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well then how do i not act easy but act like i still like him

ive had this problem and this guy thought i didn't like him because i was doing what i thought wasn't being easy. then i treid to act like i liked this other guy and they said i seemed really easy & i found out thats the only reason he went out with me. and i didn't give it to him so yeah.

im not sure where to draw the line of easy from liking.

Just be yourself. If a boy truly likes you for who you are, he is going to stay with regardless of whether y'all are active. Always respect yourself. What you did wasn't wrong, and ur better off not being with him becuase he only wanted to be with you for that reason. People thiking your hard to get is A LOT better than people thinking your are easy.

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okay ... well i have like almost curly hair... i mean its pretty much curly.. i mean i would love to just like let it air dry and wear it to school like curly.. but there is 1 bad thing POOF!!! my hair is soooo poofy i mean its horribley bad..it poofs out like right when it drys. is there anythign i can to do my hair not to make it have little to no poof... i mean and i wanna make sure it works so if u have experience with it that'll be great

Try a smoothing shampoo like Matrix sleek look, or dove. Also try hair serum. It comes in many brands such as friz ease, garnier, etc.

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I'm taking a poll and I'm curious what people think the most spoken language is. Don't search the site or look at other people's answers and see. I want what YOU think.

English, and than spanish???

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How do you play hard to get without making you seem "too hard to get"?

Respect yourself... and make it obvious that you respect yourself. Show him/her that you aren't easy, but you have interest in him/her. Most people dont like to date people that don't show interest in them.

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This weekend i am going to stay at my boyfriends moms house. i meet her once before. she didnt seem to like me to much. but i only meet her for a few minutes. i have talked to her online once. She told my boyfriend she wants to meet me so were going there for the weekend. i am about 5 1/2 months pregnant with my boyfriends baby. which makes me more nervous.

You gotta do what you gotta do. Show interest in her... and show her that you are an interesting person. Find out what she is interested in and do activties accordingly.

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so i tryed out for cheerleading at my school and they have like two days before actual tryouts where they teach you the dance the school song the cheer and stunting. i'm not gonna lie i did really good on all of it. and when tryouts came i made sure i looked cute while dancing and everything and when she posted the results afterwards my name wasn't on the list but my best friends was. some of the worst people trying out made it...i don't get it. one of the girls i know tryed out with her friend and they made it because her older sister is captain and her other older sister is coach. girls who were on the team for football season didn't even make it because of attitude". actually the coaches just had their younger sister (the captain) choose almost RANDOMLY without looking at abilities...they also choose favorites.this is so unfair they kicked some of the best girls off just because they don't like them...now i missed cheerleading basketball season and i'm scared to tryout for football season next year. one of my friends moms is going to the athletic director and talking about how the coaches just choose favorites...idk what tooo doo!!! i'm so depressed about not making it!!

Sweetheart it's called politics... I know it's not fair but neither is life. Sometimes in life you have to build friendships with people that you will be interacting with. I mean suppose you had made it... would you have refused to talk and hang out with the captain? She probably didn't have ne thing agaisnt you... she just didnt choose you because she didnt know you. It's like when you are on a job interview... you have to show interest in the interviewer as well as in the job. So don't let this get you down. Learn from it... get to know the people that you will be interacting with on a daily basis.

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My cousin is 12 and is half a foot taller than me. Most people at school are taller than me, but I never seemed to mind or pay attention to it until my cousin moved into the state. I am 14 and am 5 foot. Am I short or is everyone else just tall? Please be honest!

Your short... im only 5ft... and im 19 :)

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so .. me and 2 of my friends need ideas for Halloween costumes. We want them to be original .. but all relate. like .. ex: charlie`s angels .. but someone is already doing that. Please help .. thank you ♥

Go as belly dancers or Disney princesss, each of you can dress as a different princess

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ok so me and this one girl have known each other for about 5 or 6 years.. we became best friends like..3 years ago, last year we were really close. but this year i feel like she doesnt care anymore.. yeah theres the ocassional hang out && movie.. but thats pretty much it.. last year we would do something every weekend...

so my question is.. does she still care? or is it just me being paranoid?

people grow apart, your interests have probably changed over the years. In my opinion there's no such thing as a friend, so your just gonna have to suck it up and get over it.

