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How old was Ashley Tisdale when she got her period (link)
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She was 11
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Hey im 18/f and i've it occured to me today that i really dont believe in heaven or god/jesus. It just seems unreal you know. Somebody today told me you could just replace the word "angel" with "aliens" and people would believe it. One of my old classmates died a couple months ago and i kind of want that peace feeling that hes somewhere good you know. I went to church when i was a kid up until i was about 12. I suppose i just believed in it then because everybody else did. But ive came to the realization that i dont believe in it. I think its all bogus. I really want to believe in it :( but i just dont see how that could be real, i think we just rot in the ground, nothing more, no after life your soul lifting out of your body none of that. Can anybody "inspire" me somehow or convince me that there is a higher power. I really want to believe in jesus :(
Thanks A TON! (link)
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Everyone believes in there own things, I personally do not believe in Jesus but I do have some sense of god that I believe in. We cannot help you believe. You need to find what you believe in and go with that. Sometimes all it takes is too sit down and ask yourself a few questions and soon enough you find the answers. Remember not everyone believes the same exact things and that is perfectly okay.
-BahaiMa22
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Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we have been dating for about 6 months are up until recently it never hurt when we had sex. I've been noticing if we have sex more than like twice a day its like a burning sensation and i tense up and we have to stop because it hurts so bad. This has never happened before. Is it possible that each time we have sex he's tearing something? The burning sensation is like at the bottom of the "hole" is there something wrong with me? Why all of a sudden is it happening now? Hes not very big either, so i have no idea what it could be :( (We were both tested and clean)
Thanks a bunch
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This used to happen to me also. I never did figure out the reason why but I had my guesses. I found it helpful to buy lubricant which made it easier to have sex more frequently. I do not think he is tearing something but again it would never hurt to be checked out if it is continueous pain and does not go away within 3 days. I think you two could be having sex maybe a little to rough and that could also be another reason that it wore you out down there. Our vagina is a sensitive place and sometimes it gets tired. I would suggest buying some lubricant it will make it go in easier and should be less painful. :)
-BahaiMa22
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So my boyfriend who is 17, almost 18 in 2 months and is in foster care. His foster mother said he cant see his real family unless she is there and she hates his real sister so he isn't aloud to see her at all. Well yesterday we went over to his sisters to hang out and just have a good time like usual. Well his real brother was there [who is not in foster care] and he barrowed his bike to go get something from the store. Well on his way back my boyfriends foster mother seen him and fallowed him back to my boyfried's sisters house, then told my boyfriend he had to come outside. Well we went outside and his sisters daughter fallwoed so I went to take her in well as I went in his mother freaked out on him. I go back out side and she is tells me that I can't talk to him for a while and then they left I statred crying and his sister and her husband conforted me. About an hour later I settled down to a small cry and we were just talking and I got a text from him and he said we could talk and see each other and that he was allowed to see his sister every now and again. But I have a feeling its not over because I have seen her around town on my way home from summer school. It's like she is fallowing me and I have a feeling this isnt over yet. What can I do? I am only 16 and my boyfriends mother dislikes me alot. All I wanted was to be able to be with him and have no problems but she is always causeing them and trying to get us fighting. We have been dateing 3 months and no fighting and now this. I don't know anymore. I will not dump him and he wont dump me... (link)
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There is no need to leave him, This isn't his fault. However, in 2 months he will be 18 and he will be free to do and visit whoever he wishes. Therefore his foster mother has no say on it anymore and she can be angry all she wants but she has no control over it as he will then be an adult. On the other hand, His foster mother has no right keeping your boyfriend away from his family. family is family no matter what the circumstances are. All you can do is comfort him, support him and tell him he will be 18 in 2 months and free to do whatever he wishes. If it is even possibly maybe you two can sort out a living arrangement together? If not remember 2 months isn't far away. The mother was in the wrong and also if it was me despite how mad she gets it certainly wouldn't stop me from seeing my siblings.
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is it okay to send someone a message if you don't add that person to your friends list? and if it is does that person that you are sending the message to see your information or do they keep it hidden so that person only knows your name? i am new to this. (link)
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On the top right hand corner where you see your name you will see "settings" if you go into "privacy settings" You can block someone you do not want messaging you. Also, it will say "Profile" if you click that there will be options of who can see your profile and who can't.
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I'm 14 and a female. My boyfriend wanted to try sex without a condom. I'm not on any birthcontrol or anything. He was only in there for 15-20 seconds. He did not cum. He also says he didn't precum, but in MY opinion, I think he probably did. We did this on the 19th. I had the small pain in my lower right and left side of ovulation on the 22nd. So, I was wondering how great the chances are that I could have gotten pregnant. Precum, I read, can last longer in the vagina especially shortly prior to ovulation, which in this case was 2 days later. Like I said, he is absolutely sure I'm not pregnant. He's sure he didn't cum nor precum. He is actually getting annoyed with me asking! I just worry a lot! Help! (link)
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Yes there is a chance of possibly being pregnant but the results are usually not 100% effecitive (if you take a test) until usually 2 weeks after intercourse. Also, you cannot feel precum. I highly recommend using condoms because this is how unwanted accidents happen..
