I am one who is here
I live to help ppl
I judge not, so dont judge for the pride is hog posh
I belive that for someone to be happy
They must stop thinking one what they can get to become happy. And start thinking what they can do
For Thousands of years, Sage`s, shamens, preist and monks. Basicly anyone who knows a true thing or 2 will say. That those so called sins. Those so call bad karma habits. Are there to show you that a life free of those bad behavoirs is the one and only way to be happy
And im sure the white girls are like, pst, i can just blah blah blah and im happy. And the guys are like, Ha, thats a boring way to live(girls agree) But would you be here if you were free of sinful intentions? DIDNT THINK SO!
For all paths besides the path of saint hood are full of sorrow, pain, suffering, and insaneity.
And when you mix sins! Omg! Do the Math my friends
When does mixing sins ever work out besides the short comings of your life?
And if you do think aboot what i have said. You will so realise that you will never in your lifetime beable to prove me as a ignorance spreader. For it would take thousands of lifetimes
So Please! Study my words and wisdom. You will find if you are able to understand them. You will be blissed with untold amounts of joy the likes no closed minded person could ever have in there full lifetimes
If you are to learn anything from me. Let it be that the worst thing you can do to your fragle little mind. Is to be closed minded to any extent
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I'm a 16 year old female...and I can't finish a book in one try. Never ever. I can't sit down and I can't even read through 10 pages without getting bored, distracted, anxious...or just lazy. I've tried sitting. And I've tried standing. And I've tried laying down. I fall asleep when I lay down and get distracted when I sit. And when I stand, it's just a disaster. I always save it for a later time, guilt free, and tell myself..eh, I'll read it later. I have a really high reading level, so the problem's not with that. I just can never finish a book. And I WANT to read. But I always end up sparknoting books cause I can never finish reading them (for school purposes). And when I want to read on my own, I get distracted, put it off for a later time and do other things. I used to be able to lay down and read, read, read...but now I can't. Even if I try rereading the books I've read before..my favorite ones.
Could this be like ADHD or something? Cause I REALLY WANT to read.
Advicee? :( (link)
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Hahaha, ive heard this a thousand times, and 9,999 if the times its ignorance on the part that they have no clue what there really, eating.
And the funny part, most people say thats bullshit
But then again, most of them find a way to do that isnt my way. But then again...there ways are always harder. And destructive.
But there are easy ways out. You could go to the doctor and get hard drugs which are labeled (medication) to counter the effects of the original drug most likly causing this behavior.
And adhd isnt real. What is real are people having brain fog from the effects of a hard drug labeled as a flavor enhancer(which it is) Brain damage is inculed. Closed mindedness is a big one.
And knowing msg heads im sure your very hostile at the idea that possibly all your favorite sodas and food brands are....lased is the propor word to use. That is if you choice to listen to words and not deep felt emotional opinions which is a common effect as well.
Now dont take my word for it. I only read aboot it.
I only am plauged by it.
I only know the truth.
I only have medical problems that ruin my life from it.
I only try to advoid the feindish chemical.
Thats all i know. And that isnt alot.
So please if you are hasty to judge this as unimportant. Or false to the highest levels.
I dare you to see for yourself. Because finding out why you cant read. Will get you reading. But thats not what i was aiming for to help you. I wanted to free you with the truth.
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i am a student. i am suppose to finish my study a few years back. i am supose to do some work to finish my study but i kept doing other stuff until now. what i mean with other stuff is i tend to think about my problems and it made me cry. i dont knw why i would cry every time i want to study. am i creazy? (link)
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Listen well young one
I will not go into detail on the whys of my advise for i have typed alot today
If you want to be better.
Things you can do to speed up this whole process is the following
-meditate for science says everyone should
-advoid iffy foods like soda`s and fast foods junk foods tv dinners anything when you look on the back and if you see
MSG Gelatin Calcium Caseinate
Monosodium glutamate Hydrolyzed Vegetable Protein (HVP) Textured Protein
Monopotassium glutamate Hydrolyzed Plant Protein (HPP) Yeast Extract
Glutamate Autolyzed Plant Protein Yeast food or nutrient
Glutamic Acid Sodium Caseinate Autolyzed Yeast
Vegetable Protein Extract Senomyx
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Malted Barley (flavor) Natural Flavors, Flavors, Flavoring Modified food starch
Barley malt Reaction Flavors Rice syrup or brown rice syrup
Malt Extract or Flavoring Natural Chicken, Beef, or Pork, Flavoring "Seasonings" (Most assume this means salt, pepper, or spices and herbs, which sometimes it is.) Lipolyzed butter fat
Maltodextrin, dextrose, dextrates Soy Sauce or Extract "Low" or "No Fat" items
Caramel Flavoring (coloring) Soy Protein Corn syrup and corn syrup solids, high fructose corn syrup
Stock Soy Protein Isolate or Concentrate Citric Acid (when processed from corn)
Broth Cornstarch fructose (made from corn) Milk Powder
Bouillon Flowing Agents Dry Milk Solids
Carrageenan Wheat, rice, corn, or oat protein Protein Fortified Milk
Whey Protein or Whey Anything enriched or vitamin enriched Annatto
Whey Protein Isolate or Concentrate Protein fortified "anything" Spice
Pectin Enzyme modified proteins Gums (guar and vegetable)
Protease Ultra-pasteurized dairy products Dough Conditioners
Protease enzymes Fermented proteins Yeast Nutrients
Lecithin Gluten and gluten flour
DO NOT BY EVERY FIBOR OF MY BEING EAT THOSE!
