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i don't know whats wrong
I've always been "controlling" and bossy towards my sisters and family, but at the same time kind and generous. Then, in school with my friends im totally different. Im always laughing and having fun. Lately, i've noticed somethings wrong with me but i have no idea of what it could be!!
I just finished freshman year which is a relief
summer is here
i have a boyfriend
everything seems to be fine...i just can't figure out why i get sad. So many people (in my family) always tell me to smile and let loose.
somethings wrong with me, and i need help... =/
...thank you
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Well, in all my years I must say this is a classic case of someone not knowing who they are.
Controlling, What is that? What cases that? Pride.
You have a boyfriend
Do you hold tight to the things you were taught to be right and never look back? Is there a part of you screaming! To rethink alot things.
Your pride probly roots from you thinking that your in some sense on top in the game called life, you passed school, you have a man, all is good...right?
I think theres nothing to brag about there. I see alot of people getting into relationships to cover up deeper problems all the time. And there lust and greed gets the better of them when there pride comes crashing down. Im sure now your thinking its party month. And im sure you might consider doing alot of partying but please dont cover up problems, you have to deal with them one at a time when they come at you.
For even the littest mis hab can change a person.
As for the way you act compared to friends and family. Family is a crazy thing. It makes people act crazy. I dont have much here im sorry. But thats what I have seen. Could be that or a persons true self comes out and your just putting up a act one way or another knowing or not. The mind is weird i know, dont read aboot it exspectings easy learning.
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And if you want to know the path to fixing your problems at (high speed dsl=p) Dedicate yourself to knowing what the 4 noble truths fully mean. There is etheir alot of reading, or a shit load of thinking. sorry but time has shown that discipline over the self is the one path to happieness.
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well, it could be a few things. it could be that there is something missing in your life, and is waiting for you to find out what it is. it could be anything. try to dig deep into your sual and put you first. second, it could be simply that you are afraid of something. weather its failer, or even afraid of losing someone, this is very common. most people with this act contoling, and get very sad. or lastly, you might have some kind of form of depression. that is ok. everyone does. life gets stressful. sometimes we just need a break but can't afford one. life just flies by to fast and we can't catch are breath. so just try to take everyday one step at a time.
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