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13/f i have this major problem and i don't kno what to do..............i have to do this stupid dear before i turn 14(with i will be next month)i hav to have sex with a with a 18 yr old guy and im scared to.he is so cute were not in a relationship he likes me and i like him,im prety shore he would like to have sex with me.i see him a lot we hang out a lot were like friends in a way.I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD please tell me what to do.thank you (link)
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Don't do it
It's illegal and he can get in HUGE trouble for it as it is called statutory rape whether you agree to it or not. NO, you do not HAVE to have sex with anyone. Honestly, I wouldn't do it unless you really want to get yourself into a huge amount of trouble and possibly get him some jail time. Move on..Whoever "dared" you too do this one is a complete idiot. Think again, Dare or not it's common sense and don't ever let anyone think you "HAVE" to do something. You are in complete control of yourself.
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up quite soon. And I'm not sure what to get him. We've been dating for almost 9 months. He plays the guitar, and he also likes playing xbox live and such. He's a fan of Georgia Tech, but he's not like obsessive about it. Oh, and he plays and really likes to watch baseball. I don't have a lot of money, but could anyone give me any sort of idea of what to get him? My budget is probably 100 dollars. Help ? :D (link)
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If he likes xbox then hey I'd go with a giftcard to gamestop! never can go wrong there. :)
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17/f.
some random boy who looks my age or maybe older, just moved in like 6 houses away from me.. & well the past few days, he will walk by, stare at me the entire time, & then as hes past me, he will keep turning around to look at me more. hes pretty cute, & i want to get to know him. but i don't know how or what to say, next time i see him should i just be like, hey? .. i don't know, what should i say. :) (link)
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Well say Hi!
Try not to be awkard though and come flat out and be like ".....SOOOOOO ya moved in the neighborhood eh?" lol..Just say Hi and start off casual he probably thinks you are a cutie. ;)
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I'm not sure if cats are naturally friendly with humans, or is it that they just believe we're other cats as well? Possibly their foster mother? (I have a cat who was a foster mother to one of my kittens who is now grown.)
I once read in a book saying they believed we were just bigger odd-looking cats. I found that interesting, because my kitten treats me as if I were his mother. He comes to me for comfort and puts his paw on my face when I hold him (: (link)
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Yes, Cats are just like children in that way. They become adopted by us humans we raise them and we are basically a parent in their eyes. They think we are the "Mama" cat ;)
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So, my boyfriend has fingered me a few times before. The first few times I didn't bleed, but then the pass two times I have bled. A lot. Is this something I should worry about or is my hymen just wearing away? I'm worried that there might be something wrong! Oh and I finished my period about 4 days ago, so that can't be it. (link)
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Your fine,
Make sure the boyfriend keeps his nails cut, He could of just ripped you a little bit. Yes, It is also a chance that it could be just left over blood for the period nothing to worry about.
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I heard that when they did both autopsies of Michael Jackson's body that they found needle marks. The second autopsy came back with lethal amounts of something called propofol in Michael Jackson's system! I know that Michael Jackson probably was in a lot of pain often since he had all of that facial surgeries and what-not but I was hearing that they are believing he may have been murdered by his personal physician, Dr. Conrad Murray. Has anybody heard anything more about this? I want to know if Michael Jackson was murdered or not! I don't know any reliable sources and I'm soooo curious because I loved Michael Jackson. (link)
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It's the media...They ALWAYS need SOMEONE to blame.
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Anyone know any good "I gave you my heart and you threw it away" songs? (link)
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Perfect song for that line would be
Starlight - Where my heart belongs!
Good luck! :)
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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
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Everyone is put on this earth for a reason and sometimes we do not know what that reason is. The truth is when you are in High School people are immature and sometimes people just need someone to pick on to make themselves feel better about themself and even after high school going into college not everyone is 100% mature. My family tends to do the same thing to me too they say mean things or even embarrassing things around other people that really do not know me that well. You might want to sit down with them and tell them sternly that you do not apprechiate it and you would like it to stop and tell them why. Communication is the key, I do not know you...but maybe you need to stand up to people and let them know how you feel. Talking to your family is the key to working things out with them, Have a meeting with mom and dad and tell them that you want no interuptions. They are your family and they should listen to you.
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Hi, I'm 18F and my mom passed away not too long ago and I live with my aunt and she has an account for me here but it's my money, and although she is listed on the account as my representative payee, I can still write my own checks. Basically, I wrote a check out without her knowing and sent it to the wrong address and I need to place a stop payment on it immediately but when I called the bank they said that my aunt needed to do it. Is there any way around that? Can I just call back and pretend to be her? because I have her social security number and everything, so what else would they ask to verify that it's her? (link)
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No you cannot call back the bank and pretend to be her, You are dealing with the bank here. Yes they will more than likely want proof that it is her on the phone because of a number of security reasons. You are an adult, If you want you could try to get the bank account in your name that might be the only way around it however you will still need her permission to do so.
p.s. If you want to prevent a check from going through you can put a freeze on your account.
