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Member Since: July 31, 2009
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Last Update: August 1, 2009
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i was masterbating the other day using a cylinder-shaped-thing. i felt like i had to pee when it got close to the climax, but i heard thats what happens when girls are about to orgasm. so i kept going. and when i thought i was orgasming, i peed. is this normal??

im going to be having sex soon, and i dont want to pee during intercourse. is there anything i can do? how will i know if its a real orgasm or if i just have to pee really badly?

thanks! (link)
you squirted. lol


Ok so i'm 16 ive never had sex. one day my bf was like fingerin me. it started hurtin really bad later i went to the bathroom and i had blood in my pants. DId he pop my cherry or somethin?????? (link)
either that or he teared it. same happened to me.

16/f


So, my boyfriend has fingered me a few times before. The first few times I didn't bleed, but then the pass two times I have bled. A lot. Is this something I should worry about or is my hymen just wearing away? I'm worried that there might be something wrong! Oh and I finished my period about 4 days ago, so that can't be it. (link)
same happened to me, it's totally normal. he probably just teared something


16/f

i'm wondering if it hurts when girls lose there virginity. on a scale of 1 to 10. i was also wondering what is dry humping? (link)
depends on how tight the girl is/how big her partner is/how wet the girl is. like for me it was probably a 6 or 7. i didn't cry or anything but we didn't get it on the first try.


Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we have been dating for about 6 months are up until recently it never hurt when we had sex. I've been noticing if we have sex more than like twice a day its like a burning sensation and i tense up and we have to stop because it hurts so bad. This has never happened before. Is it possible that each time we have sex he's tearing something? The burning sensation is like at the bottom of the "hole" is there something wrong with me? Why all of a sudden is it happening now? Hes not very big either, so i have no idea what it could be :( (We were both tested and clean)

Thanks a bunch
I rate high! (link)
you guys are probably just going a little too rough or something. get some lube and stop having sex for a few days so you can heal


Just out of curiosity: is anal sex supposed to be pleasurable for girls? or is it more something you do to make the guy happy? (link)
personally, i hate anal (i'm a girl) but my boyfriend loves it


me and my boyfriend want to do things but we can't because our parents our always home. the only time we did fool around was at my house but it was like 3 in the morning and they were sleeping...i was nervous the whole time though cause i felt like they were gonna catch us. were both 17 so we can't get a hotel. and a car isn't really the best place cause like where would we park it? itd be sketchy...so does anyone know any places we can go? or anything we can do about that whole parent situation? (link)
car, bathroom, basement, any room with a lock on the door, friend's house


okay so i'm 19 and i will admit i'm a pretty horny 19 year old VIRGIN. the farthest i've been is making out and the last time i did it was like three years ago. it's not that i dont want to do sexual things with guys, its that i'm nervous. who isnt nervous their first time getting fingered, giving a hand job, getting felt up, etc. i think it's because i feel like i'm not comfortable with my body but i've realized that guys like boobs. its not abnormal, duh. girls are usuallly self- conscious about their body, right? i honestly wouldnt do somethinng with a guy if i didnt want to, but i WANT TO its just the point of actually getting there. yeah i know, if its a guy you love you shouldnt feel nervous but you dont know me! no matter how comfortable i am with someone, it still feels awkward. like okay your feeling me up as i sit here, cool? i overanalyze everything. how can i overcome this? i know that if i just do something once, i'll overcome this fear, but until then how can i get over it? (link)
i kind of used to be the same way. it was all cause i was with the wrong guys. when i met my boyfriend he made me feel so comfortable and i knew i was ready for all that stuff.


can i be pregnant from pregnant...what are the chances?... me and my bf did the pull out method..and iam afraid to do the preg test cause iam scared what results i will get (link)
ya, you can deff. get pregnant from precum. me and my bf use the pull out method all the time and so far, it's worked. but i did have a pregnancy scare. so i'm a total hypocrite, but use condoms.




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