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i just wanna know what to do


Question Posted Thursday July 23 2009, 5:27 pm

13/f i have this major problem and i don't kno what to do..............i have to do this stupid dear before i turn 14(with i will be next month)i hav to have sex with a with a 18 yr old guy and im scared to.he is so cute were not in a relationship he likes me and i like him,im prety shore he would like to have sex with me.i see him a lot we hang out a lot were like friends in a way.I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD please tell me what to do.thank you

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sftball33 answered Friday July 24 2009, 3:15 am:
three words :
r u stupid???


Your only 13 u have plenty of time to have sex. The dare is stupid .. 99% sure if you dared the person who dared you the Same thing .... They wouldn't do it.... Plus there are very high risks of getting pregnant and diseases ..... Also think about your family... If they knew what would they say?

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christina answered Friday July 24 2009, 2:03 am:
It's a dare? And you actually think you have to go through with it?

No. There are absolutely times where you can back down from a dare. DO NOT let anyone make you do something that makes you uncomfortable. If you don't want to have sex, then don't.

Most importantly, you shouldn't. You're 13 and this guy is 18. It is illegal for him to do anything sexual with you because he is an adult & you are a minor.

Do not do it. Keep your self-respect & back down from the dare. You don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, nor should you do anything that is illegal. Absolutely do not do it. Trust me.

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thequotablepatella answered Thursday July 23 2009, 11:19 pm:
DON'T DO IT!

I wish I had more to say, but it's all been said. Just figured that the more people who tell you not to do it, the greater the chance that you won't.

As far as dares go, that's one of the most ridiculous ones I've ever heard of. Whoever suggested it is not someone that you should be spending any more time with.

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BahaiMa22 answered Thursday July 23 2009, 11:10 pm:
Don't do it

It's illegal and he can get in HUGE trouble for it as it is called statutory rape whether you agree to it or not. NO, you do not HAVE to have sex with anyone. Honestly, I wouldn't do it unless you really want to get yourself into a huge amount of trouble and possibly get him some jail time. Move on..Whoever "dared" you too do this one is a complete idiot. Think again, Dare or not it's common sense and don't ever let anyone think you "HAVE" to do something. You are in complete control of yourself.

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Razhie answered Thursday July 23 2009, 7:52 pm:
Don't.

In most places it would be illegal. That's reason number 1. An eighteen year old who sleeps with a thirteen year old is likely looking at some jail time.

A stupid dare is not worth this boy being sent to jail, or you screwing yourself over and doing something you know you'd rather not.

Obviously don't do it. Whoever 'dared' you too is an immature scum bag. Ignore them.

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