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Question Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 2:38 am

Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we have been dating for about 6 months are up until recently it never hurt when we had sex. I've been noticing if we have sex more than like twice a day its like a burning sensation and i tense up and we have to stop because it hurts so bad. This has never happened before. Is it possible that each time we have sex he's tearing something? The burning sensation is like at the bottom of the "hole" is there something wrong with me? Why all of a sudden is it happening now? Hes not very big either, so i have no idea what it could be :( (We were both tested and clean)

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xonataliee answered Saturday August 1 2009, 12:12 am:
you guys are probably just going a little too rough or something. get some lube and stop having sex for a few days so you can heal

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Elaine1434 answered Saturday July 25 2009, 6:03 pm:
if you are having sex more than 1 time a day thts probably the problem. you should also be testing for pregnancy very often because tht could also be it.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday July 25 2009, 9:47 am:
I'm throwing my support onto the "buy a bottle of astroglide and see if that helps" bandwagon.

My girl has similar problems, too much in a short period of time abrades her skin and makes her sensitive, sometimes to the point that we can't have sex for a day or two while she heals.

Its not that uncommon. Lube helps us, foreplay helps as well.

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sia answered Saturday July 25 2009, 6:45 am:
are you by any chance bleeding?i think that the position you two have been having sex may have ripped something like maybe if your doing it in the car or something the position of his penis going into you might of caused alittle cut in your vagina. id say no sex for a week or two just to let it heal.

i advise you see a doctor too just incase im wrong
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sml111992 answered Saturday July 25 2009, 3:05 am:
my only guess would be that your not lubed enough thats why it would hurt so next time it hurts check if your a little dry then normal.

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BahaiMa22 answered Saturday July 25 2009, 2:51 am:
This used to happen to me also. I never did figure out the reason why but I had my guesses. I found it helpful to buy lubricant which made it easier to have sex more frequently. I do not think he is tearing something but again it would never hurt to be checked out if it is continueous pain and does not go away within 3 days. I think you two could be having sex maybe a little to rough and that could also be another reason that it wore you out down there. Our vagina is a sensitive place and sometimes it gets tired. I would suggest buying some lubricant it will make it go in easier and should be less painful. :)



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