high when others are needlessly angry with you is part of growing up and being confident. You'll either need to learn how to do that, or live without D.
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Yes, that made perfect sense. I wouldn't worry about "K" because you don't have feelings for him, so he shouldn't matter. Though if you do date "D," then you have to be able to handle the drama that may unfold by "K." If you and "D" can handle that, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
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Ok, well first of all, if "K" really cares about you, he would want you to be happy. As much as it kills him to see you with someone else, he has to accept it. I think you should talk to him about this. Let him know how you feel.
Ahh, hope this helps.
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It sounds to me like you like drama, since you are making a big deal out of nothing. Go out with D. K's concerns are not your problem.
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