Question Posted Thursday October 26 2006, 12:30 am
This weekend i am going to stay at my boyfriends moms house. i meet her once before. she didnt seem to like me to much. but i only meet her for a few minutes. i have talked to her online once. She told my boyfriend she wants to meet me so were going there for the weekend. i am about 5 1/2 months pregnant with my boyfriends baby. which makes me more nervous.
BitsandPieces answered Thursday October 26 2006, 11:18 am: Don't take her disapproval or disappointment over the pregnancy out of wedlock personally. It is a situation that she will have to adjust to and look beyond to give you a chance. Give her time, and show her that you are committed to being a respected part of her family. She will most likely be overjoyed with the baby and more open once you give birth and she sees you as a mother and not a girl her son knocked up. Are you planning on marriage? Are you over 18yrs. old? If not, things will be more difficult for you and you will need all the support you can get. This weekend is a perfect opportunity to show her that you are a kind and mature woman, so even if she provokes you, stay calm and polite. Good luck. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
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