They are hard to the bone drugs and will in fact give you mental disorders and with prolonged use you`ll become a drooling talking to self "person"
- Get active! Plan a day once a week or so to have some good relexing time be it from walks on the beach to going to see a flick.
- dont play video games 4 hours poir to studing and dont get on the cpu for long etheir!
If you think this advise is bogus. Then have all the fun in the world on your own with your own wisdom which isnt even over 10 years old.
Read words of the buddha(firstone) just what he has said to people.
Do all that and come back and rate and comment for i know in fact if you are one who seeks awnsers to problems you have and thus opened your mind to the massives then you will be what you like to think is normel
ps. works 100% of the times if there minds are open
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Up until recently, I have never had anything like this happen to me, I have started hearing some voices in my head. Its always of somebody I know, I know I didn't imagine it, always of a female i know from my school, usually just an acquaintance or long time friend, nothing to do with attraction. It happens about 5 times a week and they always say something, similar to "Hey " or just my name. When it first happened I was really freaked out, but i'm still kinda freaked when it happens just not as bad. What causes this? Stress? Can it be fixed? I know I'm not imagining this. (link)
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Well, I am one who belives those voices are yours. Every second with every action there are dozen of thoughts that flow through your mind. Some people go for the angel and devil on there sholders, now those voices are just there thoughts, why are they puting there thoughts in such a fashion?
Well it could be you having a deep seeted fear of going crazy, With! now keep up for the mind is highly complex yet simple to the core. Other stresses, not the here and now stress, but the stress that builds in yout sub mind. Alot of people get that when theres not alot of closure in there lives from not saying good bye to always not thinking things through. And a hugh factor which i know you didnt think of. Hormones. Most people dont go on with a life of forever voices. Your Hormones are making you way stressed and the stress of being a girl in these times are too much for most!
I know its blah if your confused plz read again because ive worked on this for...32 hours this page has been up, ive lefted many times but worked on it and edited it so plz, understand only what im trying to show you, dont become judgemental for that can be the self destructive part of you[yes we all have it]
Now as for the voice being that girl.
There could be no connection. Maybe a little part of you likes her tone or maybe thats the first thing that came to mind. I wouldnt think to much of it.
And yes it can be fix. I have shown a few of my friends what there thoughts really are. Its just some mild confused from misinterpreting the mind
In other sense, lets say you had 5 thoughts in 2 secs. And you ignored 2 of them. And those 2 were the ones that lead you to think the last 2 thoughts. Without those 2 thoughts your not gonna see how those thoughts came to be and yes that can be very difficult Especially if stress is on the high end
And just know Any one can hear voice that they belive they have no control of, its human nature, dont let no text book think your something your not. And trust me, as a buddhist I wouldnt lie even if it ment the death of someone so im not hog poshin you
Now I would Highly recommend you relax to relaxing music. Find some new stuff, get active, this is key to realizing why your stressing in such away
Try music with no words, i love jazz and nothing relaxs me more then a hot hot bath, Yes candles X3 and smooth music
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It is science fact that people who meditate have greatly lowered stress.
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Food is very important. 60% of people with mental illnesses get them from eating processed foods. Now nothings wroung with them(dyes alittle) but there are factors to be added. Like one really common ingredent which causes horrible things but makes food yummy. As they say, the market always wins for better or worst. And you`ll have to smart up unless you like the way you are.
One who does not act for the bettering of thereself is one 100% happy of what they have. Even if they dont act and still say there unhappy. I belive there happy for they didnt act.
So i advise you to 1.stay away from 100% of sodas and fast food places. Even dennys. Not only will you feel quite better but you`ll be more active with more energy. I lost 40 lbs doing that alone. And more energy means you can do some joging or bike riding which will reduce stress and relese endorphin which are a big help to anyone in need.
2. meditate once a day. No if`s ands or buts for if you want to be your old self this is a must.
3. Get active. Not only with bike riding and what not. But converse with friends, try to meet new people, start a hobbie. Having a passion is a Great, and i mean Great way to reduce stress. I for one study history, philosophy, psychology, pharmacology, religion, and even have the time to read news everyday 8] sounds like a nerd thing but im smart as ever and my mind is like a rock
4. (And this is only for those who truly and honestly desire to find there self which i see you are in need of) Read the [Words] of siddhartha gautama. Read only of him awnsering qustions to locals
Now if you do alll this my friend. The voice will come less and less often. And when you find the stress that started all of it. You`ll be 100% cured. Atleast thats what happens when one follows such old wisdom.
P.S. The battle to stay happy is a tough one. But as long as your will takes you to the right places then you have nothing to worry aboot.
