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Really Like This Guy
I met this guy several months ago and we hit it off right away. He was flirting with me and so I decided to get to know him. We hung out for a few weeks straight talking, cuddling, and getting to know one another. He would give me compliments all the time, wrap his arm around my waist and we'd cuddle in his bed. He told me I was the sweetest girl he knew and asked me out once, but at the time I said no cuz we had literally just met, he understood. So we continued getting to know eachother. After that things were a bit awkward until I called him over for a talk and we agreed to be friends until we both knew what we wanted. He still messaged me and would come to my house to pick me up, go to his place for a few hours and then drop me off home again. We got along well and I could tell he really liked me. We laughed alot. He would hold my hand, kiss my neck and wrap his arms around me tight telling me he wish I could stay with him forever. Then, one day he stopped messaging me. I thought 'oh he's busy with work' cuz he works 12 hr shifts and is a busy guy, but as a few weeks passed with not hearing from him I started thinking otherwise; that he was ignoring me and maybe found a new girl... I was starting to feel hurt so I messaged him a couple times to try and figure out what was up. He told me he was busy with work and I said okay I understand, yet something still felt off. I asked why he was ignoring me and he said, quote 'You did nothing to make me ignore you, I would never do that to you, I didn't have my phone on me I am sooo sorry!!'. Did I believe it? Not quite. Since I still wanted to see him I asked when he'd be off work, he said that night and so hoping to see him, it never did happen. At this point I tried telling myself to give it up, he doesn't care and I shouldn't waste my heart on someone who doesn't care.. but I still liked him! Ugh.. Now the only chance I had to break a convo with him was to go to the bar where he usually parties. Soon I seen him within the crowd heading to the bar for drinks. I politely tapped him on the shoulder, he said hi, quick moment of chit chat happened and then I asked if he was seeing anyone. He said he was buying drinks for his buddies and started walking away. Being totally blown off, I felt like breaking down right there. I have dated other guys before, but this one made me feel different. It's like he left an imprint that makes me want to be with him, yet I feel hurt underneath all that. I'm used to seeing other girls be hurt like this, but... what do I do? Should I attempt to talk to him about this? Completely forget about him? Or ? I am a very honest person and know how to look past someones flaws, so I'm confused. I want to make this better but... please help. Thanks.
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Tell him how you feel. I know it might be scary. But that is the only thing to do. Or move on. But why not give him a chance. He probably doesn't think you even like him. So tell him.
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