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Should I fool around with him or not?
I don't know if I like this guy or not, hes one of my close friends. we were playing around and I ended up on top of him and grinding. I'm haven't had sex and neither has he, but He wants too. I'm not ready yet but I don't want to stop what we are doing. I don't want a relationship, just the action. This sounds slutty, but he is okay with it that way too. Should we keep fooling around or not?
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If you don't know if you really like him or not, then I say maybe it's something you might not want to get into further.
Before you think you want to have sex with him, I want to warn you (unless you're absulutely sure you'll have no emotional attachment to him afterwards) that there's a solid chance you'll get attached. If he's your first, it may be bound to happen. If I were you, I'd wait until the perfect guy for you came around so you won't regret anything. But that's just me. However, if you do decide to have sex with him, remember to be safe and use a condom...don't want any pregnancy scares.
Buuut on the other hand, if you're having a fun time with him and want to keep things how they are...then I say keep fooling around, but maybe just stick to 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base--forget the homerun.
To sum up my advice to you: have fun with him, but only to an extent.
Good luck!
Jackieee
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As long as your being safe and know what your getting yourself into, then I don't really see anything wrong with just fooling around. I'm not sure how old you are but you should definitely hold off on giving him your virginity before you're sure whether you like him or not. I honestly don't think it's slutty as long as it's just with this one guy and it stays that way. Just make sure that if you feel yourself getting emotionally attached, you let him know. You don't want to end up getting hurt over this when you were only trying to have fun. Be safe and be aware of the consequences of these types of relations. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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Are you serious??
If you want to get pregnant, possibly get STD's, STI's and AIDs.. then go ahead and do it.
First of all, you don't even know if you like him.. why the hell should you have sex with someone you don't even know if you like..
Second of all.. you said you weren't ready to have sex.. why are you even considering it then?? Third of all, "you dont want a relationship, just the action" thats a slut and whore move...
Honestly, I dont know how old you are but you are very immature. I'm sorry for sounding so mean and harsh right now, but i'm so sick of little girls like you who don't respect themselves and just want to fool around. Its selfish, disgusting, disrespectful, and most of all... slutty, trashy, and people will label you a whore. Do you really want that? plus what happens if you get pregnant? are you old enough to take care of a baby? would you like to have a baby with a guy you don't even know if you like???
Why don't you think about other people besides yourself for a second. Do you know whats happening outside of your little selfish world?? There are women out there who are FORCED to have sex. There's slavery and poverty. And here you are, little selfish brat, who just wants to "have some fun" and fool around with a guy you don't even know if you like... Why don't you go ask the women out there who are forced into having sex and ask them how it feels??
You disgust me.
If you want to be smart and mature about this, then come talk to me. But if you want to be labeled as a selfish little bitch whore.. then don't bother.
I waited until I was 18 to have sex and it was with the perfect guy at the perfect time. I do not regret it. But if you want to have sex with some random guy (when you're not even ready to have sex or much less a relationship..) then you're definitely going to regret it. Don't come crawling to me saying I'm right when you're older and realized it was a stupid mistake and possibly pregnant with a random guy and a bunch of STD's.
Think about what you're doing. Be smart. Respect yourself and others. Be mature.
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