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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more (link)
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Your best bet would just be honest to him and tell him you dont think that he will change cause he hasnt. If he cheated on you 17 times he doesnt want to be with you i am sory but its true.
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i didn't make the marching band this year, and my director is a bitch. i want to switch schools, but don't want to leave this one. band is my life. I NEED HELP!!!! (link)
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Practice is the biggest thing to do to get into the marching band. Maybe you can talk to your director and see what you need to do to get involved with the band. Hope this helped.
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if you wear a bra to bed does it stop boob growth? wat about laying on your back? what helps them grow? i heard touching them ?!! thx
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if you wear a bra to bed it doesnt do anything. laying on your back is not connected to boobs in anyway. and the only way they will grow is genetically,or surgically but you dont want to spend all that money. Hope this cleared things up.
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14/M
Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date? (link)
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It depends on if you guys were both ready and no one was forced. Its best to make out when both of you guys are ready. and not getting pressured.
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Ok well he is likee WOW hott..
hes in all 7 classes of minee..
And i think he has a crush on mee..
Because the first dayy he alwayss triedd too sitt next to me in all classes except the one his girlfriends inn..
BUT he putt his arm around me and i dont care because i like himm..
And i have his number but im afraid if i call him he will tell his girll...
And he told her that like i like him and she got all up in my business..He has been in my class since 3rd GRADEE
And liked me every sine 5thh..
So i dont know if he still likes me from last yearr.
I mean he has asked me out...But then if i say yess he says what the heckk are you talking aboutt?
Please help me what should i do and does he STILL like mee (link)
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Well first of all he has a girlfriend so he might just be flirting with you cause he needs attention. He may like you but not as much as you think. If he likes you as much as you think he wouldn't ask you out then say oh idk what your talking about. Hope this helps.
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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help?? (link)
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The only way you are going to regain his trust is with time. Another thing that might help is stop sending him pictures, he may pay for the bill, and may be on the other coast but its never a good idea to send those type of pics.. especially with a boyfriend. If it kills you inside you should stop it your little voice is telling you its a bad idea. Hope this helps.
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So it happened on a Sunday when my friend called me and he is in the army. i was talking to him cause me and my boyfriend were fighting. i started to talk to his roommate and he was a good talker and talked me into sending him pictures of me that werent right for me to do. my boyfriend found out and we are broken up now but i live him so much and i know i made such a huge mistake but i want to fix things with him and i want to make him happy again. We both still really love each other but he wont get back with me. how can i get him to belive me when i say im sorry and i want to make things better? (link)
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You have to give him time to get over it. If he loves you as much as you say he does he will want to get back with you. I know this is going to sound negative but he also may not want to get back with you... especcially if you cheated on him. I hope this helps at least a little
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i am a bisexual, but i know nothing about how to tell if a guy is gay/bi or not. i know that there are certain things that let you know if a guy is gay/bi or not, but i dont know them. i really need help, cause i wanna hook up with someone, and i dont know how to tell if he is gay/bi or not. how can you tell if a guy is gay/bi?? (link)
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You can't just tell that someone's gay. They have to be comfortable enough with themselves to tell you that they are gay. If they say no when you ask them out that doesn't mean they are gay. Hope this helped at least a little.
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(Im 15 and female by the way darlings)
So there is this guy that started flirting with me a few weeks back, and I don’t know why. But anyway he is pretty much a player, and I keep telling myself that, but when ever I see him he is always a sweetheart and flirty to me. He is a senior too. And he is going to leave within like a week. But I don’t know what to tell him. He probably won’t even talk to me after he leaves. I want to tell him that I like him, but then I just become "just another girl" for him to add to his large collection. I like him for the guy he is when he is alone, because when he is around others he is like really flirty and perverted with everyone he sees. We text allot, but then again he texts just about everyone and their dog. When we text its like REALLY sexually oriented. But when we talk he is such a charmer, and nice and funny. When he is alone I think he seems so much more real, and not so full of an ego. He is really smart and we can talk about lots of stuff on the same level, unless its music, on several occasions we spent over a half an hour with him showing/teaching me about music on the piano in the back of the auditorium (play practice). It was a different person almost, and that’s what I like. I don’t know what I want, and I don’t know what he wants, but I really don’t want a broken heart because I am afraid he would break it (which is most likely)
He is just messing with me isn’t he? I can’t help myself but I don’t want him to know it
That’s why I think he flirts with me, because I didn’t fall head over heels for him when he started talking to me, and it makes me so angry to think I am a conquest of some kind. So it’s the Hard to get thing. He sees me as a challenge right? I keep telling myself that but I just can’t help myself. This is part of his charm.
just tell me what you think. I think I also have trust issues kinda bad. that might be part of it =) (link)
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Having trust issues is probably what is making you tell your self stuff thats negative about him, if you think of all the positive things maybe that would help you decide if you want to date him or not. Hope this helped!
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hey im 13 and was recentley going out with a girl that was a year above me i didnt tell her i was in the year below her even though her birthday is in august and mine is in october so there is two months difference when i told her i was 13 she dumped me but i kno she still loves me what can i do to make her trust me again and to get us back together x (link)
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Age shouldn't matter if she really loves you. If she is going to break up with you because your younger then she probably doesn't love you as much as she said she did.
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yes i had a boyfriend but my last one broke up with me because all his friends said i don't have big enough boobs how stupid is that now none of the guys will date me what do i do
14/f (link)
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Maybe if the boys can't accept you for who you are then none of them are worth your time anyway. Wait till you get older they will come around. Hope it helped.
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