A crush I've had from probably November last year knows that I like him, because I told him, and was really nice to me, although he was probably quite shocked haha.. but nothing happened because he liked someone else, a friend of mine, actually, but now they're not close anymore, and I've noticed we always seem to be the first people to notice each other walk into the room, or accidently catch eye contact.. there's been other people for me, but I'm kinda crazy about him, more so than I have been for anyone else in my life - do these little things that happen very often mean anything? What should I do? Or am I being paranoid, and should just get over him? Any help HUGELY appreciated! Thankyou so much in advance!!!!! xx
princessita answered Tuesday May 13 2008, 9:19 pm: I know boys ARE really confusing. But we really can't do anything to change them. Well anyway I think those things that your feeling means your in l.o.v.e!!!! I think you shouldn't be to obvious. Boys pretty much get scared when you seem to eager. You should try to let him know you and be his friend. Who knows maybe you'll be the next girl in his shoulder. Hope I helped. Let me know how it goes!!!!!
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anniemaylane answered Tuesday May 13 2008, 7:36 pm: Okay well boys are ALWAYS confusing. And i am sorta like I've been crushing on the same guy for since about dec. But my advice to you is not to make it to obviouse just be chill about it. Be his bff, BEFORE hand. And always keep your options open! You can crush on more then 1 guy. Who knows maybey after he gets over the other girl you'll be his next crushee.
HOPE THIS HELPS
Buddhaman answered Tuesday May 13 2008, 5:14 pm: lol, how cute X)
Your sudden super crush on him as of late doesnt mean you necessary like him more. For you must like him for who he is and after long thought to like someone more. Being 14 your at a time where your mind will play tricks on you. Will make you feel extra this or that just because :3 A very confusing time indeed. Just dont get too paranoid or be to rash for one who is hasty misfortunates are close at hand.
AskKay23 answered Tuesday May 13 2008, 5:10 pm: It sounds to me like there's some kind of common attraction between the two of you.
Look at this from his perspective-- he knew you liked him, but started something with someone else. Wouldn't you feel a little hesitant to approach yourself? He probably feels insecure with the decision he made in the first place. If you want anything to happen here, you're going to have to make the conversation. I'm sure he's nervous after all that's happened.
I suggest you be up front. It's hard, but nobody on here is going to give you an answer like he will. If you honestly too shy to create conversation all together-- wait on him-- see if he says anything to you during one of these situations where you connect eyes. Casually, even humorously, ask him what he's looking at even. It'll relax things, so he knows that you don't hold anything against him.
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