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ok so me and this one girl have known each other for about 5 or 6 years.. we became best friends like..3 years ago, last year we were really close. but this year i feel like she doesnt care anymore.. yeah theres the ocassional hang out && movie.. but thats pretty much it.. last year we would do something every weekend...

so my question is.. does she still care? or is it just me being paranoid?

people grow apart, your interests have probably changed over the years. In my opinion there's no such thing as a friend, so your just gonna have to suck it up and get over it.

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It's stated in the koran: "Forbidden to you (for food) are: dead meat, blood, the flesh of swine"

So when it says dead meat does it mean just the swine or it also refers to any other animals?

And also, does islam prohibit eating chicken?

You cant eat pork, you can eat chicken, beef, lamb etc, but it has to be halaal. Now you should look up the definition for halaal because im not sure how to explain it.

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My friends & I have having a movie night on Friday. What are some honest-to-God, horrifying films?

Texas Chainsaw massacre
the ring
Hills have eyes

Skeleton key and house wax are good too but they are more on the thriller/suspense side

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I'm going to be Strawberry Shortcake for Halloween but I'm going to a party with a date. He needs to match me. Does anyone know what would match Strawberry Shortcake? Don't give me ideas for other costumes, please. I already know of other things we can do, I just really want to go as Strawberry Shortcake

Chef

ice cream cone

I definitely think he should go as a chef...

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I try not to wash my hair everyday since its very damaged. However, the day I don't wash it, its really oily at the roots and quite dry at the ends. How do I keep it clean without damaging it so much? [I use SunSilk Hydra TLC]

Try Dove... the kind that's for extremely damaged hair

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im 13/f
i need to know where to find those sleeveless jackets and thse cropped jackets that are cute like this one
http://www.limitedtoo.com/detail/3741150/# &
http://www.limitedtoo.com/detail/3740800/

where can i find one thats cheap and in the stores not on the web

Try limited too, or Rave/ rave girl

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Okayyy. I quit my job that I only had for about a week, because I was completely miserable there. And once I told everyone they tell me that I'm lazy, and that I'll never make it in the real world. and the thing is, I'm not lazy at all, I work my ass off. How can I get this people to leave me alone, and convince them that I really quit that job because I was miserable and unhappy?

Work is work... you dont just quit because your miserable and unhappy... i think you convinced yourself that you were miserable and unhappy... ne way... but if you truly believe that it was that particular job and you want to prove every1 wrong, get another job. Make sure you keep this one.

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Last night, Katie, Meghan, Julie and I went to this dance. Meghan grinded with a few guys which, really, is no big deal but she's going to be talking about it for a while now, not because she's really happy or she likes the guys, bt because she wants to shove it in other people's faces and brag so people think alot of gusy like her. adgvice?

ignore... let her brag if that's what she wants to do. I mean there's nothing really wrong with it... every1 wants to feel good about themselves... i know it can get annoying, and that's when you start ignoring her when shes bragging

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in the winter, or in cold weather my hair gets full of static. this only happens once i straighten it though, and i straighten it a lot. so what can i do to reduce the amount of static in my hair? are there any products i can use?

i've heard of using dryer sheets, but can't that be bad for your hair?

thanks so much!

Try using hair serum

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I got a perm over the summer and it's now becoming really loose....it's super curly in some spots and in other spots it's totally straight. When i scrunch it it looks really bad, and when i straighten it, in the spots it's super curly it leaves little kinks. I really don't want to put it up all the time, i love styling my hair and wearing it down. Does anyone have any ideas of what i can do with it? I would like it to not always be something that will completely damage my hair. Thanks so much, and i will rate!

Make sure you are using a good str8 iron, like hot tools, or chi. Also try using a frizz reducing shampoo, like matrix sleek look, or garnier sleek and smooth, something thats supposed to assist in the process of str8tening ur hair. And last use hair serum, frizz ease, and garnier have sum.

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Lately, I can't log in to MySpace. The page loads and everything, but when I give my information and click 'log in' the page just loads forever, and doesn't do anything. It's not my anti-virus or firewall or anything, because it's disabled. Do you have any suggestions?

I think it's because myspace has too much traffic. Try clearing your cookies and deleting temp internet files.

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