If your closed minded, even in the littlest form. Then i would be very worried for closed mindedness brings one thing. No change
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i don't know what to do anymore.i dont really want to go into details but i can't stand it where i live anymore.
i can't stand living at the moment.i didnt realize until resently,but i dont really enjoy the things i usually do.I see a counceler,only because they thought i might need one after a natural disaster.Honestly that didn't effect me at all,but im soo tired of it all,the phycologist,my parents constantly reminding me of my mistakes,and on top of it i resently lost my best friend
it just feels like my life doesn't have meaning anymore.
please dont take this the wrong way,im not going to kill myself or anything,but i just dont know what to do,im not old enough to live on my own,my parents wont move,i dont know,but if i stsay here much longer i know i will grow insane (link)
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Well, Know this, EVERYONE goes crazy with there parents around. When you move out, your mind will feel like a snow globe which is still, slowly going back into place and seeing that picture inside for the first time truely. Its a beauty thing homie. I know how you feel 100% so dont brush off my words like you know a thing or 2.
You need a purpose, I see a bunch you convinently forgot aboot. Your health, Your mind, Your I`Q. How be that cool fun good conversation guy, being someone with a hobbie so there not that guy who goes insane.
As for your growing, You need to put a stop to all that now. Its called a butterflie effect lil homie. It happens when your not doing alot. When nothing is happening. Too much time is on your hands, IT BUILDS UP!
And trust me lol homie. You havnt the clue on what true maddness is. You dont even know the peak on how it feels to be out of control and always on that sheer break of maddness. You just dont know, And i think a part of you want to know. And it will hide in you homie to find that out weather you want to or not. But only by dealing a absolute can you subdue this cycle lil homie. For that is how the mind works. You can say oh ok ill stop being crazy when its too late. You have to jump on it and deal a absolute over your self.
You might think oh one brain one mind, But your mind is more complex then that. But simple enuff to control when your aware your not in a made up fantacy you made from messed up realizations you made over the years.
But if you really just want a easy way out like most do. Take the fastest path- Philosophy, for thousands of years people have been doing it, And everyone who reads buddhism philosophy tell me that everyday is a new more brightful day. You just cant go wrong
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also, in first world areas the food causes psychosis which inculeds manic depression and ect
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idk. my best friende killed himself. my boyfriend and ex boyfriend almost got killed in a car accident. my dad was and could stil be a cheater. i finally found someone to love, my boyfriend. He's moving soon. far away. im all by myself. i cant take much more, i can hardly breath, theres no such thing as happiness. everytime i find it, it gets taken away. i cant do this much longer. i try so fuckin hard to get strong, i get there, then something worse happens. its not the first time, its the millionth. so much pain is in my body. ive done the pills. gone to counseling, everything the whole deal. nothing works. i cant do drugs even causeit makes me worse. im all by myself. and when my boyfriend/best friend of one year leaves me, god i dont even know what ill do...
someone help me. (link)
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A story im very familur with im afraid, But! Should be good news is it not? I seem to be the first; thank goodness i have this as a passion :3
Well first off. Im not going to butter this up.
You seem to want to be happy, but i hope your not like most who`m only want to find happieness in one manner.
You`ll never find happieness they way your looking
It seems soceity has rubed off on you really well
And thats bads my dear. Your going from one desire to the other. Only things will make you happy in the life you have made for yourself.
You said, I finally found someone to love me.
Now that shows me that you must`ve been looking for sometime and might`ve gotten desprite. People get desprite when they need something. But you dont need a boyfriend, what made you think you needed one?
You mention pills, You must live in a first class nation. All first class nations are very evil in a sense they hide horrible things in there food and water, but they cant hide it on the net and all someone has to do is look.
Depression, Brain fog, Psychosis, All common effects of eating processed foods, fake foods, soda`s and 6,000+ other products. All it is they say a flavor enhancer but in everywhere besides the states it has the same look as a hard to the core drug. If your diet has those^ i`d stop your you have no chance in hell of ever in your life becoming happy longer then 2hours. Facts are facts
Im glad your not taking medications for they mess up your mind really bad. No good can come of it.
If you still feel the need to indulge, indulge in herbal, go online and buy some natural stuff that wont hurt you but at the same time take away any desire to do drugs. You seem to be a smart girl, but what counts is open mindedness when it comes to happieness
Also some other notes on why one can be sad-
Addictions- (Boyfriends)not the guy himself
Lack of derection- For thousands of years people have turned to religion, most end up in wars or a we bit weird. Naturally wise people turned to
Philosophy, For unlike religion, can be changed. Philosophy only cares aboot the art of happieness and is its main goal, Nothing more, 100% happienes
I recomen the buddhist philosophy; words of buddha
Everyone who reads his words and sat with his words in mind, and the pursuit of happieness, become stress "freeer" by the day, And they all tell me this, and ive told them it when it was me.
Your a smart girl, dont let a thing like reading a small book(words of budda books are always are)
Stay drug free, INCULEDING the ones in the food(look up m-s-g) Meditate for it is science fact one is less stressed, and hence thinks clearly and are happier, hence=p better heatlh, better life wouldnt you agree?
Love your enemys and commit
P.s. try getting a hobbie for one who is "bored" has a lot of time to let greedy thoughts rule there self
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For this girl!
http://www.projectmichelle.com/
...I dont know her but i saw an ad for her website and she needs a bone marrow transplant and she cant find any matches and she needs it by june 21st or she could die!
and i feel so bad!
