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He deleted me from FaceBook and blocked me! I just want to know why.. What do I do now?
21/F
So I started dating this guy that I've known for 7 years, we dated for about a month and everything was perfect we even told each other we loved one another because we obviously known each other long enough to really mean it. Well I knew he was having to go to Germany for the military and I was fine with that but the day he left I got really emotional because I didn't want him to leave, he's the first guy I dated that's actually made me forget about my ex who I had dated previously for 4 years... Before he left he asked me to wait for him it was only going to be a few months and when he got back we would get a place together and settle down i couldnt be more happy. Well two days after he left I checked on facebook just to see his pictures of me and him and it says add as friend... HE DELETED ME FROM FACEBOOK. I know that sounds incredibly immature but wtheck?? He even blocked me from sending him messages and he's been able to post stuff on tweeter about being in Germany and what not.... I just don't understand?? I think I deserve at least an explanation?? What did I do wrong? Is it him or maybe it's just me? I'm not some phsycho annoying girlfriend so I'm not going to be asking everyone of his friends I just want to know if I should just move on or what?
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you're not going to like what I have to tell you.
I was stationed in germany for 6 years, so I know what I'm talking about in regards to germany.
Germany's a playland for young single servicemembers. I have seen this happen before, guy gets to germany, totally forgets about his girl back home, and goes on a 3 month bender leaving a trail of broken bottles, beaten up turks, and one-night-stands in his wake.
if thats the case, sorry.
there is a chance that he's not a douchebag though. confront him about it, and hear him out.
good luck
-Gunner
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That sounds really immature and I think you should get en explanation for sure. Have you trying emailing me or something? That's really weird. And if I were you I would just move on if I don't get an answer back because that's not right for someone to do that to you I don't care if its facebook or not.
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Sounds to me that he doesn't want to deal with a relationship right now. Maybe the guy didn't have enough balls to come out and tell you that it wasn't exactly perfect timing on his behalf to be in a relationship.
Sure, He told you that he wanted to settle down and get a place when he came back but did you ever think that maybe he just said that to make you happy? Sounds like it. To bad he didn't have the courage to do the right thing and just be honest about his feelings. Yes, I would say he led you on. Perhaps on his way to Germany he gave thought into the relationship and just decided to end things because it was inconvenient to him.
Coward I would say, If he removed and blocked you there is your answer on the status of your relationship. =/
I would just move on and meet someone who is right for you, Don't let a jerk get the best of you.
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