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In desperate need of help with a boy.
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 5:13 pm
ZMy latest boy troubles. I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm beginning to believe that it's all my fault, all the time.
But another part of me wonders why guys don't ever come after me? Why am I always the one who has to make the first step forward?
I liked a guy, and he found out from a friend of mine. We sort of talked about it over text (this was on Sunday), in which he made some vague comments about how weird it was to find out "stuff" like that. That was about it.
The next day, when I saw him at first, he smiled at me, and said "hey". But that didn't last long, because I saw him a lot for the rest of the day, and it was kind of awkward.
Today, maybe it's ju...
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worrying about boyfriend....
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 5:00 pm
My boyfriend asked me out about a week ago. I like him alot, especially becuase we were very good friends a long time before he asked me out. So, im really comfortable around him and trust him 100%. Well, for some odd reason i keep worrying im going to do something to cause him to stop liking me, and then breakup with me. I have no idea why this is bothering me so much...after every time i talk to him ill think to myself, did i say something wrong? sometimes ill even think things like, im not good enough, how could he ever like me. Does anyone have any advice for this, because its really starting to make me sad =/
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Boys are too confusing!
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 4:07 pm
A crush I've had from probably November last year knows that I like him, because I told him, and was really nice to me, although he was probably quite shocked haha.. but nothing happened because he liked someone else, a friend of mine, actually, but now they're not close anymore, and I've noticed we always seem to be the first people to notice each other walk into the room, or accidently catch eye contact.. there's been other people for me, but I'm kinda crazy about him, more so than I have been for anyone else in my life - do these little things that happen very often mean anything? What should I do? Or am I being paranoid, and should just get over him? Any help HUGELY appreciated! Thankyou so much in advance!!!!! xx
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My Husband has been lying about visiting lnternet porn
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 3:59 pm
Have been married for 24 years and happily (Female). We have a great sex life,lots of varied, fantasy even porn often initiated by me, but my husband love to go along and always has. I have found that he has been going to Porn sites sometimes daily, even after we have had sex. I guess I can understand this and live with it on the one hand, but it does make me feel a little inadequate (Actually I'm a pretty well kept and hot good looking 45 year old) What really bothers me is that I gentle confronted him a number of times, saying that I look at porn does he? Even taking him to some sites together that I know he has been to, during sex play. He refuses to admit that he looks at porn. What does this mean? What should I do?
He's lying and that hurts
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my bf said is psychotic when hes drunk
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 3:27 pm
so ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. i knew him 2 yrs prior as my sisters friend. but weve always had a thing for eachother during those 2 yrs. infact we dated a couple times for maybe a day or two but this time we wanted to really give it a try. well id like advice on what to do. the other day we celebrated a friends bday- when he gets extremely wasted he becomes another person. not physical but very mental, he will bring me down and call me names. im not defending him but i do use the same game back until its like a hurricane hit us and were left with the aftermath to clean up. well this time i had enough so i broke up with him. he said something ill never forget and i cant believe im sharing it online becuz i cant even tell m...
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I'm giving up, big time.
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 2:54 pm
Hi, I'm Jacky.
My life has been rough, because of me.
It got better, until I did stupid things, and now I feel like there's nothing else I can do to make it better, I just mess up more and more. The more I mess up, the more I look like a dumb ass.
First, I have a friend over and I sneak two guys downstairs at 11 at night, and my dad's caught us.
So, my dad and mom have absolutely no trust in me, what so ever. I actually think my family hates me, because I don't listen, and I do things I'm not supposed. I've been doing that, for the past years. Plus they found out I tried pot and I'm sexually active. So that's a huge minus. I get in huge fights with my parents, mostly with my dad. I feel like I just failed my fami...
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what do i tell him or what should i do?? is he controlive??
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 2:34 pm
I've been with me boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him a lot..He has such a hold on my heart and he just doesint know how bad i love him..instead of believing i love him he tells me i dont and gives me so many examples of why i dont..it just hurts when you know you love someone and they just deny your love...ANy way i wanted to know how i should i handle my boyfriends controliveness..he gets mad when i get dresses for school and say that i dont get dreesed for him the reason why i dont get dresses for him is beacuse when i do he says smart things like what! you wear them tight jeans to school or yea you like wearing that tight top to school huh? so i stopped getin dresses for him to prevent his comments..so now he gets mad when i dress ...
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My true love
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 9:47 am
i have this huge issue well my boyfriends 18th birthday on june 23 and i dont know wat to do...Im 15 and im turning 16 in october and i dont wanna break up with him or anything..I mean i really love him but his mom doesnt want us together...basically how can i help convince his mother that i love him and im committed??
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Online Dating
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 8:43 am
I would like to know if you would date someone online and then eventually meet them? As for me, There's a couple different issues to this matter. Here in my area, there aren't a lot of nice girls around here, but when I'm online, I find someone who is nice and hot, but they live too far away. It's probabily someone I wouldn't meet either way. What are your opinions on this matter?