Im too young to get a kit!
so i was planning on spreading the word!
can you help me?
http://www.projectmichelle.com/
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There is honor in picking your own fights.
But why reach for the impossible for one when the possible is out there for the many?
And i feel for you and her my friend. And yes death can be a scary thing for anyone. But know death might be scary, but so are shadows.
I as a buddhist do not belive in death. And i think that alone can explain alot of what a buddhist is.
If you want to fight for something fight for what will matter in 100+ years
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I'm an addict. No, I'm not a druggie, an alcoholic, none of that. I'm a computer addict.
I spend AT LEAST 5 hours daily on the computer on school days. On days that I'm free I will spend all of my waking hours on the computer (for example today, I was online nonstop from 8:30am to 11:30pm, right now).
This is getting out of control. My family is breaking apart because of it, my school work is suffering as well. I no longer have a social life, I stopped doing the sport that I used to love so passionately.
I think the reason I'm (psychologically) addicted is because its a way to escape for me. I'm pretty depressed and lonely, and the computer helps me cheer up and forget my problems.
I had suspected that I had a problem for a while now (two years). What finally triggered me to ask help is that my mom tearfully and angrily lectured me that I live in filth (which is true, my room is disgusting, but I don't clean it because I'm on the computer), that "when we're all together we're not a family anymore because of you, because of the way you treat your brother and father and even me, your mother." What hurt me the most was when she said that she has a stupid, lazy, selfish, 17-year old daughter who would rather be with a computer than with her family.
But it makes me upset and angry because they're really the reason for this, I'm never good enough, I'm lazy and stupid no matter what or how much I do. My brother is the perfect angel and can do no wrong. My dad has these horrible habits (thundering on the phone, stomping when he walks: the whole house literally shakes, chews extremely loudly) that really irritate me, and I've tried talking to him about it, but he practically says that I shut my mouth and suck it up, because he's not doing anything about it. I can't even eat with him because I'm in tears halfway through dinner because the noise of his chewing (and its only him) really extremely irritates me. I've been eating my meals alone for the past 2 years or so. My mom, dad and brother eat together. And when he is shouting at the top of his lungs on the phone when I'm trying to do homework... I just can't stand it and I think its extremely inconsiderate of him, and rude.
What do I do? Where do I start? How can I fix things up with my dad? I can't get any professional help because my parents believe that I am the only reason of the problems that I have. I don't really know who to believe anymore. All I know that I'm sad, depressed and unhappy, and I hate it. Please help.
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Well, I edited it a bit, But it makes perfect sense you just need to read.
Also! You said,"Food is also not the problem" You say nothing of your deit meaning you just dont know like a kid in a book store. Though its nothing to feel bad aboot.
And fyi, discipline as in discipline over the self
In Other Words, Being aware of what your doing when your doing it and making right choices in life from not eating the last chemical filled oreo
to getting off the computer and doing whats right instead of playing pretend that your powerless to yourself tho it is one hell of a hole to get out of. most dont make it.
And it seems you didnt spend much time reading what i wrote. Sometimes it takes some people to a few times reading it to grasp it. It takes a widly open mind to read what i wrote and get it fully like that(snaps) I say widly open even after that fact that i simplify All i write. I rewrote this 3 times!
But its your happieness. I only do this for I am wise enough to know dumbbut online and express myself for if i dont ill end up like (we will see if your desire to brain fart over comes your desire to find happieness =][this is why i love life btw])
Well, Most cases of depression in first world nations are because of the food the people eat.
And Yes, that means im saying if you eat the every day foods most ppl eat. You will always and forever be depressed.
It can also be your environment. As in...
You sit around in a box all day(a room)
You have negitive influences in your life, and you might not see it or them as bad so be carful.
You have little Discipline. And since the dawn of time little Discipline has caused sorrow. Its the way of our human world and is a part of our human life.
Your also at a time in your life where hormoans are raging. And if your a milk drinker who loves dr.pepper you must be very mellen collie always.
Not to mention the mental illness you will most likly get :] scaryness, i know alot aboot these kind of things and wouldnt say a peep if I wasnt sure.
And a very common depression people around your age have is to due with there place in life.
One with no direction is lost.
I can barely remember that feeling myself.
Filling that void with all sorts of things.
Friends, fad`s, hobbies, sin, chinese food and pepsi. A dark time indeed.
But i think ive said all i can say, hope it helps
From the heart -Buddhaman
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A very healthy thing to do to gain a direction in life is philosophy. Most ppl to me atleast head for religion, but i dont belive in that kind of thing to do while mentally stressed.
It is a science fact that meditation greatly reduces stress and promotes better mood and health
Buddha was very wise and spoke nothing but truth
Advoiding deadly sins is a great way to stay happy
The wheel of dharma is so simple is complex, but when understood fully, depression will be a thing of the past to the fullest your imagenation can fancy. Love thy everybody =D
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Is there any harm of using Windex (or any kind of window/glass/whatever cleaner) on your teeth??
Not so much sparying it on, but putting it on my tooth brush and rubbing it in.
And..not swallowing??
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Only if you want your teeth to fall out.
