So I was making out with this guy I really like, I was on top of him and you could clearly tell he had a hard on. So I decided to make this a little more interesting and lay flat on top of him so our bodies were plastered against eachother. We were still making out (yes, we were laying on the ground) I then began to move my hips from side to side like I was grinding on him. He pulled away from the kiss and said "you are such a tease" I couldn't tell if it was a good thing though. He then put his hands down the back of my pants and pushed me harder onto his 'area'. I started making out with him again and grinding even harder. He pulled away again and said "why do you do this to me" in a whining voice. Sience it is a week before christmas he said "can I have my present early" and started sliding his hand up my shirt. I immediatley stopped him cuz I'm insecure about my stomache. So...what do you think?? When he called me a tease, was it a good thing or a bad thing? And wht do u think I should do to him for christmas?
But my advice to you from personal experience, don't do anything more than making out with him. He is a boy you like, not your boyfriend. Sleeping around or messing around will give you a bad name.
Guys like a chase. When you give them no reason to chase you, they become bored and move on to the next chick.
I can promise you that once you give your 'goodies' to this guy, things will never be the same between you too. He will become distant, and you'll end up getting jealous and too emotional for him, because his intentions are different than yours. If he wanted to be with you, he'd already ask you out.
charlottelouise answered Tuesday December 20 2011, 9:45 pm: Hey :) well from reading what you have put it doesn't seem like it was a bad thing, lads say that when they are wanting more and your not giving them it so that maybe why he called you a tease so you shouldn't have to worry yourself dar :), and for the christmas thing get him linx or something lol you don't have to give him anything you don't want to :) and dont feel like you have to give him more then kissing if you are not ready or you just don't want to :) but if you do keep safe hope this helped a little bit x [ charlottelouise's advice column | Ask charlottelouise A Question ]
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