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Love confused
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 8:33 am
Alright so here's the deal I'm female and 20 years old,
I was with this guy lets say "X" for secrecy. Five months, I really felt a connection with him so deep that when I fell or hurt myself he'd be like ohh my hand hurt today and i don't know why... But things started to get hard and we argued a LOT and broke up. The night we broke up he was IMing my best friend and they had umm phone sex? I found out the next day and was so hurt, that I went straight to this guy who I had been flirting with while i was with "X" we'll call him "Y". So me and "Y" we have EVERYTHING in common from music to food to movies etc etc etc we haven't found anything that we don't both like. He told me he loved me and wa...
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strange boyfriend. :(
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 5:29 am
hey
well the guy ive been going out with for a week .. he says he really likes me but he doesnt make an effort. before when we werent going out like 2 months ago we hooked up and afterwards he called me alot and replied to my messages and came to see me and had time for me, then when we started going out he just never called me .. he would promise he would call and then he wont. and he never replied to my messages, and he never has time for me. hes always with his friends. i would be like Hey come visit me when i finish work and he would come during work and be like Yeah i wont be able to see you because im going out with mates etc. i got so sick of it and yesterday i told him and im like I cant go out with someone that i only see ...
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help
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 4:51 am
hi
i need some advice on a matter.
ok last year i was very unhappy in my relationship, therefore i sort comfort in other places. i never slept with anyone else but another guy who i was friends with before i met my current boyfriend sent me flowers saying i deserved better and stuff like that.. there were 2 guys and the other we were close but never kissed or anything as well.. just after our 1 year we broke up for a few weeks, then we got bak together and we both had changed as persons. he was much more considerate and nice and i am much more stronger. i told him that i did seek comfort in other places and he understood and was sorry. i didnt tell him everything that happened just that i was unhappy, yet i sti...
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first kiss
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 4:26 am
im13 and wanted to know what a 13 year old girl likes about guys and how they like them to kiss. Any help?
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Why did she come over after i told her i felt about her?
Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 4:03 am
We were chatting online because I ask her to meet me on the chat room after her class because I needed to talk to her. When she did I told her I am bi sexual and have feelings for her. We chatted for an hour about my self coming out and my emotion depression I was dealing with. She said she was fine with me coming out and that I like her she supported me, she even told she is sexual confused herself. After that she ask if she can come over I ask why and she said I don’t have to if you want me to. I told her I didn’t mind. She had to get off online because she was going to work. So she came by then we watch TV. she was there for 30 mins then left to go to work.Nothing happen and we didn’t talk much just only about the movie. Bu...
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Bi?
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 9:12 pm
Okay, i'm really confused. I am a female and i think i like one of my best friends, she's a girl. she is bi sexual and one night when we got drunk we did some "stuff" if you know what I mean. we like made out and she like fingered me and everything. I didnt think i liked her like that at the time. and I wasnt bi sexual before this. but now i'm think i am. i want to tell her how i feel about her and that i like her alot but im scared of how she would react. she has a boyfriend and i dont want to get totally rejected. Any advice on what i should do? should i tell her how i feel? or chould i just leave it alone? thanks.
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why do guys...?
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 8:10 pm
Ok when I'm with a guy he always tells me about "oh this girl likes me, she does too, she likes me.. Oh these girls we're trying to talk to me, they said I was cute & but I told them I had a girlfriend." Blah blah and they tell about all their incidents with other girls why??
AND THEN.
When I talk about my incidents with other guys they get mad?
Weeeeeird.
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Broken! </3
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 6:53 pm
Okay, so me and my ex boyfriend broke up after dating for about 5 months. i fell in love with him so quickly and i wanted it to last forever. he was the first guy i was ever sexual with. we never actually had sex but he fingered me and i gave him a hand job and he saw me naked and everything. we talked about having sex but we never got the chance. I also told him everything about myself and we were so open towards eachother. He is the first guy that I had ever really fallen in love with and the first i had actually opened up to. I was so upset when we broke up. i felt like my world was just crashing on top of me. I'm still in love with him and it's been a month since we split. We dont talk much anymore and it kills me. I want him back so ba...
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good girl ... bad boy ???
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 6:41 pm
There's this guy at school I really like. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore. One problem... I'm a "good girl" and he's not a "bad boy" but he's pretty close. I'm a strong Christian and he won't even go to church. I know he has strong feelings for me too but he won't date me because he doesn't date "good girls". We're good friends and we talk a lot about getting together but he wants a lot more in the physical part than I'm willing to give. We talk about that a lot and he's always making jokes about wanting to do stuff with me that he knows I'd never do. He wants me to pretty much be a skank. :( I still really like him but I'm not really sure where to go with this... Any advice whatsoever would be helpful!! Shou...
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We've been broken up for 5 months, he hates me
Posted Monday May 12 2008, 5:16 pm
I went out with this guy a while ago, and we went out for about 6 months, which was my first real "relationship". I'd dated a lot of guys, but he was special. I broke up with him because...I guess at the time I was just tired of his over-protectiveness. Now I see he just loved me. The thing is, I thought that by breaking up with him, I'd get a new start. Dating new people, since I hadn't dated in a while. I was really excited. I guess I just THOUGHT I got over him at the time. Currently, we are both going out with someone. Unfortunately, after the break up, he suddenly decided he hated me because I moved on so quickly. I want him back. A lot. I know it will be nearly impossible to get him back, but I'm willing to do anything. Next...
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Posted Monday May 12 2008, 3:02 pm
ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.
he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.
he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.
i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks!
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