You`ll get sores in your mouth and not to mention sick
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Is it normal to be depressed about not knowing your purpose in life? Depressed like it randomly puts you in a not so great mood and you walk around feeling sad.. not suicidal or anything. Also, any suggestions how to come out of this mood of constant unhappiness? (link)
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Watch mtv2 for better advise
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I've always been "controlling" and bossy towards my sisters and family, but at the same time kind and generous. Then, in school with my friends im totally different. Im always laughing and having fun. Lately, i've noticed somethings wrong with me but i have no idea of what it could be!!
I just finished freshman year which is a relief
summer is here
i have a boyfriend
everything seems to be fine...i just can't figure out why i get sad. So many people (in my family) always tell me to smile and let loose.
somethings wrong with me, and i need help... =/
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Well, in all my years I must say this is a classic case of someone not knowing who they are.
Controlling, What is that? What cases that? Pride.
You have a boyfriend
Do you hold tight to the things you were taught to be right and never look back? Is there a part of you screaming! To rethink alot things.
Your pride probly roots from you thinking that your in some sense on top in the game called life, you passed school, you have a man, all is good...right?
I think theres nothing to brag about there. I see alot of people getting into relationships to cover up deeper problems all the time. And there lust and greed gets the better of them when there pride comes crashing down. Im sure now your thinking its party month. And im sure you might consider doing alot of partying but please dont cover up problems, you have to deal with them one at a time when they come at you.
For even the littest mis hab can change a person.
As for the way you act compared to friends and family. Family is a crazy thing. It makes people act crazy. I dont have much here im sorry. But thats what I have seen. Could be that or a persons true self comes out and your just putting up a act one way or another knowing or not. The mind is weird i know, dont read aboot it exspectings easy learning.
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And if you want to know the path to fixing your problems at (high speed dsl=p) Dedicate yourself to knowing what the 4 noble truths fully mean. There is etheir alot of reading, or a shit load of thinking. sorry but time has shown that discipline over the self is the one path to happieness.
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Hi im 16/f and i only have cellulite on my butt and legs how do i get rid of it fast? I dont like wearing bikinis because im self conscious of my legs. Im not fat though. im 5'6 and i weigh about 135 pounds. I've tried exercising and its not fast enough. Is there any fast solution to this? Thanks alot! (link)
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Well, i had unlike you alot of extra lbs. And it was one hell of a task to lose any of it.
Until, I started using my head. Long storie short, my nose tickled, did alot of reseach, and acted with my new educated self by advoiding foods which had chemicals that were hard drugs or my body couldnt handle as in foods that go down and all of its gone by next week, not tiny bits remaining in my tummy untill i die.
And doing that will save you because it builds up and weights you down, by age 40 you`ll have on avg 20lbs of toxic hog posh in your body that just sits there forever if you dont do anyting.
And Before I knew it. I started droping lb`s barly doing anything! Aboot 2 months into it I was up and running, riding bikes and swiming. Which were all things I never! Did! Lost 40lbs and feel great, can think straight! Its Amazing.
brought to you by:
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I'm asking you because I've read many of your responses, and I've grown to respect your wisdom and intelligence in all sorts of questions you've answered. You don't sugar-coat anything, and I know I'll get it straight from you.
In the passed few years, I've been around death. My uncle died at 47, 2 friends at 20, one at 22, and even seeing death in newspapers has really molded me into a hypochondriac.
Everyday I'm on the internet obsessing over my health and what could be wrong with me. I edit out all basic illnesses like a sinus infection or tendentious, and replace them with the most serious of conditions.
I envy all my friends who can just live love, and only be concerned with boyfriends, school, and work. Instead of me living my life, and sit around thinking of 40 ways I could die tomorrow.
It's sad, because I'm 21 and I should just want to live, right? I can't do that. And it's selfish and wrong, and all I want in this entire world is to fix it and be normal.
Any suggestions? (link)
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Well,
-Death can be scary, but so are shadows
-Dont think highly of the town drunk
-If you cant be yourself, then who?
Keep those in mind for awhile ok? Good.
And I think you might be thinkin way to much friend. If you are concern with health, clense the body, eat healthy, and work out every day. Try your hardest. Whatever it takes! And if you cant then you have no right to such thought and your only torturing yourself.
Few people use blades to inflict pain, Most do it in there head.
And as for your envy problem. You must know that in human history. Lots of people of high ranks amoung the people told stories for generations about human habits which bring much sorrow and little joy. And how that little joy can be, a powerful thing.
Envy! Is one of those things my friend. Its normel to want to be like someone, but I`m pretty sure your friends arent anyone to look up to.
Being yourself isnt that bad, unless that is if your blain. Basicly a (word for one who choices a ignorant lifestyle) you know. Because if you look up to a idoit, you`ll be a fool amoung dumbasses.
And im sure as a female in this world the want to fit in is much more great then your rare case male
You must acknowlage this if you are to advance in your life. Its just one of those things we all have to do. Even Buddhaman gets carried away on a bad day! And since a barly eat i get alot of`em(Sounds bad but im a health first kind of guy)
I say acknowlage this so you can be on the path to shedding your ego which i can clearly see you have from what you have told me so no hog poshery
The fact that you envy shows that your ego is low and dim as you wrote that. A feeling I had much back in the day before I monked up.
But, You mustnt not envy your friends for it will be the deathening of your soul! There is not good out come when envy is involed. False promises of realization you`ve always desired for what? At what cost?
