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My name is Matthew. I try my best to serve the Lord as best I can. I also try to serve my fellow brother and sisters as best I can. Salvation is my goal for you.

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OK I have N64 (I know really old school), but I love it. Anyway I have the game James Bond Goldeneye. I am on the 16th level which is the "control." I am an agent, which is the first level. OK so the instructions say to "destroy armored mainframe" but I have no idea even what that is nonetheless how to go about doing so. Does anyone have any idea that owns Goldeneye on Nintendo 64? Any help would be greatly appriceated.

I love this game! I still play it! Anyway...The Armoured mainframe are the tall green boxes sitting around the control room. You have to use the mines to blow them up. They look like big computers with no screens. They surround the room with the huge screen and computers on the floor. Hope I helped!

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what is a birthday suit?

The suit you were born in! (Naked)...Only the best suit ever! haha just kidding. But seriously...its when your naked.

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I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal?

Yeah. Its normal. I have thoughts of this sort sometimes. I am as happy as I can ever be....A very awesome and loving girlfriend, good family, great friends, got money, goin to college...and sometimes I have these thoughts also. There iesnt anything to worry about mate. Just dont act on them. That wouldnt be normal....

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i play guitar and need to know what kinda of stack i should get for small venues.

Anything Marshall. I use a Marshall Half stack. In my own opinion Marshall is the best.

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do u finger a girl for?

Pretty much till your bored, or she says stop.

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tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp

Yeah...That is NOT embarrasing...If my girlfriend ever brought me brownies or cookies, I would die a happy happy man. Not that I would die or anything. Trust me though. He will love the free food. All guys do. Just bring him the brownies.

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When a girl gets fingered.. is the guy gunna think its wierd if there is hair down there..

That all depends on the guy. Some might care, others dont. I dont care that much, but if its ridicoulsly hairy then I say trim it down a bit. However im sure your safe in that area. If he really likes you, it shouldnt be a problem.

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When you look at the view feedback, what does the number mean?

the number to which they rated your answer. 5 being the best, 1 being the worst.

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this is a wierd question but ok.. like its hard to explain.. but my vagina is different.. i think? you have the 2 flaps.. and your pee hole and then the sex/tampon/period hole.. but like around the pee hole thingy i have his extra set of flaps.. its soo wierd!! will that effect anything? its just so wierd.. and this is stopping me from like geting fingered and stuff cuz im just scared!! please help
*~Scared~*

i believe that is the flaps attached to the "hood" near the clitorus. I say there is nothing to worry about, however if that is not reassuring, I would look it up. type vagina in google and look at pics and compare maybe?

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Wouldn't it be great if when I ask serious questions and really are interested in finding out an answer to a FITNESS question, my question gets deleted and so when I ask it again in simpler words it gets deleted again. If I can't ask questions about how to work out a certain muscle to become in ok physcial fitness, then what are we to ask in a fitness category?!?!

I completely agree with this. I have posted in the discussion board about good questions being deleted many many times. Nothing gets done about it, which sucks. However I am with you man...I also think that if this question gets deleted then this site has no sence of priorities...

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Me and my boyfriend of a year had sex not too long ago, and we didn't use protection. He said he didn't cum or even pre-cum but I don't think he is a hundred percent sure. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant? What are the signs of being pregnant? I really don't want to be pregnant I am only thirteen! Where are good places to get protection. Oh, and we didn't have sex for long! It only last a minute because we were really worried!

Pre cum happens. It will always happen. You cant not pre cum. It is always possible to be pregnant. Sad to say but its true. To get protection go to planned parenthood for some free condoms. Or buy them at a store. Signs to show your pregnant...Hmmm. go to www.afraidtoask.com. Theyll help you out. Speaking of helping out...Hope I helped!!

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How to know if my women got pregnant?

Have her take a test. Also check for signs...Morning sickness etc.

www.afraidtoask.com has info for you.

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Ok i know this is going to souond stupid, but im willing to take that risk. ok how many holes does a girl have in her vagina? Because i looked and there was only 2 (counting your butt hole) but wen i wear a tampon i can still pee. Me and my friend were discussing it (i have NO idea why) so just give me an anwser please!

