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My Ex is texting me like he did before we dated?
Posted Monday August 24 2015, 1:17 pm
Less than two months ago my ex broke things off out of nowhere over text, things were starting to disconnect and the hype of summer about to start. There was never exact reasons it was just the most messy breakup and he just flipped on me and was done with relationships. Earlier this month, less than two months since our serious relationship he's dating this new girl who he said he didn't like and they've been posting over social media together. It's just weird and hypocritical...We were at a running camp together last week where he grinded and slow danced with another girl and then texted me apologizing about hurting me.. Since then we've been texting like our usual close friends way like we did right before we dated. What is he doing?
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Girl told me that she will go the motel in 2 weeks What should I do?
Posted Friday October 10 2014, 8:31 pm
Hello,
I met this girl about three months ago in a club, we danced (close grind) , and exchanged numbers. I was friends with her on facebook and then she unfriended me after about 3 months. I guess since I sat on her number and didn't ask her out. I sent her a message by facebook and she is like I heard you were at this place, you go places and you don't invite. I would like to hit it quickly. Should I let her know by facebook or text that we should go to the hotel or should I invite her for drinks or something and then go for the hotel. When should one communicate ones intentions of having sex? As soon as you meet a girl...I have seen some guys on youtube called simple pickup who do this all the time...or later on after seei...
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lesbian (maybe)
Posted Wednesday May 14 2014, 11:05 am
I am i girl and i am a young teen. And i am 13 . I have this friend n we watch porn together.. Dont hate. We have been THAT horny that we hump n grind, but with clothes on.. Normally. A couple of time we have done it naked under a cover , n another time we like played with each other not put our finger up just did circles around the top of each others fanny. I enjoyed it tbh n she did to but weve never kissed n we r into boys still. But i REALLY want someone to like finger me but what i would really like is someone to lick me out .. But im definitly not gunna ask her that would be embarrassing . But ive got this other friend that watched porn with me before but not full on porn . N we decieded to play dares but we didnt no what dare each ot...
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I cheated on my boyfriend :( What do I do?
Posted Friday January 17 2014, 6:44 pm
We are in a long distance relationship. We met when he was visiting my city 5 months ago.
I was extremely drunk last night at a bar with some friends. We were all dancing and the entire evening I made sure that no guys would try to grind up on me, etc. I got more and more intoxicated as the night went on, and towards the end of the night, some dude grabbed me to dance with me and I didn't resist. We made out briefly, pulling away maybe two or three times, before my friends found me.
I was extremely torn up. I began to sob immediately after I realized what I'd done and I told my boyfriend the next morning. He was upset but said that he forgives me; however, he doesn't know if we will be able to get through the i...
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oh boy... am i considered a slut?
Posted Monday April 8 2013, 12:02 am
13/f...well, I've told y'all about how my bf wanted me to have sex with him but i didn't want too, well...i wanted to..and we did. well, it wasn't really considered sex because, i was wearing a pencil skirt...with a thong and he had on khakis..with boxers (obviously) and i took off my pencil skirt and he took off his khakis we started grinding and stuff he kissed down my stomach but..we didn't really do "stuff"...is that considered losing my virginity? and am i considered a slut?
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Confused About My Sexuality
Posted Tuesday September 18 2012, 3:32 am
Well, my friend and I (I'll just call her T) went to a dance/disco thing on Friday night, and honestly, I knew that I was completely straight till then. We were dancing and everything and then we started "dirty dancing" and grinding and I found it kind of a turn on I guess. It was new, and exciting... I've never been sexually attracted to anyone other than guys so could this be something worth trying out further or was it just a one night fling. Oh and I'm 15/F and so is my friend, but she's bi as well.
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Love life, or lack thereof
Posted Saturday September 1 2012, 11:58 pm
I have no guys in my life when all my other friends and most girls my age do. I've never had a boyfriend and have never done anything sexual besides drunk kissing at parties if that even counts( no, I'm not gay!). I'm a bit overweight but not too much and not ugly, I'm told sometimes that I'm pretty and get compliments every so often. I usually attribute my issues with this to my looks, thinking I'm not pretty enough for guys to notice me. This may be part of the problem but I'm sure it has to do with shyness and low self-esteem too. I have a hard time coming out of my shell and I'm a very cautious, careful person. As much as I try I can't change this about me. and I don't think that wearing slutty outfits would make so much of a difference...
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what should I do for him for christmas?
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 10:58 pm
What should I do for my guy friend(with benefits) for christmas? We have had a relly close friendship for about 4 weeks. Then he finally made the first move and we kissed. Right now, we are at the hot and heavy stage we are now making out a lot and is about ready to go to the next step. We have tried, but we ran out of time. This Sunday is christmas and I was wondering what I should do for him. I have grinded on him before and gave him a 'hard on'. he has also felt me up before...but not in my 'areas'. So what should I do for him for christmas? Like give him a bj?? Idk!! Please help!!
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He called me a tease??
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 7:40 pm
So I was making out with this guy I really like, I was on top of him and you could clearly tell he had a hard on. So I decided to make this a little more interesting and lay flat on top of him so our bodies were plastered against eachother. We were still making out (yes, we were laying on the ground) I then began to move my hips from side to side like I was grinding on him. He pulled away from the kiss and said "you are such a tease" I couldn't tell if it was a good thing though. He then put his hands down the back of my pants and pushed me harder onto his 'area'. I started making out with him again and grinding even harder. He pulled away again and said "why do you do this to me" in a whining voice. Sience it is a week ...
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How to deal with sexual frustration?
