Question Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 10:58 pm
What should I do for my guy friend(with benefits) for christmas? We have had a relly close friendship for about 4 weeks. Then he finally made the first move and we kissed. Right now, we are at the hot and heavy stage we are now making out a lot and is about ready to go to the next step. We have tried, but we ran out of time. This Sunday is christmas and I was wondering what I should do for him. I have grinded on him before and gave him a 'hard on'. he has also felt me up before...but not in my 'areas'. So what should I do for him for christmas? Like give him a bj?? Idk!! Please help!!
You guys are not dating. Which means that once you give him what he wants, he will just dump you like someone dumps trash on the side of the road.
Seems like you guys don't even have much of a relationship. It's just sexual. Thats all your relationship with him will be based off of. He doesn't want to date you, he just wants to mess around with you. Don't kid yourself.
Have some respect for yourself. If a guy really wanted to be with you, than sweetheart, he would have already asked you out. Clearly he doesn't want committement from you, just some pleasure. [ nascarfan1987's advice column | Ask nascarfan1987 A Question ]
hitler_the_goat answered Wednesday December 21 2011, 5:56 am: what is with girls and this "special occasion sex" crap? honey, guys do not care if its christmas or the apocalypse or toilet appreciation day. perhaps you should consider just hanging out with him? ehh, do whatever the hell you want, as I am sure you will. just remember to have fun, and use condoms.
good luck
-Gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
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