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I'm having trouble with sex.


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 7:54 pm

I'm 19 and my boyfriend of 5 years is 22. We're both virgins because I want to wait til marriage. Last night, I told him I was ready to have sex and I was done waiting. I'm not sure if that's true or not, however. He didn't pressure me but I know he is tired of waiting. Well we went to have sex and he was barely in my and I couldn't stand the pain. We had to stop and then I got really depressed. I feel like I'm failing as a girlfriend and we shouldn't be together because I can't handle him. I don't enjoy being fingered, it hurts too. What's wrong with me?

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Made out with this guy he was drunk but said stuff what do you think


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 7:31 pm

I was with this guy last night and like he showed a little interest with me before this night. He is a player for sure but a few nights ago he said that he is a player but wants love and is only a player to keep his reputaion up. we were telling eachother stuff nobody knows about us. so anyway we hung out and he was like really drunk and i took a tramadol so i was feeling good and we kinda started talking than making out well we did it like all night he would put his hand up my shirt but never tried to go further he said not untill you like me and we would talk and make out like on and off. He kept saying that we were meant for eachother and all this like sweet stuff and said he wanted me to be his and i kept saying i dont believe you. but ...

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Why Does This Make Me So Angry?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 7:09 pm

Everytime I see a fight or leftovers of a gang fight, it makes me super mad. I can watch a hockey fight fine but why does this make me so mad? I was watching TV once and someone got shot when people were trying to steal cattle from another farm and I got so mad that I had to leave and hide on my bunkbed for 10 minutes. I closed myself in by stacking my pillows up arounds me and I cried there. This was the worst time, it was the only time that I got so mad I cried. This is the only thing that makes me so mad. Why do you thing this is? I have always liked to play fight and sword fight.

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canthe vagina be stretched after years of inactivity


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 6:19 pm

can the vagina be stretched after years of inactivity age 73, recently remarried

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How can I stop being jealous?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 6:18 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together since the start of the year and things are going really well. The only problem is that I get very jealous of other girls. I get paranoid when he tells me about girls he knows, or if he finds other girls attractive, but my main issue is with his best friend. They have a history, and he has told me that he used to be in love with her. He has reassured me countless times that there is nothing but friendship between them now but for some reason I just cannot get over it. I've never met her as she doesn't live in the same city as us but she's coming to visit in a couple of weeks and I'm really worried. I plan on being nice and trying to make friends with her but I know I'm going to be paranoid the whole time...

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Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 5:59 pm

if i get fingered, will my " cherry " pop ?


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Really Like This Guy


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 5:41 pm

I met this guy several months ago and we hit it off right away. He was flirting with me and so I decided to get to know him. We hung out for a few weeks straight talking, cuddling, and getting to know one another. He would give me compliments all the time, wrap his arm around my waist and we'd cuddle in his bed. He told me I was the sweetest girl he knew and asked me out once, but at the time I said no cuz we had literally just met, he understood. So we continued getting to know eachother. After that things were a bit awkward until I called him over for a talk and we agreed to be friends until we both knew what we wanted. He still messaged me and would come to my house to pick me up, go to his place for a few hours and then drop me off home...

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I want to have sex but I'm insecure and don't want to show my body


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 3:34 pm

I'm 14 years old..me and my noyfriend have been together for two years..we've been REALLY horny lately and we were going to have sex the other day BUT I don't like my body. We talked about it and he made me feel soo loved and he told me he loves my body and he loves me weather we have sex or not. I have been fingering myself alot. How can I start getting comfortable being undressed? Show more skin? Soo I can have sex ..

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Bored


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 3:02 pm

I'm so bored today advice?

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when he texts


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 2:57 pm

what does it mean if a guy texts you every day but he doesnt make significant conversation? like he contacts me every day but he only gives me a few words in his texts? he knows im into him

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I dont trust my boyfriend


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 2:48 pm

Iam 14 and my boyfriend 20 i dont know if i can trust him because he wants to have sex with me and i told him no iam to jong now im scard he will do it with other girls

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how to know if he likes me


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 2:41 pm

Theres this boy i really like and i think he likes me but im not sure. i wanna date him but i dont know if he ever dated anyone. How do i bring him out of his shell and how to know if he likes me

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michigan vs maryland


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 2:09 pm

i got into michigan- ann arbor and maryland- college park. im stuck between both. im not really concerned about the prestige of the schools because i think theyre both good. i'm more concerned about the social aspect. ive heard the people attending michigan are either really snooty or sort of nerdy. i go to a very snooty high school where many people are very wealthy, and i've spent my whole entire life trying to weed out the snooty people to find the few normal, nice ones. i dont know if mich will be just like that. also, ive heard in michigan people are extremely competitive about school work and there is an uptight atmosphere in that respect. on the other hand, i've heard that michigan is sooo much more fun than maryland, and is all together a better place. any thoughts?

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about sharing inheritence


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 2:05 pm

My brother passed away and left me some money. My sister inlaw says I should share it since her husband helped pay for funeral expenses as did I. The estate will still pay us for those expenses- is she right or wrong?

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I'm 21, why is my mom so involved?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 12:23 pm

Hey there. I'm 21/f and I have a year left of college. After this, I really want to move from my house, even if I decide to go for my masters. It is just a very overwhelming feeling to feel like you can't do anything without someone getting involved. This is the most basic example. It is really bothering me. My mom has MADE me get hair extentions... yes, MADE me. If you lived in my house or knew her, you would know that she makes people do things. The reason why is because I had some damage in my hair and she wanted me to wear them so that the damage wouldn't show as much. For 2 months, I have not TOUCHED my hair. I haven't colored it, cut it, or ANYTHING! So, it has healed a lot. I feel that the extentions are in my way. I can never blow d...

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Stomach Pain?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 11:33 am

I am getting over the flu and this morning I took a shower and got a glass of tea, when I drank some of it, my stomach hurt. Is it because the tea was the first thing on my stomach? Everytime I have a sip my stomach hurts but it hurts less and less as I continue to drink. Thanks! :)

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I feel like my parents don't care


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 8:39 am

They seem ignorant when it comes to something really affecting me. Whenever I'm around cigarette or any type of smoke, strong smells like cleaning supplies, or sometimes even certain foods, I can't breathe. It literally feels like my lungs shut off and I can't get air. But when I tried to tell this to my Mom, she didn't even seem to be listening and kept talking over me (telling me to do a chore or asking me an unrelated question). I finally gave up and just walked away frustrated.
I sometimes randomly get lightheaded and stagger, but she simply says "what's up?" and doesn't respond when I tell her. She says it like its fake and I'm just playing around. But it's SERIOUS and she acts like she doesn't care.

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Is it right to date your colleague at work?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 6:29 am

My boyfriend gets jealous when i talk to male friends in the office...i am thinking it was a mistake afterall

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Low self-esteem and no self confidence. How can I increase my confidence?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 5:12 am

I have a REALLY low self esteem, and absolutely no confidence and I don't know how to change that. I feel disgusted when I look in the mirror and I'm ashamed that others look at me. My smile is horrible, I need braces very bad but my dad won't take care of it. I constantly amnhiding my smile, covering my mouth every time I laugh, or looking down or away if possible. I'm skinny and don't have any boobs and I'm not up to societies standards and that bothers me greatly. I keep wishing I can change things about myself when I already know I can't. I just want to know if there's a way to increase my self confidence, or self esteem somehow

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What is Comando, and how do you play the game?


Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 5:03 am

I got invited to meet in town next weekend with a bunch of friends to play comando, but I don't know what that is, or how to play..

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