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is 6inches long for a penis (link)
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The average figure is about 9.5cm (3.75 inches), but this kind of precise measurement is rather valueless. Many factors can cause a temporary shrinkage of two inches or more, for instance cold weather or going swimming, so you needn't worry if you happen to fall short of the average figure.
6 inches is average.
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I think i'm bisexual because I love guys but I always wanted to try a girl especially in sex but like even though I wanna try a girl I don't want my friends to know if I ever do have a girlfriend only one person knows n he's a guy who's like a brother he was joking and said he was gonna hook me up with this BI girl and I gave in but I think I really am what do I do?!! (link)
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Only you know you are bisexual nobody eles can tell you if you are or not. If you are sexually interested in girls as well as guys then you very well might be bisexual. However, If you have never had a sexual relationship with a female than it could be that you are curious and just want to exsplore more and that you are still testing your sexuality. I would not call yourself bisexual unless you are really sure and you really know. As of now, It sounds like you just might be curious to know what it is like being with a female.
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I need a new email address and I was unsure which site offers the best free email. I know of a few like Yahoo, Hotmail, and Google's GMail but that doesn't tell me much, you know? I use to have a Hotmail account but I got spam a lot and so I didn't really like it. I mean, if that's the BEST there is then I'll just use it but I hope there is better!
Any suggestions? (link)
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I've used Yahoo, Never had a problem. Hotmail I've had...and got loads of porn ads and popups ack! Also, If you want to try and avoid any future spam I would suggest not signing up for anything that requires a email address and if you do use a junk email!
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I swear it was love at first sight, because ever since the first day I met jason he's the only guy I ever thought about. The problem is we're in a non dating relationship and its his choice! One day I went to see him and ran into a few of his freinds who said he was with this really hot girl and I never said anything to him about it because we're not official. But he knows I care about him more than anything in the world but he will not cave he is not going to have a real relationship with me now and maybe ever. I feel like the girl he can fall back on but he says its not like that. He says that he cares about me and im the only girl he does anything with but he's not ready to commit. Now there is this other guy chris he is my ex and we just started talking again like a month ago. He told me the first day we started talking again that he missed me so much and when I told him about jason he said he would wait until I realized we were meant for eachother. and he is doing exactly that! chris calls me every day and we talk on the phone for hours, he drops his plans for me every time I want to see him, and he tells me every single time we talk that he loves me. This is so hard I love jason and he's the one I really want but I dont think I will ever be abled to have him. Then there is chris my first real love and best friend who does everything for me and makes me feel so special, but sometimes when were together I cant help but think he's not right cause he's not jason. What should I do? (link)
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Honestly,
It sounds like Jason doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, As hard as that is for you to hear he IS in a relationship with another girl. What he might mean is, He likes you just not in that way. As far as Chris goes hey if you think you two should hook up again go for it but here is the question..."Why is Chris your ex?" If you two broke up for a good reason than I would second guess taking him back. Afterall you did say that you and Chris are not offical...but if he is dating another girl it's hard to even say you two are offical at all.
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So there's this guy. I'm a 14 year old girl right now, going on 15, and he's 33, going on 34. I'm very mature for my age, mentally and physically, so naturally, I tend to like older men. Well, when I met him, I thought he was a really nice guy. We hung out, and in the course of a year, I began developing feelings for him. We hang out a lot. I've known his parents since I was small, and he comes from a very nice family. I kept having dreams of him, and cannot stop thinking of him, so soon I was going crazy. Just a week ago, I couldn't take it anymore so I nearly exploded with emotions, and blabbed out that I liked him. He took it very well, and I was surprised because he said that right now he likes me as a friend, but if I was 18 or 19, he would seriously like me as a girlfriend. He explained that obviously he cannot say he liked me back considering I'm only 15, but he would wait and see if I still had these feelings in a year, and he'd keep checking up on me and when I hit 18 or 19 he said that we'd definitely talk. I really like him, and I feel that he likes me back. He's very sweet, kind, a great listener, and fun to be around. I'm just a bit worried, because of the age difference, if it ever did work out, I'd probably lose him and be widowed. If you truly love someone, I've heard these marriages work. Can I get past the age difference if I truly love him? (link)
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You are 14 years old...This guy is 33... and if you two were to have a relationship I can promise you this guy is going to find himself in a jail cell faster than he can blink. Once you hit 18, You are free to date whoever you want as you will be classified as an adult. Right now, You need to forget about him as this situation seems to lead to nothing but BIG trouble. Anyone who has sex with a minor who is over the age of 18 is normally called a pedophile...and sex with a minor whether you agree to it or not is statutory rape. In my opinion this guy might seem like a dream guy for you but honey he is sick to even be thinking or looking at you in that way. You are still young yes, you might state that you are at a mature level for your age but enjoy life as you only get to be a teenager once in your life. Don't let him take advantage of you. Try to move on and stay away from him this is not a good situation to get yourself into. I agree with everyone eles below me, The fact that this guy is putting things in your head is an alarm. Trust me, This is only a crush and there will be soooo many guys out there for you I very much advice you too look for guys in your age range. If you are worried than I suggest you follow that and stay away from him. Who knows what his intentions are this guy is a creep.
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