I have seen why so many religions call them sins with demons attached.
I advise you take a look at yourself in all points of veiws for a short time. If you see falt, dont cry or mob. Do whats for the best and you will feel like the best. Use that mind, see how those 7 sins in that book the bible effects your life and shapes who you are.
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Briefly, the facts of my situation are as follows:
I had an emotional affair. It was a long-distance matter between me and a woman I used to know before I met my wife. When my wife began to realize what was going on (and it didn't take her long, because I'm lousy at keeping secrets and she's very perceptive) I ended it, and told my affair partner that I would not be contacting her again. I meant it, too.
That might have been the end of it, but a couple of days ago my wife looked into my e-mail account and discovered everything had been going on - things that she had not been aware of and which I had not intended to tell her. To make a long story short, the nature of the affair had turned sexual, and there were E-mails sent back and forth where we described that sort of thing in detail. There were confessions of love from both sides, and intimate revelations of other sorts. There were also plans for us to try to get together sometime soon (plans which I aborted before my wife even found out about anything, because I came to my senses about that much at least). I was lying to my wife about all of these things, and now those lies are fully exposed.
Of course, my wife is furious and terribly hurt, and she is considering ending our marriage.
I am deeply remorseful of what I've done. Right now I can barely look my wife in the eye, because I am so ashamed of myself. I think I might take my own life if I didn't know that it would only make things worse for my wife and child (for now, my child remains unaware of anything wrong, that goodness for that).
I know that I committed a terrible wrong, and I want to make amends and repair my marriage. I need advice on how to do that. I am willing to do literally whatever it takes to make things right again. I want to change myself so that I will be a better man, someone she deserves to have for a husband, instead of the lying cheater that I have proven to be.
Does anyone have any thoughts on what I can do or say to convince her that my intentions are sincere, that I truly am sorry, and that it absolutely will not happen again? Are there any of you out there who have gone through this on either end and might have some advice for what I can do now? And can anyone give me some idea on how I can work to improve myself and my own personal integrity so that this doesn't happen again?
I ask only that responders refrain from slamming me down regarding my wrongful actions - nothing that anyone can say will make me feel worse about it than I already do, so to harp on that will be pointless. Please, just tell me what I can do now. (link)
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hahaha, this is why i belive John Harvey Kellogg had it right.
But you have to see my friend. Were 2 different beings with little similarities. Realized this in its entirely.
For You to be 100% Your wife would have to change pretty much entirely for you to be like this. Same goes for her.
Now i belive the online thing is alright. But your case opened my mind. I dont think you should be doing that with people you could met up with or knew at one point in your life.
I say this because your setting yourself up for the worse my friend. Plus you seem slow(dont hate for i am as well) I think you should take a break from all "wrongness"
Now if you want your wife to be happy. Sell your soul. There is nothing that selling your soul cannot fix my friend. I sold mine to gain wisdom beyond my years to pay my debt to this world.
And selling soul means: Becoming aware, Do little things, big things, and dont think of`em as little or big cause they`ll sense that. Become overwelmed with joy around her in such a way you do those meaningful things.
Pretty much doing what you are told to do since you`ve turn 3.
Women own the world am i right? They are givin a acceptance in society to act the way they do and they milk that until they die. Its built into there very dna. And you Must see this.
Since they are tuned into this reality which was made by millionaire belive it or not the fact still remains that you now see this new world. Womens world. A sometimes very childish reality where there emotions are always right. So if they feel right after saying the first people to the moon where her uncle tom and bill clinton yet she feels right, shes right.
So to not go insane. Lose the ego. Lose the pride.
That is what women do. They take that from you because it is a ignorant thing to have if your a guy in your new world my friend.
That way you wont have emotions when it comes to things like making her dinner, getting her shoes. Or whatever.
And theres the pain factor. If you feel sore and sick. Keep going. Only feel sore when it hurts like a needle to the skin many times over. Only feel sick when your are horribly close to dying.
And last but not least. Get some of those clams thingys. Bumb that, there are a mess load of teas that do the same and more without the grossness.
How wouldnt that help? Putting back that spark?
Dont buy nike because they you slave labor. But just do it
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hi... i've been suffering for a long long time and i am still not sure what's wrong with me... i am 22 now and this has started when i was 9.... i've had severe depressive moods and then i'd go back to just being "normal" or not depressed... i usually try to hide this from everyone but the things happening inside me are too painful for me to bear anymore... but i've noticed a pattern ... and so researched it and what i found was that it could be bipolar disorder... everything seems to fit... when i am depressed i feel unworthy of anything and that i am stupid (mental iq is below average), a failure, have no skills, and i endure horrible memories of times when i was so sure of myself and ended up embarrassing myself ... other times i'd feel so "high" that i could do anything and that my family is the reason i am not successful and they are in my way and i need to escape them and so on and so forth.... but nothing seems too far fetched... but if it weren't for my parents unusual extreme rules i would be partying like an animal with people i don't know and probably risking my life somewhere...
