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Made out with this guy he was drunk but said stuff what do you think
I was with this guy last night and like he showed a little interest with me before this night. He is a player for sure but a few nights ago he said that he is a player but wants love and is only a player to keep his reputaion up. we were telling eachother stuff nobody knows about us. so anyway we hung out and he was like really drunk and i took a tramadol so i was feeling good and we kinda started talking than making out well we did it like all night he would put his hand up my shirt but never tried to go further he said not untill you like me and we would talk and make out like on and off. He kept saying that we were meant for eachother and all this like sweet stuff and said he wanted me to be his and i kept saying i dont believe you. but anyway i took it for what it was but not going to lie i cant get it off my mind so do you think this was just drunk talk or like it meant something? Im okay with both just confused.
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I say don't give into it at all.
I fell for this act before. They're hardly ever genuine, especially while drinking.
I know people say "drunk words are sober thoughts," but when a guy who is admittedly a player is trying to get with a drunk girl, that is not the case. They will do what they can to see how far they can get. I'm glad you told him that you didn't believe him, though, because if you did fall for it right away that could have led to some bad decisions on your part.
My advice is just to avoid it all together, especially if he ADMITS that he is a player. If he is honestly looking for love, he wouldn't care about "keeping is reputation up."
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Okay first things first.
He practices these saying ith every girl he hits on. That's what players do. They get really good at these lines to make us girls feel special..
If he actually likes you.. Make him work for it. light kissing is the most ya should do. anything more and your just handing him his player badge on a silver plate.
Just be very careful unless you two start dating and even then. Just becareful because of his past history.
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