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okay. i am very deperate for help right now so any advice you give me i will rate you a five.

i have a very hard time admitting this. but my dad is in fact an alcoholic. he is always in denial, meaning that he doesnt think he has a problem and gets mad when you confront him in any way about his drinking. me and my mom are the only people aware of this in my imediate family. my little siblings haven't a clue. my mom has threatened divorce even though she does not mean it, just to make him stop. it is an embarrasing thing and he is very selfish. i feel like i am babysitting him all the time to make sure he isnt sneaking in the garage or the side of the house. i need help confronting him, like i need to really hit him hard this time to make him think twice about doing it again.

another thing, i recently found a few bags of marijuana that belong to him that he gets from a friend at work i am assuming.... my mom does not know about this, and i am too scared to tell her because then i definately see divorce in the future. my sister and brother would be devastated, and i probably would too i mean he is my father and i love him. what do i do about the marijuana situation?

thanks alot.

i mean if your desperate, call the cops on him when he gets drunk and out of control.

you could always ignore him until he realizes what hes doing is wrong. i would throw out the weed or put it down the sink. i would also empty all of the alchohol bottles. its for his own good.

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Does anybody know any good fonts that are cursive? Sorry it's a short question, but that's about all I need :)

Staccato222 BT
English111 Vivace BT
thats all i could find

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OKAY, well i was wondering how you can change the look of the aim box where u sign in at liek how cna u change the colors or put pictures in there ? i rate 5's !!!!!!!!!!! help!!!!

ok i think this is what u mean...

go to *my aim*(at the top of ur buddy list) and scroll down to *edit options*. then go to *edit preferences*.
then...

-to get that picture (an icon) go to *buddy icons* and chose one.
-to change the font, go to *font* and thats where you can change the colors and stuff.

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Hey guyz!! i need help badly. i hope you could help me with this one. I'll rate 5's if the aswers are good. I used to live in queens next door to my boy friend but i lost touch with with him since i moved and i lost his #. and i want to talk to him again. i really really really really really miss him. we used to have the same friends but he stoped talkin to them and made new ones. some of ma old friends moved, which makes it harder.i went on the internet to look him up in the white pages but i couldnt find him. please please please please help me out. i dont know wat to do. i really miss him. how can i keep in touch again???????????????

i would look up his friends names too in the phone book. if you didnt move that far, you could always ask around. sorry this is all i can think of

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so my sister just got a mini doxen and my aunt is a groomer, is it true when it's fully grown, it will become a mean dog? are they good dogs?

i think you mean a daushund. i have a mini one too. they are very sweet and well behaved. ive never met or seen a mean wiener dog haha.
oh and my dog likes to snuggle under fleece blankets, so you should get it one.

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Ok I just found out that one of my cousins does weed. I love her to death, but my moms freaks out when I'm hang out with her cuz she thinks that she is a bad influence on me.(My mom doesn't know that she does weed.) I'm not stupid and I would never do weed cuz it's retarded, but my question is how can I get my mom to stop freaking out everytime I am alone with my cousin and so she will trust me??

P.S. My cousin is not an addict and she doesn't do it a lot.

just tell your mom how much you appreciate her caring for you, but you can make your own decisions. she just wants you to be safe. and tell your mom that you will call her every so often when you hang with your cousin, so she knows your safe.

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my boyfriend cuts and im really scared for him..he just started so i want to stop him, but when i do he gets mad at me. wat should i do? help help help!

take it from someone who knows: dont bug him about it. just tell him how much it hurts you when you see him like that. tell him in person, not over the phone. its very addictive and hard for him to stop. he needs to feel loved, not confused. dont get mad at him when he cuts. hes having a difficult time with things and he doesnt need you to make it worse. just act normal around him. go somewhere with him to get his mind off of things. it may even take a few months or more to realize that what hes doing is really hurting you. if all else fails, tell him thatg you cant be around someone who cant control his own emotions. good luck. if you need help, just ask.