simple incidents really kill me inside when they're over: once i took one cooking lesson and then i bragged that i did it and so i got hired for a job to cater for an elementary school party because i convinced them of my "skills" and i ended up ruining everything and presenting horrible horrible food... no one said anything but i feel so bad... the principle even sent me a thank you present and card..... when i am depressed this comes to haunt me and i can't show my face to my family or anyone in the city... literally i stay in for days.... and at one point i was at the verge of suicide... this is really troubling me and i don't know what to do... i am so self conscious, i don't know what my skills are, who am i, and i don't know what's wrong with me... my parents follow an extremely religious school of thought and they do not believe in psychiatry or psychology (and barely medicine (!) if it weren't for extremely fatal issues) i don't know what to do because nothing i say can convince them... i am not sure what is wrong with me but it is really getting in the way i live my life... how do i get diagnosed and what do i tell the doctor about this? i mean i can't just say i have bipolar! i went to a counselor and he told me that i have severe anxiety and so i got medicated (secretly behind my parents backs!) the medications only made me sleep heavily and get more depressed... the reason i think i was prescribe those was because i usually go to him when i am in a state of depression and hallucination (i sometimes hear voices) and extreme paranoia that would show both on my mental state and physical! i would talk about threats realistic and unrealistic and i think that is what scares him most....i really don't know what to do and i really want to stop these daemons in my head! sometimes because they take over me completely i just become aware of where i am and what i am doing after periods of just not being there... like my mind was somewhere else while my body was left behind for a while.... people tell me that i talk to them or answer back but i can't really remember except sometimes it's like i am looking at myself from the outside....
I am so sorry this is long but i am really confused and scared....
help
Jemma/22 (link)
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Well.
Our stories are much the same.
Check if its in your food. Just what are you eating or have ate`n which caused this so called mental illensses.
And if you want a cure, Look up the four noble truths. If you can fully understand these simple truths to heart. You`ll have way less depression and stress. And will take vaule for the littest things out there.
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Still need help form the buddhaman. Contect at imnotsomeoldguy@aim.com at random times, thank you
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(theres never a beggining or a ending, but you can always change present if you try and try, And still try even if it seems pointless)
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ok so im a guy and i like watching porn.
im actually not a pervert or anything and i dont do it too often, so dont be mean ^_^. anyway my parents have this parental control thingy, so almost every site is blocked. so i found one or 2 sites that arent, but the videos played on windows media player and im scared theyre somehow still on there. my parents would kill me :(
so are they still on there or not? (link)
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Well.
My young friend. Do not lie to yourself for it can cause damage far pass anything you can imagen!
I Have studied the mind for many many years now my young friend. And You must accpect the fact that you cannot control yourself at this time of age which most cannot so dont feel too bad, your just more animal then you thought. Your A pervert my friend. A pervert, One who isnt a open pervert but still a pervert indeed. We are born with this. Its called the urge to mate mixing with modern day tech with the help of our reasoning with, our abilite to fancy.
Dont let your ego or Pride let yourself make a picture of you which looks better then the real thing or else you end up in a very different place to whence you thought in only your meakest dark thought
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If you seek it, you will find it. No matter what it might be, the awnser is always there.
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I am dealing with a huge weigh on my shoulders. Last year I went through the hardest time of my life. I had been with my ex-boyfriend on and off for almost a year and a half. He moved away for school but we hook up when he would come home. I ended up pregnant and he made me feel like there was no way to keep the baby. I was in a horrible state with my hormones running wild and all the added stress of school. I was 2 months away from receiving degree. But I knew it was going against everything I believe in.
I feel totally depressed. Its been a year and I still have the pregnancy weight, I feel totally guilty for what I did. It kills me inside to think about what I did. I have no one to talk to because its such a sensitive issue. My friends haven't been through this and I dont want to dwell my issues on them. I lost all my confidence i feel fat and ugly because of what I did. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel totally alone :*( (link)
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My Friend! Please do not let this mellen collie eat you alive my friend!
I have educated myself in many many topics I would like to start off saying. One, is the avg life of a human in first world nations. The human`s mind reaction to a very out of this world modern age. And where this world is going. Amoug other subjects which barley relate.
I dont belive you made the right choice. I know so
The only way for you to have a child who isnt going to have to overcome the impossilbe to have a normel life is for you to be rich rich rich. Ive done the math. And on avg your going to need most of your life for the next 25 years and 50,000 usd per child a year! I was born with cancer because my mother ate fast foods, processed foods, lased foods which are still accpected in modern day to be ok.
But im the one who gets cancer. I grew up on a deit which gave me learning problems. I grow up and see the effects of ignorance on peoples children. I also grew up on a deit which has a high chance of giving mental illnesses. I am manic depessant, I have medical problems which i can barly live with and know in my heart that they will be the death of me one way or another
But the chances of you having a normel 100 years ago child when your not rich rich is less then 10%
If you look you will find that since this modern way there are far less smart children being born
and the darkness causeing it is just too much to deal with. And if this sounds ludacris and your unwilling to belive or look. Then all my years nose deep in a book about the mind say alot about someone who choices such paths friend.
Plus, having a child this time of age i belive to be very unethical, because there are people who arent as smart as you and give up the child to adoption when they have no DAMN CLUE!!! what it is like! What the forced injections those kids are forced to deal with. Theres a reason why kids who are adopted are more likly to commit hanus crimes
You made the right choice And Never forget it.
