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where to go?
me and my boyfriend want to do things but we can't because our parents our always home. the only time we did fool around was at my house but it was like 3 in the morning and they were sleeping...i was nervous the whole time though cause i felt like they were gonna catch us. were both 17 so we can't get a hotel. and a car isn't really the best place cause like where would we park it? itd be sketchy...so does anyone know any places we can go? or anything we can do about that whole parent situation?
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car, bathroom, basement, any room with a lock on the door, friend's house
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his house, i know my friends use to sneak to the elementary school in my town in the back and do it there where there was no camera, garage, basements, try going to friends houses haha sounds weired but i had sex at my friends house once, it worked
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Well, not going to lie. Movie theaters (empty ones) are really good, not for SEX SEX, but for other things. Something I've done with my doorknob is remove the end that screws on, so the only part left is the one that lets me open the door (with the stick attached to it) that way my parents have to knock before I let them in and you'd be able to sneak him in easier. I'm not encouraging sex, but you're 17 and you'll find ways to do it anyway, just be safe. Trust me the worst thing in the world is thinking you're pregnant or have caught something. Avoid that by being safe.
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Although your parents may not be thrilled with the idea that you are or plan to be sexually active they will be thrilled if you're responsible about it. As hard or even as icky as you think it is you should tell them the truth. Let them know and get on a good form of birth control.
This way they'll make sure you have privacy while not condoning it and that you're safe from pregnancy. Would you rather they catch you? I guessed not. That's how I would approach it better them know you're doing it, with whom and under their roof than having the find out in an awkward manner.
As far as places you can go to there's not much other than a locked room or one offering privacy at his or your home. You can get arrested for lewd acts in a car, in public places etc. so that's not an option. Anything that can get you in trouble with cops, people, parents isn't good.
You could try a friend's place when they aren't around. If you have a lock on a bedroom door that guarantees privacy but most parents won't allow it.
Seriously, you are 17 almost 18 and not quite an adult but old enough to act like one. You should tell them about this and show that you are being adult and then get privacy that way so you aren't disturbed when he's over. They won't like it but if they see both of you want to be truthful and safe it's better in the long run. Trust me, been there, experienced that.
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I mean at night when your parents are sleeping is typically a good time. You just can't be too loud, but if you're in the basement I doubt they'll wake up..or try going to a park. One with like a junglejim and stuff, that way you won't be out in the open. The car isn't a bad idea either, like if he's dropping you off late when your parents are already asleep or vice versa. or at a party? that's a likely place once everyone's asleep. hope this helped
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Have you tried at his house?
I don't condone sneaking around your parents, but if you're going to do it, I can't stop you.
It sounds like the only time you can do it is at night.
--Jack
(17/m)
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