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college? two jobs?


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 11:16 pm

19/f

my boyfriend moved in with me and my parents in August. My parents gave him 6 months to save money and find a place of his own (his mother left him homeless, some mom!) so he is suppose to move out on Valentines Day.


Well finding an apartment he can afford is hard. There are some low income apartments behind my house, BUT he is first on the waiting list; she just said its rarely people move out, or get evicted so it could be a while before a place opens up. My mom told me that my dad isn't kicking him out, so he can stay here until an opening happens. My dad plays mind games. He's verbally abusive; he says that he is kicking him out after his 6 months are up, and it isn't his problem. Which I under...

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Herpes from a blow job


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 10:27 pm

Well my girlfriend has herpes on her lips. And she wants to.give me a blow job,though she hasnt got no out breakes or anything. Can she still give me a blow job and not contage me. Or she still can no metter with.or without the outbreaks? I need to know...

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question about blow jobs when you are 12


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 8:39 pm

Ok, so say your boyfriend wants you to suck his dick, and you kinda want to. but your only 12. what should you do? is it bad if a 12 year old does that or a handjob?

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I think I started my period. What do I do?


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 8:27 pm

i think i started what do i do.

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Valentines Day Gifts For a Guy


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 7:55 pm

Awhile ago my guy friend was offering to buy me a coffee the next day, because i was staying up late and would be tired, i refused his offer and he kept saying he was going to get it and id have to take it and insisted on him buying me something, so i told him you can buy me a reeses for valentines day. Well now he told me yesterday since he forgot my birthday, that he'd make it up to me in 7 days and that he already got "all the stuff" I don't know if he's getting me more than i expected him to or if hes just kidding, but should i get him something since he got me something? And if so what? We're both seniors, and hes 18.

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situation based break up


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 7:45 pm

me and my (ex) bf just broke up. we both didnt necessarily want to. feelings are still there but hes in college and rushing for a frat. i know after hes done there will be a lot of temptation to get back together. that will be in about 2 months. do you think i should? also, do you think i should get with other guys, or will it mess things up for the future. were still in love

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Umm he wants to kiss me but i have a bf


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 7:37 pm

Ok so I have a Bf and we are in a great relationship atm. But currently another guy has been talking to me on MSN. And Im on vacation and the other guy keeps saying he loves me and is asking me to dump my Bf for him. I dont know what to do because the other day, the other guy told me that he's going to kiss me and asked me if I'd kiss him back. I made the mistake of saying sure and I dont wanna cheat on my Bf since he's my first Bf. Plz help i dont know what to do!!! I dont wanna break up with my Bf but I kinda do wanna kiss the other guy (He's the player type) But my Bf isnt a kissing kind of guy, he's more of the hugging type. HELP ME!!! I need advice pronto! I like both but dont wanna break up with my Bf but wanna kiss the other guy :( HELP!!



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He deleted me from FaceBook and blocked me! I just want to know why.. What do I do now?


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 7:10 pm

21/F
So I started dating this guy that I've known for 7 years, we dated for about a month and everything was perfect we even told each other we loved one another because we obviously known each other long enough to really mean it. Well I knew he was having to go to Germany for the military and I was fine with that but the day he left I got really emotional because I didn't want him to leave, he's the first guy I dated that's actually made me forget about my ex who I had dated previously for 4 years... Before he left he asked me to wait for him it was only going to be a few months and when he got back we would get a place together and settle down i couldnt be more happy. Well two days after he left I checked on facebook just to see h...

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Is this teacher flirting with me or am I overreacting?


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 6:48 pm

Is this teacher flirting with me or am I overreacting?

My teacher is 27 and Im 18 and he always asks me do I like him if I'm alone with him. I do have a crush on him, but I never tried to do anything with him and I never will. Sometimes I blush when hes around but that's it.If I go to the restroom and Im tardy to class, he will take me to class and he acts weird, he asks weird questions, like he asked me did I love him in front of our class. He will get really close to me and ask me do I love him and if I say no he just says that he loves me. I cant tell if hes serious sometimes or if hes just playing. Sometimes he makes me go in the hall so he can talk to me about nothing that's important. He calls me his girlfriend in front...

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What to say when texting ur crush??


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 6:30 pm

Ok,
so i am a 13 year old girl and this guy I THINK likes me he texts me and says stuff like hey cutie patootie <3 and smiley faces but when it gets awk like going back and forth with one word texts like k(reply) yup (reply) ya what cood i talk about????

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I wrote my boyfriend a letter and he never answered!


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 3:23 pm

18/f. My boyfriend recently ended our relationship. He was drunk and admitted to me he cheated on me during a different drunk night. He said a lot of really hurtful things to me that night, so I wrote him a letter a few days later saying everything that was on my mind. It was in no way malicious; I basically told him what he did was terrible, but I hope he had a great life.