Posted Tuesday November 22 2011, 4:40 am
Im 20/male and Im a virgin. I have had 4 girlfriends. My first one was when I was 16 and she was abstinent, we broke up because she said she liked another guy. My second one I met irl but she moved away so we were long distance and never were able to be together in real life, we broke up because the distance was too hard even though we were deeply in love. My third one was a abstinent as well, but she would grind on me alot and I would finger her, we broke up because her parents didnt like that I wasnt white. My fourth gf would grind on me alot and I would go down on her and finger her and gave her hundreds of orgasms(literally), but she said she wanted to wait till college to have sex, and she chose to go to college across country after da...
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should i wait 4 him 2 ask me out? keep trying 2 get him 2 like me more? mov
Posted Thursday October 6 2011, 10:58 pm
ive been friends with a guy whose almost exactly perfect for me 4 about 2 months. i was planning 2 ask him out but found out the day b4 this other girl did and he said yes. i found out who it was and it turns out i know her shes a preppy, ginger, that gets way 2 serious bout things,and is a total jerk. like the guy i like im the complete opposite of dat.
i decide 2 flirt with him anyway. there was a party and i started 2 dance him, he waz cool with it and having fun when she runs over and pulls him away. later on a slow song comes on and im not bout 2 give up so i start dancing with him and she freaks so i start 2 walk away when she kisses him right in front of me (she knows i like him). so i try get his attention another way i start...
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boyfriends and boners
Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 1:06 pm
So the other night was homecomig and i was dancing with my boyfriend, it was a slow dance and he pulled me in super close and i felt something hard against my stomach. he didnt act any different. but then a faster song came on and he was behind me, pushed against me. we were kinda grinding but not like hard core, and i felt it then to. did he have a boner or was it his belt or something? but thats not the first time i have felt it. im just 15 by the way and he is almost 16.
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Should I fool around with him or not?
Posted Thursday July 21 2011, 1:38 am
I don't know if I like this guy or not, hes one of my close friends. we were playing around and I ended up on top of him and grinding. I'm haven't had sex and neither has he, but He wants too. I'm not ready yet but I don't want to stop what we are doing. I don't want a relationship, just the action. This sounds slutty, but he is okay with it that way too. Should we keep fooling around or not?
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Is it weird that I want a girl to do certain things to me? Like: I want...
Posted Monday June 13 2011, 9:59 pm
a girl to grind on my junk. Like a girl with a nice big ass to grind on me. There is a girl who is interested in me, and we are kinda going out. Im just wondering is it wrong/awkward/weird/ to ask your girl to do specific things for you that you enjoy? Any tips?
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This is acually the first time i need advice on my own relationship.
Posted Sunday May 29 2011, 8:00 am
This might be a bit long, but id appreciate if youd take the time to read it, because ive been hurting for so long and i cant seem to take it anymore. im 16 years old, and my boyfriend is 17 and hes off to college in a few months, we never actually called ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend because we thought what we had was more than just that, our parents knew, basically everyone we hang out with , his friends my friends, knew that we were together , and it has been 1 year and 8 months and 2 weeks in the relationship so far, hes a great guy, hes smart, he doesnt drink, hes not some kind of player, basically hes hard to find, and i thank god for him everyday, his friend which is also my friend lets call him bob? came from the states a few ...
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Is this going to work out?
Posted Monday May 9 2011, 4:37 pm
Hey. 13/f. So I went to a school dance and many guys were being kinda rude to me.(ok fat guys grinding the hell outta meand my friend.) I met a guy who took me away from those guys and like saved me. he told me i was really pretty, we should text, and he couldnt wait to see me again some other time. Weve been texting alot and hes really great. he says the same bout me and how good i look. we r going to c a movie soon and he wants to kiss me. from this info, is this relationship gunna work out? THANKS
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Grinding
Posted Wednesday May 4 2011, 2:16 am
So...what did you do Specifically to get your boyfriend hard (particular moves while grinding)? Was it easy to tell? And what did you to "help him out" afterwards? ;) (handjob, bj, etc...)
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I didn't tell anyone I was raped and I kept dating my rapist
Posted Friday December 24 2010, 2:39 am
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old sophomore girl. When I was in eighth grade I was at a friends house with a few people. At one point I went into the basement to get a soda and this guy followed me. He pressed me against a wall and covered my mouth and started grinding against me and kissing my neck. I've always been small and I couldn't push him off. He fingered me and told me to give him head but someone called down the stairs and he let me go. I didn't tell anyone... And I kind of just forgot about it. Freshman year I started dating this guy for about five months when he raped me. He apologized once and i just started crying. All he said was "its okay"and that's the only time we talked about it... We kept on dating for another three...
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When grinding give a guy a boner
Posted Monday August 2 2010, 5:49 pm
There is a dance coming up this weekend and my boyfriend is going to go with me. I plan to grind with him on the dance floor but I'd really like to give him a boner when doing it. I think it could be fun to make him horny in public like that. This is our first time grinding together and I don't have much experience at it anyway. Is there any certain move or something I can do that will make him get hard fast? :)
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I kissed a 21 year old..
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 4:48 pm
14/f
Yesterday, I went to this street festival where their was live music in Chicago. I was dancing and talking to this cute guy who looked 16-17. Later on we started grinding and just having fun. When I had to leave I kissed him and he gave me his number. We were texting and I decided to ask him his age. Turns out he's 21! So I lied and said I was 17 (I've been told I could pass for 17). He says he wants to see me again but I don't think that will happen since I was just in the city for the weekend. It was all in good fun but I feel kind of weird now.. I know we won't be like a thing and probably won't ever see each other again.
I know it's illegal since I'm a minor but what would you do if you were in my si...
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