Question Posted Wednesday January 26 2005, 12:09 am
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do?
xosweetiepiexo answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 5:30 pm: If you really like your boyfriend go for it, but if it was me i would talk to my mom about this situation first. MAke a compromise and explain why you think you should be allowed to. Its not like its a bad thing. I would talk to your mom about it and if afterwards she says no go and kiss him without her knowing. Your relationship will never get far if you don't at least kiss. [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
MyPainIsReal answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 1:11 pm: You really like him and he wants to kiss you. Go ahead and kiss him if you want. Your mom doesn't NEED to know you kissed him. You're growing up and that's part of it. So go ahead and kiss him and just don't tell her! :) I didn't tell my mom when I first kissed someone. [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
gcfreakadoodle answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 12:59 pm:
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 11:39 am: well if you have been goin out for 2months i think you should kiss not near your parents or anything just dont let your parents find out..
hope i helped tell me how it goes
xxbrunettekissxx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 10:15 am: Well maybe if you explained to your mom that you really like him and that you would like to give him a kiss and if your mom says no then just tell your boyfriend bout your mom.
Pain_Is_Love_101004 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 9:31 am: Hey! First off how old are you?If you and your boyfriend have been going out for 2 months and you havent even kissed, then I say go for it. Dont let your mother find out if she is going to be mad about it. It is just kissing. Its very innocent. Good luCK!Rate me!
icey0990 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 9:04 am: Your mom doesnt have to know every little thing you do. Kissing your bf isnt going behind your mothers back or anything. If your ready to kiss him and you want to..then i say go for it!
hope i helped
-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 8:43 am: Ok well, you should never disobay what ur mom says. Talk to your mom about letting you kiss this guy. Let her know its not going to be ne thing to "extreme" lol. Good Luck.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
xxjools27xx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 8:41 am: well if you really like your boyfriend and you feel ready then go for it! and as for your mom... she doesnt have to know unless you tell her.
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NikNik answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 3:25 am: Kiss the boy, whats the harm in kissing? How old are you anyways that could be A reason why your mom doesnt want you kissing anyone like if your really young or something but if your not really really young then I dont see why it would be A big deal kissing your boyfriend, I mean you have been dateing him for 2 months so just talk to your mom about it and see why she doesnt want you and your boyfriend to kiss because its not harmful or anything so just kiss your boyfriend, if I were dateing A guy I would kiss him specially after 2 months, thats long to be dateing someone when yall havent kissed so I say yall are doing A good job...just be careful and good luck!-Nikki
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Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 1:00 am: If you want to kiss him, kiss him. Your mom's going to have to deal with the fact that her little girl is growing up (as hard as it is), and you have to kiss a guy at some point. If you'd feel bad about kissing him and not telling her, tell her. If she freaks out, remind her it was just a kiss, and that you really care for this guy, and he really cares for you.
Or...if you'd rather not kiss without her consent, talk to her first. Just say what you just told us - "me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months, and he wants to kiss my, but I'm not sure if I should because I think you'd freak out, but I really like him." Or something to that affect. If she doesn't know him, that could be part of it. Introduce them first, if you want.
Personally, in your situation, I'd go for the kiss, and tell her after. But that's just me.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Manulo answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 12:32 am: If you feel it's right for you than why not do it. A kiss is just a kiss. What leads up to it is what your mom is really concerned about. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
MummuM answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 12:23 am: Try explaining to your mom that it's just a kiss and you guys have been going out for 2 months. If she still doesn't allow you to kiss him, do it anyways. He is your boyfriend.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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