He never said anything about the letter, so a few days ago I asked him if we could have a talk sometime when he's free. I've sorta changed my mind since then, but in a stunning act of maturity, he texted me today to see if I still wanted to talk. My mom has advised me against doing so, as I've taken the break up extremely hard, and she feels like I shouldn...

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I'm worried what my family will say about us... because I am now pregnant by my fiance, but we aren't married yet.


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 1:19 pm

First off i'm 23f and i'm engaged to my long time bf (25) we have lived together for two years and the other day we got a big surprise. we are now expecting. My bf and i are happy but i'm really worried about what my family will say. his family is really laid back and i'm psitive they will have no problem with it. i know this cause his mom bugs us about grand kids. lol
but my parents are a little...ummm well the opposite. i'm afraid that i'll get a lecture not the congratz. My bf and i don't make much money but we get by. My bf and i have already looked over fiannces and things and we will be fine but i don't think my paents will see it that way. i'm just really stressed about the whole situation (my bf keeps bugging me to calm down)...

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Sex on the third date


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 11:34 am

I had a new guy date over to my house for dinner and wine for our third date.
We spoke of sex. I said that I wanted to wait. I am 39 he is 37 and we met in a dating site.
We had two great dates out previously. We have been very attracted to
each other. Is it a bad thing that when he came over he gave me
aassage and Oral and I gave him only a hand job. We came together. He seemed distant and sleepy. We fell asleep together but he never cuddled me. He got up and dressed to
leave. He said he will call me later. He was leaving I stopped him for a kiss and a hug and he left. Was it too soon?

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Is it always wrong to consider ending your life by suicide?


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 10:14 am

When I read your words re suicidal thoughts I thought it could have been something I wrote... including the reason why you didn't do it. Because it would hurt ppl too much. Lately I think they would understand. I am not depressed. I don't feel like I don't belong. I just feel like I have had all that this life has to offer. I am tired & ready to move on.

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PRIVACY: I have NO privacy in my room!


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 8:18 am

Hey. 13/F. Just the other day my grandma came in the room with out knocking. And I was busy putting on a pad coz I was on my period. And I don't know wat to do ? My door was close. And I don't know how to tell my mom plz help

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Dull headaches


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 7:15 am

I am 13 and female and I used to get these dull pains in the left side of my head a little above my ear and the pain would last for a minute or two. They stopped for about a month. Then a couple of days ago they started again. I told my mom but she isn't going to bring me to the doctor. She would do anything except that. The aches are worse than last time and I'm worried about what it might be. I odn't have any other symptoms than that and if you can help me, I would much appreciate it. Thanks :)

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Me and My 'young love'.


Posted Wednesday February 8 2012, 1:57 am

I started dating this guy in august of 2011. He's a sweet guy but he's younger then Me. I'am 20 and he is 19. Not a big age difference but I get kind of scared that we wont last long because at times he not the "man' that i want him to be. I want us to be a mature couple and not fight all the time over silly things. He does so many things that annoy me and i want to be able to look over it all. I need advice on what to do and stratergies on how to make us stronger. What should I do?

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Maybe i'm obese??


Posted Tuesday February 7 2012, 10:23 pm

I have never really been "fat" but I am not skinny. I am 5'2 and 105 lbs. I have been anorexic and got put in the hospital, but call me crazy but we live in a world where looks get you farther than anything. I run and eat healthy, but i hope some of you can give me some healthy dieting advice that won't get me put in the hospital or make me sick....

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Sneaky Sneaky: Sneaking more people into a hotel room than you paid for


Posted Tuesday February 7 2012, 10:00 pm

So I am going on vacation this year to San Fran or San Diego... havent decided yet. Either way... there will be 4 of us but we cant afford a hotel for 4 of us. So I wanna know how easy or complicated it is to get a 2 person room and sneak 2 more people in. We were thinking we could get a blow up mattress and sneak it out every day... no big deal if we have to do that... but the maid might notice extra luggage... idk. Have any of you done this? Is it pretty easy to get away with?

NO negative comments...

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i got in trouble and i dont know what to do! I don't know what to tell my mom... the truth will sound stupid.


Posted Tuesday February 7 2012, 8:37 pm

it was my baby sisters birthday and so i wanted to look older and more like my mom so i wore a little mascara to school but then my mom saw it when she picked me up and got really mad, and said that we would 'talk' about it adter the party and im really scared. i want to tell her why i did it but i feel like she is going to think its really stupid...so to get to the point...i dont know what to say, how to act, or what is going to happen. what do i do?

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