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This is acually the first time i need advice on my own relationship.
This might be a bit long, but id appreciate if youd take the time to read it, because ive been hurting for so long and i cant seem to take it anymore. im 16 years old, and my boyfriend is 17 and hes off to college in a few months, we never actually called ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend because we thought what we had was more than just that, our parents knew, basically everyone we hang out with , his friends my friends, knew that we were together , and it has been 1 year and 8 months and 2 weeks in the relationship so far, hes a great guy, hes smart, he doesnt drink, hes not some kind of player, basically hes hard to find, and i thank god for him everyday, his friend which is also my friend lets call him bob? came from the states a few days ago, before he came to the states, we had this huge problem because the girls that would go over his house were complete sluts, they would dance and grind and all that shit , and i wasnt okay with my boyfriend to be there, and he always says its because his friends and how all his friends are always going and he has no one to hang out with cause they are always there, and honestly, im not stupid , i know that he isnt just trying to go for girls, i know he wants to go for his friends, but im still not comfortable with it, i am NOT controlling at all, he does what he wants, infact, i had to stop being best friends with this one guy, and it ended horribly because my boyfriend was WAY too jealous, and couldnt take it anymore, and cried to me several of times and telling me to cut contact off , and i did, even though it bothered me because he was worth it, im sorry im rambling on, but heres my question, a few days ago, his friends came back to town and i had plans with him, he hung out with his friends and told me hed meet me around 7 , and i said okay, and i let him go to his place even though there were girls there because i wanted to be udnerstanding, and he didnt show up until 10 o clock.. and when he came he kept going " SO WHAT?.. i was late.. so what" im like so what? we had plans.. and hes like your so annoying, so what im here now, and so we fought and i got up and went home. he treated me realy badly, even if it doesnt sound bad typing, but he like changed 360 when his friend came (which is NOT the first time btw. but i thought he changed ) , anyways, i found out the next day he went to his friends house, and i got pissed off because we had a deal, when he told me to stop talking to my best friend i was like ok i wont hes like i wont even go to bobs house i swear, i dont even care, and i was like okayy and we were happy.. and he was okay with it, and i found out he went, and when i called him up im like you went? hes like yeah i did i wanna go to sleep, im like no wait.. we had a deal though.. hes like "i was in the other room when girls were there" and im like wow, and hes like i wanna sleep, im like ok then shut the phone, and he shut it without even saying goodbye..which is NOT like him, and i sent him a msg and said "forget about me we share nothing" cause i was crying so hard and i was so confused.. and that isnt a break up because me and him just say things like that when were mad and he knows that VERY well because its usually him saying that stuff when hes mad then apologizing,and when i caled him the next day he shut in my face and said "i dont wanna talk to you after that mesasge you sent me" so i was like r u sure and then i was like bye and we shut, its been 9 days and he hasnt contacted me, and i havent contacted him, i just want everyone on here to know we are special. and he always says it, and even though everyones always breaking up we stay together because we love eachother :( i just want a guy on here or girl to tell me whats going on .. 1 year and 8 months with our bond isnt easy for me please help, and if your going to say something hurtful or rude, please dont comment im not trying to be mean..-- thank you so much for taking the time to read this:)
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Honestly with him change in behavior and his attitude towards you. It sounds more like he is talking to another female. My ex did the same thing with me and I caught him cheating on me. Almost 2 years is a long time but its better to find out early rather than pretend its not happening.
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