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how long after a break up should you wait before the next chase? I mean like... looking around for new people... if the relationship you've just come out of wasn't that serious... but I don't want to hurt his feelings by jumping straight back in... :S
16/f

if you dated him for like a month, i would say 2 weeks would be okay. if it was really serious( like a few months or so), shoot for a month or two.
it's your choice. if you find a really good person, then just go for it. good luck.

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what are some good foods to take with you to eat in the car when your traveling?

Thanks

I rate 5 for good answers

well if you want healthy, go for grapes, peanuts, crackers, those smartfood popcorn bags,ect.
you should bring a small cooler with you and put sandwiches, drinks, yogurt, fruit. its better to stay away from the junk food when ur traveling, because whats worse than being sick in a car?

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In November, this guy liked me. I liked him too. We didnt become a couple until January. We've been together since the 12th of January, and Ive fallen in love. Hes the best thing thats ever happened to me. But I have a problem. Ive been having some family issues, and i wasnt myself for the past 2 weeks. Its too late. Today was the last day of school, of 6th grade, were going on to middle school, and he doesnt love me as much. Were trying to decide whether to break up or not, but i really dont want to. I love him so much. It will be hard though. Were so young. No one has ever made me feel this way. I miss him so much and have been hysterical all night. I dont know what to do. Someone help me either get over him, make it work, or atleast calm down. Its gonna take more than that though.

well your a bit young to really love someone that way, but just tell him why you've been a total bee-otch and he should understand.\

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ok, so i like this guy a lot, but he liked this girl who is really nice, fun, and outgoing. but she has a boyfriend, and when i say boy friend i mean head over heels in love and would never cheet on him boyfriend. So, i know he has no chance with her, and he knows it too, so how do i turn it around so he likes me?

you probably cant change his mind. just hang out with him alone. go somewhere with him and talk to him. and i mean really talk. not about other people.

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ok what do you do when you like this kid and your so called best friend sayd that she likes him also and then you fight over him and your best friend is starting to like all the same people you are and when you want to talk about them to her she complains an whines she likes them too and then he asked me out and i told her and shes didnt believe me an now shes all jelous i mean whats her problem all i know is she dont have a personality of her own and she thinks she better than me.... i nmean is that a friend what should i do????

she'll get over it. but friends are forever.

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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do

if he like killed someone, i would act really obnoxious to get him to hate you and then forget about him. i wouldnt want to be known as the criminals gf. so chose wisely.

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I have writers block, I can't seem to come up with any ideas that will really work. Does anyone know of anything that might help me?

well youll just have to wait it out. i would look for inspiration in people close to u to help. im not sure what ur writing so this is it. good luck

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so what do you do when you break up with your girlfriend, who was also your best friend before that, and now you've been replaced completely by some other guy....well ya that happened to me....she doesn't even talk to me anymore, but she's not visibly mad at me or anything...i've just been replaced entirely by this kid...any suggestions on 1) how to win her back atleast to best friend level or if not 2) how to deal with the fact that you've been replaced entirely.....any help would be great, thanks guys.

sorry but she doesnt seem like much of a friend. i would just talk to her like you normally talk to her. if she still doesnt talk to you, i would forget her. shes not worth it. good luck!

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I'm trying to determine out what makes things funny. Is it witty lines, timing, random stuff, or something else? I'll be looking forward for your answers.

Thank you

~Teen Guru

um wow. you have to be quick and well, funny. i cant explain it. its something that you just know how to do.

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I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!

i would stay out of it.

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does anyone know of a self tanner that works well and doesn't streak? please help! i need it bad! thanks!
~i rate

neutrogena build-a-tan. make sure you put it everywhere. try not to miss spots. you'll have to stand around naked for about 10 mins. so it wont look blotchy.

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i just got braces~& i heard that you could have chewing gum but you couldnt have bubble gum

also what are some good foods you can eat with braces?

umm i only know that you shouldnt eat:
salad
nuts
pizza crusts
and thats about it....??sorry??

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i flirt with this girl and she flirts back i lay on the grass with her and hold her hand people think we should go out , i ask her she said duno what do i do 4 her to go out with me

aww how cute. i want a guy like you. :) if she doesnt know the answer right away, i doubt shes worth it.

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