There are two holes. One for the urinary tract, and one for intercourse/makin babies!

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if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.

I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do

I dont think it should make you slip from the lord. Its human nature to look at this stuff. Dont feel bad and dont give up the lord. All sins are forgiven so nothing bad is going to come out of it. its harmless really. Just looking at this stuff. You can cut down and such. If you have the urge to look at it, do something else. Play an online game at www.2flashgames.com. They have many games to take your mind off it. Dont worry mate....things will get easier with it. Resist the temptations.

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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments

Those are stretch marks. its from the skin becomming to tense and finally just breaking. The purple area is the stretched skin.....Its hard to get rid of them so your stuck with them for a while......

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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do.

This has been said and Ill say it too. YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE. Protect yourself (most important) and stop him from turning into something more. Something needs to be done and its up to you to take charge. Tell the principle or teacher or parents anyone! Dont go to friends or him...theyll tell you the same thing I am, and he just wont listen.

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Hi! I'm a 16-year-old girl. Only problem is, he doesn't know that I exist. I'm way too shy to talk to anyone of the opposite sex...but I want to get to know him more than anything! He's wicked nice...but I'm just not sure how to actually talk to him. Any suggestions on how to approach him or talk to him?

I would say just go and talk to him. Youve got nothing to lose, but we all know you wouldnt do this. So I would resort to plan "Have a friend talk to him for you" It never seems to fail. Get the low down and such. However I would start with the small talk....you know...."The weathers nice today." "DO you have the time? :response here: Oh that is a nice watch!" Etc.....

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okay, i really need some help. One of my best friends is dating a 24 year old!!! and she is ONLY 16. They only talk on the phone though and see eachother maybe once a month at most. It's totally unhealthy.. I'm really scared for her because every time they do see eachother, theyve gone further and further, sexually. They've only made out, hes sucked her boobs, hes fingered her, and theyve had "dry sex" or w/e.. This has been goin on for about 4 monts now.. Ive tried several times talking to her about it, but I just dont know what to do anymore.. please help

From what I have gathered here, the dude just wants some action. Sadly, your friend has fallen for the "hes older and mature" type crap. You need to sit her down and force her to talk about it. Tell her its unheatly. She IS going to do something she will regret. It needs to end. You need to end it for her. This may seem harsh in a way but it must be said. If what it takes is to hurt her feelings then by all means do it. In the end she will understand and realize you were right. Dont let her make the wrong choices. Let her make the right ones.

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i just gave birth 5 weeks ago and my disposible stiches are irrating me so much, the dr said it was normal but id like to hear other opinions...also my discharge is really goopy, i think its the disposable-ness of the stiches??? im not sure...help...

I am not 100% sure on this however I will try to give you an Honest answer. I understand why it would itch. You have pieces of string or whatever it is now a days inside you and your body is like wtf mate. Get it out. SO naturally it is going to itch. The Doctor said it is normal so I would trust his decision on the matter. With the "goopy" discharge. You gave birth 5 weeks ago. It's going to be odd down there. Its normal to have that. You just have to deal with it. In time the stiches will come out and the "goop" will stop. Just tough it out and things will be right in the world once again!

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I always thought my wife liked my body. But recently, in front of a whole group of friends, she stated that I'm "not allowed" to wear a swimsuit, which got a laugh. She then expounded on this, stating that I am "very white, and very hairy, and when I wear my work shorts, I get a "tan line" from just above my knees, to just below them. This shows in my swimsuit. Everyone thought it was really funny but me.
Do you think she was "just kidding', or did the truth slip out there?

She could be joking but I would not put it past her to have let the truth slip out. I dont mean to offend in anyway but I would get a tan. I think it is extremely rude to have made such comments infront of a group of friends like that. She needs to give you some respect. If she feels this way she needs to have a one on one conversation. However, I think it should not matter if your white or have tan lines. No one cares....Why should she. If shes embarrased about it and it makes you feel low then just get a tan. Eliminate the lines. I wouldnt worry about body hair. Theres nothing you can do about it unless you want to shave or wax etc....

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