And your not alone.
P.S.
If you still feel the same way and need to know who what where when and why on how to stop this depresion or to make it berable Please by all means with every fibor of your being Look up the four noble truths.
It made me 99% stress free
And I Am Always open by any means to help anyone in there task of understanding these truths for they are simple yet tricky to your modern day persons of any day of time
Wish You the best friend
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well i want to know your secret to losing weight!! im not the girl whos question you answered but i read your responce and saw what you put. so ya i need to lose some weight for the summer. and i really need to get toned but i have no motivation :( anyway thanks
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haha, well.
Depending on where you live, basicly if you live in a first world nation. And you have a lil extra on you. And so does the rest of the millions im sure. You need to know all the facts so you can get a complete picture that you wouldnt hear any doctor talkin aboot openly.
I lost alot of weight by remaining drug free.
That means no processed foods, no junk foods.
And by advoiding a certin hard drug found in over 6000+ foods in the states. I simply started strinking.
From what ive learnt that it can causes extra weight gain, sleepyness, Diebetties, brain damage, fibromyalgia which i have, and amoung other soul crushing things.
After aboot a week drug free, i started bike riding more, swiming, reading! studing! I even started watching less tv because i was more active
I even started doing the things i used to love like hiking and climbing small rocky hills and trees.
But if your doing it over summer. Find loads of homesome foods. buy organic for those are almost never lased. Know that the only thing stoping you are those drugs that make you lazy! that make it hard to do anything. Are the things holding you down. Because they really are! At age 40, your avg joe has 20lbs of waste by products in his gullit which cannot be moved out by body only which he got from eating "modern" foods.
Nature takes thousands of years to do something new like that. Dont let pride get the best of you for this lil conversation could change who you are really.
And you could get some teas or high protein furits for energy. I just wouldnt relay too much on green or chai teas.
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Just remember! Drug free is the way to be! For you dont naturly feel mellen collie because of side effects
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yea.
so ive had this health teacher and i thought he was the coolest person ever. and then he said today:
"...males are only on earth to reproduce.."
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this statement. it...it makes me want to kill myself. im a 15 year old boy and i thought about that sentence DEEPLY for a LONG TIME, and i think i should kill myself. my life is a lie. they say eat healthy and stay in shape yet everyone dies anyway, and thanks to that statement i rly am questioning whehter or not i should go on in life.
idk. any statements? (link)
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Well, I belive that death isnt real.
And as for men are only here to blah. Same goes for everything on earth. From single cell to us.
Yes thats why we are here. But should it be the only reason we are here?
Everyone goes through what your going through friend. Strange that it is at a young age. Just like me my friend. This could show that your wise and just dont know it.
Now life is here to make a copy and die.
Humans are here to live as humans.
Men are here to make the future.
Women are here to raise the children.
We all have basic task that make us feel like ants
If you still feel bad. Think how your life would be back in the darkness of ignorance.
As the mind grows my friend. Many qustions are asked. Alot of those are asked many times within one lifetime.
The more you awnser, the more wise you become.
The more wise you are, the more you know whats right and wrong. Hence! The happier you become in the long term!
Now! If you still feel the way you do. Read the 4 Noble truths. Study them like it were your life`s passion and yes there short! Understand these. And you`ll know the awnser to why you are here. Then you can live a happy life.
For a wise man once said,"the hardest thing to do is to not enjoy life"
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okk so what does an orgaism for a girl feel like?? and i dont want any of that, "oh it feels really good." ya, ik it feels good. i want details. like, what you actually feel. (link)
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haha, Young boy dont you think your mind should be wondering about the secerts of the universe then how a lady feels?
You know that jiggle you get after you pee
times that by 40 add heat and dirty thoughts
(I knew a lesbian who loved to explain)
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Okay i know this is going to be very confusing. but i am in my 2nd week of a four week period package. if i stay this way i will get my period on the 27th of this month. and the 27th of next month. mygrad is on the 26 of next month.
I have thought about stoping this week and starting a new package on this following sunday (it is tuesday today), and that way i will get my period on the 10.
Is this okay to do? will it hurt my baby maker? is it wrong any other helpful advice? (link)
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Well, In this confusing word of poisons and medications. One might ask will it hurt me?
Most things in a-mary-ka hurt you. Step out side and the radiation and toxic dust will do alot of damage. Most, Foods will hurt you and your baby and your baby maker. Some people were even forced by unwritin laws to hurt there babys! (forced vacc`s about 8 months ago)
But if you really want that 100% perfect child
The only thing to do is to get of birth control
What do you know aboot these pills? Were they new when you got them? For it has shown over and over that new drugs on the market sell alot because doctors are hired for how many of them he or she can sell. Its a world that only the rich dont have to make hugh changes in there life to protect there child for normel everyday society.
The cancer rate is 1-2.6 for women! What happen 60 years ago when it was 1 in a million?!
Do you really thing that selling out to lust is going to make your life or your furture child`s life any better? These are your eggs we are talking about! I tried messing with a ducks egg and she acted like a good mother. You might not have a kid. But you are hurting your eggs weather you choose to belive so or not.
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Buddha man belives the only right way to have a kid is with Adoption unless you are trying to breed in the sense of breeding a better human
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